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When I was younger, I liked this boy loads and I know he liked me back. When we moved up to high school, we were put in different classes. Now, although we stare at each other alot and talk every now and again, it's not the same. I still love him and I have a feeling that he still likes me too, but I don't know how I can get things back to be how they used to.
Next year we'll be sharing classes again and I would like to get back to being close to him. Should I let him go completely? If not, have any of you guys got any tips into how we could be close again?
Please help-I rate high!
You only have one life and during your life you can never get over a guy/girl. YOu might think you do/can but you don't. YOu should talk to him more often and ask him if you guys could hang out, or go to a movie, ask him about what movies hes seen lately etc
hope i helped
Since October last year, I haven't been having a proper lunch at school. At first it was because I just wasn't as hungry as I used to be and I didn't need to eat. Now, I do get hungry at lunch but I don't like bringing in a lunch from home and I hate queuing in the lunch hall to buy a school meal, I never have money to buy it anyway. My friends have started to comment on how thin I am getting, I have always had a slim build but now they say I am getting too thin. I can see what they mean, I am thinner but I haven't lost any weight at all. I don't think I am overweight or anything but they think I have an eating disorder. I know I don't, how can I get them to see that?
omg thats the exact same things my friends have told me im also not hungry very much and my friends say that i am way to thin and dont believe me etc. well maybe theyll just get it after a while, but theyll still ask you why arn't you eating, etc. also ask em why there not beliveing your word. NOTHING IS RONG WITH YOU i am in the same EXACT situation. but also maybe their just jelous of the type of body you ahve, etc
i told this guy i liked him and he told me he likes me. well we are unable to go out cause of his grades in school and because he can't have a gf right now. to make the situation better i was told i should hug him. and i have been he gives me hugs and i give him hugs. what more can i do?!
your that same girl about the tuching and cuddling and likewhoa arnt you
i know a lot of people are asking you these questions..but here it goes
vday is MONDAY! and my bf derek..weve been going out for a year and like we usually get eachother ..50$ stuff but his family is kind of low in money and i dont want him to feel bad like cause hes getting me a 20$ gift and i said i was guna get him like 40$ and he got mad but anyways i dont want to give him a photo album..cause i read peoples answers.. i already got him a necklace and braclet and cologn..i was guna give him my diary to read that ive been writing in for a while but i DEF. need something else so dont just say only the diary please. i dont know what else to get him. like tshirts are hard to find for him and yeah. please help! thanks
maybe something like a promise ring but dont spend 50 bucks on it cause tahts way to much and still is forty just try to not get one too cheap but not way over the top expensive
okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.
-birthday girl
i think she was going through a rough time then but im sure she has forgotten about it
okay there is this guy i really like, sam, i've liked him for a long time, yeah i told him, hes all like i like you alot but maybe we should star friends for now but who no's what can happen... well we are REALLY good friends now we talk all the time he always lylas which kills me!!!!!!!!!! it makes me sad anyway
valentines is coming up... well im not sure if i should get him anything... what do you think and if you think i should get him somthing what should it be?!?!? PLEASE HELp i rate high
you should give him a friendship/love card that represents your friendship and gives him a hint that you really like him maybe then he'll understand and give you a chance
my friend has a crush on the same guy i like but she doesnt know i like him and i dont want to tell her cuz im afraid if he finds out then we wont be like best friends anymore i really really like him and now i think that shes gonna ask him out im dont know wut to do i really like this guy!!!!!!
MaDlY iN LoVe!!!
You should probably confront your friend and if your friend gets all angry and stuff she isn't a good friend cause you can't help it if you like someone
long story short i went to my school dance tonight w/o a date and started to talk to this really sweet guy. he bought me candy, and danced w/ me......and i dont know him much. so....im confused. i dont know if i like him or not. how cn u tell?
You probably have mixed feelings about him happens to people a lot your just not quite sure if you like him or not you can tell if you spend more time with him and get to know him
i am in seventh grade and i am am taking algebra. im not doing so well. its a hight shcool credit class and i have like a 77. thats not good. i get to add seven points because im taking it before high school and when i add seven points thats my grade for my gpa but i would like to be making a 90 or above atleast with the seven. i try so hard. like i feel confident and i check over my work and it all seems right but i alway get stuff wrong like i always get 70s on thye tests. and i hate it. today we had 20 minutes to do a really hard 6 question quiz. it so wasnt enough time. i didnt even get to answer two questions. but i know for a fact i got the bonus right so the highest i can make is a 72. i am stressing out so much. i try i really do i need to bring up my grade. right now were learing about systems of eqautions and stuff. ill have a test sometime next week and ill need to geta 95 or above to satisfy myself. i need to bring up my grade. can some help me learn to ace theese thests and quizs??? i really hate algebra!! please can you help??
im really good in math but when i took algebra it was a little different for me first i got a C then B then A you have to study alot and UNDERSTAND THE CONCEPT, but ask the teacher if you can do some extra credit work that can bring up your grade or go to him/her for after school sessions help with algebra
Hey everyone. I have my own column, but I can't answer my own question. I met a guy online back in May or around that time. We didn't talk much until now, and we've gotten soooo much closer. We both think we're soulmates and meant for each other. Even though I haven't met him, I feel this connection, and it's really cool. I just don't know what to think though, because I hear all those stories on the news and everything, and it really scares me. What if he's a rapist or a serial killer or something?! I really don't think he is, because of some of the conversations we've have, but there's always that chance. I just want to know you're opinions on this, and what I should do about it. Is there anyway I can find out he's really 16 w/o actually meeting him? Thx in advance, sorry about the length. Happy Holidays 2 everyone!
Shortie8959
there is a good chance that he is just playin it and if he didnt send you any pics of him then he is a rapist something like taht im pretty sure but i think he might be someone who is not what you think
Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?!
dont give him chickensoup or pasta he would be uncomfortable with that idea just give him a feel better card
My mouse is obese. I don't know what to do--I put her in an exercise ball and she just sat there (I don't think she knew what to do). I don't want to give her less food because I'm afraid she'll starve. What can I do to make my mouse lose weight? note--I've tried gerbil wheels on other mice, but they sometimes get caught and die so I'm afraid to use it.
i have a guinea pig thats also obese lol but tehy do get pretty fat for winter but i mean if you dont feel comfortable with your mouse take it to the vet
I babysit my 3 year old niece and she gets on my nerves and i don't get paid for it and my sister makes me babysit .
What should i do?
tell the truth to your aunt say that she's a pain in the @$$ and you think that you should get paid
I have had my navel pierced since last july and right now it is so infected that it hurts to touch any where near it. any advice?
you need to see a doctor immediately or else your intestents will be infected pretty shortly
i dont know i guess you could say im not really a girly girl so im kinda tough with the guys and they all think of me as one of the guys but im getting tired of that and i want a boyfriend im always mean to them what are some ways i can be nicer to them
if you want a bf just dont look desperate and try to be more outgoing and not as shy
ok i am 15 do u think that its ok for kids my age to be dieting? is there diets that u've tried and actualy worked becided working out? people tell me im getting fat and i want to drop a few. thanks
of course you can diet but rather excersise then take diet pills bc there very dangerous for your body system
What do you predict will be in style for the Spring this year?
uch you shouldnt care about those things take it day by day lets just say you hate foa fur and for spring the new thing is foa fur you shouldn't buy it bc you want to be 'in' just wear w/e you like
i'm thinking about dying my hair...
i have pretty pale skin, light brownish/blonde...it's VERY VERY dull looking hair, and brown eyes.
first of all, what color do u suggest i get to flatter myself..
second of all, should i get it foiled at a hair salon? does that make it last longer??? ADVICE PLEASE!!!
if you just want to experiment hair dyes w/o dying your hair permanent buy some semi-permanent hair dye and test it out it last for 1-2 weeks sometimes maybe a little over or under but probably a blonde
I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!
hmmm he might be interested in you and wants to be a closer friend with you
A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
thanks for the help
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you can still talk to them but i dont think you should hang out with them that much and join a new clique etc