idk how 2 rate ppl i really wanna rate ppl cuz they give good advice ut idk how!
Plz help!
Well, you cant rate unless you are a columnist
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Hey everyone.. well i need some advice here.. see my b/f is going away for 3/4 for labor day weekend, and i want to get him like a going away present, nothin too, i can't think of the word but you know, just something simple yet cute. i was thinking about getting a small box, not too small though, and decorating it, like maybe cutting out letters from magazines and make it say "i love you" or something. then in the box i want to put like hershey kisses in there and maybe a cute picture of me. then i wanna write like a little love note to put in the box as well. in the note i wanna say something along the lines of "this is since i can't be with you, since u can't have any kisses from me, or you won't be able to see me" but you know more detail, i wanna make it be almost a page long to make him feel special. and then at the end i'll use "xoxo hugs nd kisses" and stuff.. i haven't thought about everything i'm gonna put in the letter yet though. but anyways.. so i guess my question is, do you like my idea? (got it from somewer else though) or wut else can i do or put in the letter? also i was thinking about getting one of those big hershey kisses instead of a whole bunch of little ones but i'm not sure yet, which do you think would be better? oh also.. frame or no frame for the picture? i just wanna make him feel special, loved, ect.. i wanna let him know how much he means to me and how much i love him and am going to miss him over these days.. so any ideas would help me, thanks in advance and if you want rated ask. sorry if it's long Lol, bye.
That is a REALLY cute idea, just make the note say things that only you 2 would get about all the fun and stuff you've had together let it coem from the heart, give it to him and tell him to open it after he leaves or something, that way it doesnt melt and everything works out..
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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her?
Well I'm rebellious, if my parents dont want me to do something and I REALLY want it then I'll do it, like I wanted my lip pierced and they wouldnt let me get it done so I did it myself... Just take risks, but no do NOT peirce your own tongue, just show her thats the way you are and she needs to learn to deal with it, or you will keep acting that way? I dunno if that's how you are but it worked for me
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what do i do? my girlfriends's best friend hates me (or so i think)... (14/m) any advice is good, thank you
Try and talk to her best friend, try and get to know her or something and see why she hates you
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erk.... there's a banquet in honor of one thing or another (i wasn't really paying attention to what the heck my dad was saying) and there will be dancing. my boyfriend says he would love the honor of having the first slow dance with me. one problem is... i'm not sure how to slow dance. i mean i know where to hands go... but the feet positioning and the movement just kind of gets me. >_< please don't make fun of me. please help.
Just follow his lead and dont think about it and dont worry about it, it will all come naturally
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?
Pot isn't bad for you, it won't kill you or anything, it's just illegal, but if you don't want to do it or you are unsure about doing it then take some more time and really think about it, it's your choice no one else's
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him?
Your feelings for him wont automatically disappear you just have to give it time, and keep looking for another guy, once you find the guy you are interested in, the feelings you had/have for Mark will start to fade
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ok i'm kinda uncomfortable but i've been wondering...is it ok for me to want a vibrator?? cuz i've always wondered if they are more pleasurable and where can I get one? also--i'd prolly be WAAY too embarrassed to go buy one myself...is there anything i could use as a substitute?? (plz don't delete) someone plz answer, i rate high!
Try getting it offline if you are embarrassed to buy it, I'm not sure where they have them but try typing it in at google, I'm not sure if there's a substitute or not...
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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her?
Tell her that you are sorry but you aren't really in to all of that stuff, TELL her that you believe in him you just dont think he cares sometimes... And tell her that you'd rather not talk about it
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ok i have this guy friend,john, well john knows A LOT about me and we've been friends since like may, or something but anyways, he knows things about me that my friends that i've had since headstart and kindergarten dont even know! and hes like really hot and he has a girl friend and all but me and him are REALLY good friends, and anyways, the other day in class the was i was standing i could look at him and he wouldnt know, but im pretty sure i seen him checking me out, i mean he like looked at me from head to toe.. and he knows i think hes cute and all. and then today i was talking to him about his girlfriend and i asked him if he thought they'd be together for awhile and hes just like "yeah a long time" and i was just like oh cuz that was not the answer i wanted to hear, but i didnt tell him that, and then i said something about him flirting with other girls {meaning me cuz he "flirtz" with me all the time}and hes like idont flirt with other people and i go yeah you do and i was like u can flirt with people and not realize it and hes like no i know when and who i flirt with and like im starting to think i have absoluetly no chance with him now.. i dont know..what do you think i should do? oh and this morning he said i should go to church with him sumtime!! PLZ HELP!!! im 14, female
I think he knows that you are getting some sort of vibe from him and you think he likes you, and more than likely he does, he might be one of them guys that have a girlfriend but likes, and flirts with other girls at the same time, although he said he'll be with his girlfriend for a long time doesnt mean that you're out of the picture, you can kinda tell that he likes you, and he TRIES to make it so it's not obvious, he just doesnt want you to know, he wants to keep playing with your head because he doesnt want to screw anything up between him and his girlfriend if she was to ever find out...When guys tend to know alot about you they end up falling for you, that whole thing about "a boy and girl can just be friends but at one time or another they will both like eachother in a more than friend way" something like that, well that thing IS true, I've learned the hard way that most guys are like that... Just keep your head up and stay positive, there is ALWAYS a possibility that him and his girlfriend will break up.. Most of what I just said probably didn't make much sense to you, but yeah... sorry if it didn't help much :-|
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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable ..
Tell him off, lol, or stay away from him, avoid him at all costs
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Can Sex keep you in shape?
I've heard it's a really good workout but I'm not sure if it will keep you in shape or not..
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Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there?
They're still bad for you, just not AS bad...
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i have a 14g in my ear now, i want to go to a 6g does anyone have any advice for gauging my ears or cartilage??
My friend did hers on her own, shes up to a 2 now... she said it hurts alos... go to a place where they do it because she said they will probably make it hurt less... and I think it would hurt like hell if you gauged your cartilage...
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I have acne not too much just a bit so its okay I tried clearasil (didnt help) (stridex)didnt help what can i use to make my skin be clear before school which is in 2 days doesnt have to be right before it but just something to clear them up help please!
Soap and water!
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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?
Tell someone, or try and talk to her about it, because she shouldnt be hitting you
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What is it like the first time you have sex. Details like, does it hurt, etc. Thanks-- I rate.
It varies with different people, it hurts worse with some people than it does others, it a;; depends on the body type
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will you be considered a "nerd" if you wear glasses in highschool?
Nope :-)
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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?
Well if she minds that the baby's name would be named after her ex then maybe she should tell him that way they can both pick a name together that they both like and both agree on so that both parties are satisfied
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hey! I was wondering if anyone had a dance team at their middle school. 3 of my friends and I are starting one this year and are sort of like the coaches/captins cuz we have to make up the dances, do tryouts and all that. We didnt know how much we would really do with the dance team though cuz all the other teams at our school are just cheerleading (they cheer during the games and go to competition), baseball, soccer, and basketball. We knew we would try to go to competition, but if thats only a couple times during the year or whatever what else would we do?
When I was in middle school we had one, you could try like having a show somewhere like have a Christmas show or something, that way you are raising money, you're getting practice in front of audiences and you're having fun
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