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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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I have this friend, me her and 2 other friends had a possy. Then she got a boyfriend and started acting different. She got mean and I got to the point where I didnt even like to look at her. Me and my friends made inside jokes about her. But, the thing is, she still thinks im her best friend, and I don't know how to tell her im not.
13/F

You have to be completely honest with her just tell her your not sure if you really want to be friends because she`s being mean and changed. And just try to talk to her. ♥

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My boyfriend and i havn't been getting along lately. im also pregnant with his kid. He broke up with my twice over the name. although i told him i dont want to talk about the name until we find out if its a girl or a boy. Also i think he is mad because i dont want to have sex with him because i think the sex is boring and not fun. We fight like every day. he says i talk alot of shit but i dont. he left a mean comment on myspace saying i talk alot of shit. his dad spoils him so he always gets him way.

He`s just being cocky because he knows he can`t have sex and name the baby the name he wants. It`s both of your baby and you should decide on what you want. When you go into labor and you have the baby - the moment will be perfect to see the baby and know which name is perfect for it. Tell him how you feel. & You don`t have to have sex either, doing other things like oral might shut him up.. lol. ♥

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I really need some advise. Anything would be good. Please help me. I'm 16 years and I dated this guy about a year ago. Me and him were together for a long time. He was my most longest and serious relationship ever. Things got really rough in my family and just over all and I just didnt want a boyfriend at the time so i broke things off with him. It's been a year now and he is with another girl and I have never been more in love with him. I hate myself for breaking up with him and I wish I never did that. I told him how i felt but all he could say was that i hurt him way too much and that he is happy with his current girlfriend. I cry all the time, i miss him so much. I would do anything to be with him again. He is so mean to me. I think he hates me, even though he says he doesn't. It's been a year now that i have been going through this pain and i just cant take it anymore. How do i get over him. I've waited a year now for him. He just doesn't want me back. It hurts so much and I dont know what to do. Someone please help me!

First, I`m sorry. Getting over him is going to be really hard and it may take awhile or soon. Try going out with other guys and then start dating. I`m sure your ex though you were over him and wanted to move on and so he did. Tell him you are sorry and that you want to be friends and maybe the relationship wont be like it used to be but you care about him alot to stop talking to him and loose him. I hope things go well.. ♥

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14/f

My really good friend "kayley" has an older brother named "kyle". He's 17. yeah. Sure, 3 years won't be that much difference in the future... & i know that it probably wont happen for us now. What i'm really interested in hearing is, whether he's "into" me or not. He acts like it (from what i can tell) but the thing is, i'm so dense, that my friends laugh at me for it! We have a lot of fun together, just recently we had a light saber fight from star wars. haha. we gave each other massive welts from hitting so hard with the fake plastic light sabers. & sometimes we flirt.(

He does sounds like he is very flirty and into you. Wait for awhile and kid around more about dating and such then see where it goes. Try getting your friends to ask him things. :] ♥

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there's this guy right? well i never got the guts to talk to him when we were in school, and i barely got the guts to talk to him now!we got to know eachother a little better and i made laugh a tons of times! well we talked for an hour. and that was like a week ago. so why hasn't he messaged me?

He could be very busy and can`t get to it right away. Try messaging him first? or calling him. if he doesn`t respond back then ignore it and move on. Trust I know how it is and you deserve better if he doesn`t respond back.. ♥

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I have a problem!!! Somebody looked at porn on my computer, and it wasn't me! O no! They looked on google, and they used a website that you type in. Can somebody please tell me what to do so I can delete a porn website, and one on google!


Thanks a bunch!

Ok go to your internet explorer, on the top & click on the scroll down "TOOLS" all the way to the last one that says "INTERNET OPTIONS" and click on it. Then hit clear history, and above it hit delete cookies & delete files. After your computer should be empty with all that stuff you dont want. It should clear google but if it doesn't just leave a message in my inbox and i`1l try to help. :] ♥

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Is it normal to use objects, (pens, brush handles etc) while masturbating? Fingers don't really excite me but I want to make sure this is safe!

No it is really unsafe because you the objects aren't cleaned before you use them and if you get germs inside you can get infections and stuff. If you use something like that make sure you just clean it off when your done. ♥

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my bestfriend lets call her kate she's like so kool.but i don't think i trust her because she's starting to talk to my crush alot and flirting with him and not even knowing she's flirting! and i've talked to her about it and she says that she'll try to back off but she hasn't i told her she could talk to him but just not flirt with him and she's done this to me before and i've dealt with it. she's told me she's liked the same guy i like after i tell her i like him!!!!! it kind of gets mad...no it really gets me mad!! and she acts like good bestfriend and all, but in this case i hate her!!!! pease help me out with this problem....

You should really tell her how you feel. She`s suposse to be your best friend and she should understand. If she doesn`t stop then don`t be friends with her anymore because she`s not being a good friend.. Hope things work out. ♥

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15/f

Hey I'm having a sleepover at my house and we are planning to watch tons of movies.

What are some good ones? (so far we have Thirteen, Mean Girls and She's the Man)

Thankss! :)

Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, The Perfect Man, How to Deal, The Family Stone, Eurotrip & Wedding Crashers (both funny but rated R)& Pirates of the Carribean. That`s all I can think of right now. :] ♥

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When I meet new people, I`m myself.. happy, outgoing, loud :], and just me. When I meet guys It`s fine - I can get along with them and everything, but for some reason when I meet a new girl she hates me. Almost everyone I meet hates me. My friends "say" it`s beacuse I`m ` really pretty and they are jealous `. Could that be ? Could someone be jealous of another just by looks & how they first see someones personality. I have always been able to talk to guys, talking to them has NEVER been a problem for me.. could that be another reason why girls "hate/dislike" me ? Because guys get along with me ... ?


p.s. I love you quote site & your advice // they are both amazing.

Yes, I believe people judge people by the way they look before they get to know them. Girls are jealous because you get more attention from guys more. You sound like a nice person and not a stuck up person who is always mean to people and don`t care about them. Ignore the people that are mean too you. You`ll find your real friends like now that love you for who you are. :] Thanks for the compliment. :] ♥

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well school is about less than a month away. I'm going to be a freshman but I'm really nervous because of the grades being mixed together. I was just wondering from expierenced, is high school very different from middle school? and could someone just tell me like somethings i might want to know before I go? thankss.

Highschool is really different than middle school because you have different rules and more freedom. Starting highschool can be very scarey but it`s so much fun. Stick with your friends and be yourself. Don`t try to stick in with a crowd either. Just because your a freshman doesn`t mean you can`t hang out with upperclassman either because if your yourself then they will like you. Also upperclassmen hate when you call yourself a "freshie" and think your cooler lol. The first and last years of highschool will be your favorite and an important part of highschool. You will loose friends and gain friends. Go through more drama than middle school. Just take it slow and stick with your friends. I hope you like it. :] ♥

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Okay so my boyfriend is turning 17 in 3 days. Today i have to get him his present, only I have no idea what to get him. He is skater, (he ACCUALLY skates, unlike a lot of "skaters").
Any general ideas of what I can get a 17 year old?

Shirts/clothes and Giftcards have already been mentioned.

Any help will be appreciated!!

A gift card for his favorite store would be good. Or just ask him what he wants for his birthday. :] ♥

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all of the clothes i own are 100% cotton which shrink in the dryer up to nothing. i cant find any shirts that arent like that. for that reason, i cant put any of my shirts in the dryer. because of that, my clothes are all wrinkled. my mom refuses to iron and i tried to iron and i burned a hole in my shirt. i dont know what i can do to not make my shirts so wrinkly. please help!!

Wash the clothes then as soon as they get out of the washer put them on hangers and hang them in the shower stall or buy a dry cleaning rack for like 10 dollars at walmart. I do that and my clothes don`t wrinkle or shrink. :] ♥

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im a 16 year old confused girl... OK there is this guy i am crazy over. I absloutly love him. He says he does to but somtimes i have my doughts he is telling the truth because I saw he was flirting with some girl on-line...Like really bad. The thing is he is known to be very trusted and not to do things like that. Im afraid to ask him about it and dont know what to do.... What do you think?

You should tell him how you feel. Tell him it bothers you that he says things like he likes you and then goes online to flirt with another girl. If he doesn't start to shape up, get rid of him and find someone better. ♥

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are u supposed to shave ur vagina?

Most girls shave because it makes them feel more comfortable. You don`t have too. ♥

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i used to be friends with this group of girls that i hate now. two of them are trying to become my friends again but theyre a lot of trouble so i will not accept theyre friendship. but i cant stop thinking about it. do you have any advice for this situation?

They were once your friends and your feeling guilty because you are a good friend. Be honest with them and tell them that it bothers you because of the things they do. They should understand. Tell them you would if they didnt do as many bad things. ♥

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hey. my best friend is a guy. and i like him. a lot. but im always just a friend. and i have been all school year and all summer [at least so far]. do you have any tips on how to get him to like me? because im just dieing for him to notice me as more than just a best friend.

You can try to tease him or make him jealous. Maybe try going out with different guys. lol if not just tell you like him that way. ♥

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My mom says I can't cook, but I want to prove her wrong by cooking a good meal. Can someone give me an easy meal to cook?(directions included)

The first time I cooked, I cooked mac and cheese from the box with fries for a side dish. It easy and simple. Don`t go overboard with like ham or a huge meal. Making mac and cheese is really easy. Depending on how you want the mac and cheese-they have directions on the side of the box. Just make sure you turn off the stove and oven when you done! I used to do it alot and got in more trouble. :x. Hope this helps. :] ♥

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Today I went to my friend Lindsay's party. It was a swimming party, Lindsay's friend from another school, Ashleigh, was thier. All the boys love Ashleigh. Im so jealous of her. Im kind of fat, and they were forcing me in the pool. I just said that I had my period. Ashleigh calls out "I hate fat people." Everyone always does that to me and I neved know what to do. Any ideas?

Ugh I seriously hate people are like that. Just tell them to screw off. Or walk away. haha if it was me i would have probally said something mean back to her and embarresed her right back. Most of the time I ignore things like that and just hang out with my friends and have fun not caring what people think or say.:]♥

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ME And one Of My bestest Freinds Ever Are Drifting because shes been talking about me to one of my toher freind, and not stuf that was true, LIES that shes saying about Me And My Boyfriend , i was pretty upset when i found out because were supose 2 be the TWOOO BESTEST Freinds since 6th grade til now which is four years. and it really sucks because now i cant even tell her things because she runs her mouth behind my back , and even said she doesnt tel me anything anymore and doesnt want to [she said that to my other freidna bout me] which hurts, so what friendship is in that if i cant trust her, i cant tearn to her to talk to and she wont talk to me?? even tho i was there for her when she REALLYY needed it, now shes not here for me. what do i do? i havent asked her about what she said yet, because ive been not even trying to talk to her because it pisses me off thinking of it

She`s not being a friend. You can try talking to her and being completely honest tell her how you feel - if she doesn`t stop saying things then you don`t want to be friends. Or You can just stop talking to her for awhile and see if she notices. Trust is a very important thing in a relationship and if you don`t have then there isn`t a relationship. Hope things go well. ♥

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