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What does fingering mean? (link)
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finguring is when the guy/gurl who ever or whate ever floats ur boat sticksthere fingers into your vigina and moves in a motion that he would do if he was having sex with you he may also play with your clitouris while his fingers are inside of you hope i helped
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i am a f/13 well i was just wondering what kind of soap do you use to clean "down there" like regular pink bar soap, or what??
i cant buy that special soap thats made for the vaginal area, but what can i use??? (link)
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def def wash done there soap is fine you dont need any special things beleive it or not your vigina is the most cleanest part of your body it cleans itself so just regular soap is fine
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I went out last week with this guy I have huge crash for a while.
We made out, and he called the next morning to applogize whatever he did, and doesn't want me to have the "wrong idea".
I don't think I ever want him to be my bf, but what he did/said actually hurts my feeling. I'm not sure I want to talk to him again, but there's this feeling inside of me wanting to go out with him again.......
what should I do?
(I felt he took advantage of me, just because he knew I really like him but obviouly he doesn't like me enough to consider my feeling.............) (link)
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maybe your getting the wrong idea you know maybe he applogized for it because he didnt want to hurt your feelings but he obviously was attracted to you if he kissed you and if he wanted to use u im sure he wouldve tryed to do more than kiss you think did you act weird after he kissed you cause if you did than maybe thats why he called but if you didnt i would really think do you want him or not you know cause you dont want to be played hope i helped goodluck
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Okay uhm...
Lately, I've been looking at porn a lot.
Specifically lesbian stuff.
Videos, pics, anything.
I just wanna know...
Is this normal?
Cause I'm a 15 yr old girl.
You wouldn't think I 15 yr old girl would be interested in that kinda stuff.
Idk why I do it.
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Is it normal?
Is it perverted?
Is it wrong?
Is it weird?
HELPP!! (link)
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no no no its not wrong its completely normal i watch porn all the time its completely natural and healthly im not even gonna lie i even masturbated to it lol every body has watched or seen porn at least once and i would sometimes rather watch gurl on gurl it could mean that im bi curious but hey im just keeping an open mind ive kissed gurls and stuff so dont worry porn is porn watch it as much as you want hope i helped
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is it possible to get pregnant if u get raped? (link)
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yes it very possible to get pregent when ur raped it could acutally be a higher chance because i dout there pull out or use any protection and i hoped you didnt get raped because its a horrible thing hope i helped
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okay so i'm a little scared i'm 13f and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me and i havn't even started my period yet and i'm afraid if i have it with him something bad might happen can someone please help me i'm afraid. (link)
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please please dont make the same mistake that so many other gurls do your 13 you dont need sex right now and if your boyfriend pressing you end it with him because hes not respecting you respect yourself wait until your ready you havent even got your period and there are so many complications that come afterwards and you need to be ready emotionally as well and remeber once you loose it your never get it back so think wisely good luck i hope i helped
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what is a wet dream? do girls and guys get them? (link)
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a wet dream is very normal its when you get or got exiceted in your dream and yeah gurls can have one i have some all the time because i always have an active imagination lol so dont worry if you wet dreams its health and everybody has had at least one
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Me and my best friend started talking to one of my "ex's" friends. He's 5 years older than us, but at the time he was 18. We started talking to him more and more and we all became close friends, even though he lives in a different state we loved him as our friend. Me and him were very close, i've always had feelings for him but I tried not to show it, i didn't want him thinking it was so teenage girl crush on an older guy, it was more than that. At time he'd yell at me, telling me i was "too young, and he didn't feel the same way i felt for him." This made no sense to me because I never said I did have those kind of feelings for him, it was just a sudden outburst from him. We wouldn't talk for a couple of months then we would start again, and then the same thing happened once again. I was "annoying" and blah blah blah. My best friend didn't understand was he was talking about either, we only talked to him when we were together, and I'm not that kind of person at all.
Now that I'm much, much older I think he feels more comfortable with me and my best friend, he tells us alot, personal things, it makes us stronger. He calls me beautiful all the time, and he's soooo cute =]
SO then again, we start talking again. One night he admits that he's in love with me and the reason why he was pushing me away because I was too young and it didn't feel right to him, but now that i'm getting older it was ok. He said he'd wait for me because I was planning on going to a college near him. He's not a creep/psycho anything like that, hes the sweetest person I've ever known in my life. But after that he starts ignoring me again, it just confuses the hell out of me. He told my friend that i'm "annoying" and that he remembers now why he stopped talking to me in the first place, nice huh? Well I'm not sure what to do, I haven't talked to him but all I want is to talk about that night. Any advice? (link)
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well he sounds like hes playing mind games hes 5 years older than you are right so you cant be two you if you were younger than 16 than maybe but if hes just gonna keep pushing you away you dont need it your falling for him and he said hes falling for you but he doesnt show it and calls you annoying so i would do the same push him away before you get to involed and hurt you know its obouius that he cant make up his mind and he said he would wait for you but it seems your the one waiting does he want you or not you know what i mean just push yourself away slowly and tell him if im so annoying than why call me im not just some doormat that you can walk all over hope i helped goodluck
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I am looking after this 6 year old. He is lovely. However, the mother recently left. I've been needed over a lot more to help out because his dad is really upset. After i've put the son to bed i go down and drink coffee with Brain (the dad). I can tell he really needs someone to talk to and we sometimes talk for ages. I dont want it to become inappropriate though so the conversation is usually quite censored. We talk about Tom (son) and about whether his wife has called. Thing is, we've become quite close. He's a really young dad but i dont want to split up a family or anything, so i would never initiate anythin. Thing is, he kissed me. It was completely random and he apologised loads afterwards. He said it was really wrong of him and he didnt want to loose me because im the only one he can talk to and ive helped out so much. We talked afterwards, my idea, i didnt want things to be awkward. He told me he liked me but would never want to put pressure on me and never intended on telling me.
I like him too. Its awful isnt it~? im a really bad person. But he's married. Its been 5 months since she's left and she hasnt called. And me and brian are becoming closer and closer "friends". nothings happened since, but i know if i wanted it to i could. I get on so well with Tom and i cant help thinking my morals are making me make the biggest mistake of my life (link)
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NO your not a bad person she hasnt called and havent been back in 5 mounths i think the relationship is pretty much over you know but take it slow and see what happens still talk to him and let him know that you like him but you want to take it slow until the whole wife thing blows over and it seems like he likes you but dont do anything to dramistic until you know that you wont regret it. hope i helped goodluck
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girl, 15. Me and my mate have known eachother since nursery. But the past 6 months we have been really close. He's a he btw. He slept round my house the other night, like he always does. My mum doesnt like other boys sleeping over but she is ok with him. we were watching a film and we were all cuddled up and i felt all happy and i kissed his cheek (somethin we do all the time) but somethin felt different, like, somethin changed. He looked at me and before i knew it we were making out. One thing led to another and we had sex and afterwards it was dead awkward. I just sed "i think you should go" and he left with out a word. we aint spoken since and its well awkward. i dont wanna loose my best friend! pleas help you seem dead honest x (link)
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ok well do you like him as more than just a friend if you do than i think that you two need to have a serious talk and if you just want to be just friends than of course its gonna be awrkard and its always gonna be arward but if your willing to forget it than so should he and tell him what you told me that you dont want to loose his friendship and if he wants to be asshole than fuck him you dont need that shit you know you made a mistake and your just trying to learn from it and if he cant execpt it than maybe you put to much into the friendship you know. hope i helped
thanx for your question ill be happy to help anytime
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Okay,
im not usually the type to ask for help but in this situation im soooo helpless.
So theres this boy in my life that i have been crushing on for the past 6 months and he totally knows i like him. at times i think he likes me too but im not certain. im always thinking of something to say or do for him to notice me. is that wrong? or what can i do or say to him to make him want/talk to me more? (link)
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just be yourself and start small talk like how was your weekend hows every thing going tell him jokes or funny things that happend to you and if he knows you like ask him to hangout and flirt flirt flirt but not necessary sexual flirt you know and be carefull that he doesnt play mind games because in my experiece guys love to play mind games and if you think he is its best to be straight forward instead of thinking and hoping he likes you and beiging left out in the dark i hope i helped goodluck
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i dont know if im ready to lost it. but i just wanted to know when do you bleed and how badly does it hurt? like do you bleed after, or while its going on? someone please tell me!!! (link)
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only you can decide when your ready you know no you dont bleed alot sometimes you dont bleed at all but it depends how tight you are to see how bad it hurts everybodys different but remeber only you can decide if your ready there are plenty of problems and responsibltys when you have sex and your'll never get that part of you back so think about it before you do it goodluck i hope i helped
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what is love (link)
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only you can answer that question its hard to explian it when you find somebody who completes you who makes up your whole being heart body and soul than your know what love is but theres a diffence between loving somebody and beging in love with some body hope i helped
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ok well when i watch porn i prefer to watch lesbian girls make out than girls and guys. but im attracted to guys and not girls. ive had sex with my boyfriend and it was very plesurable. but ive never made out with a girl. does this mean im bi? or should i maybe try it out with a girl and see how it works out??
i need help =/ thanks in advance (link)
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well i would rather watch gurl on gurl than guy on gurlsometimes but that doesnt mean ur bi or did you think that maybe your bi curious and if you are theres nothing wrong with it expereiment extent your surroundings lol
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ok so me and boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we both want to have sex but im scared that i will get pregnant i cant let this happen and hes really cool about not doing anything but i want to im jst kinda scared. (link)
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well theres really nothing to stop you from getting pregent except not having sex but you can try bith control and to be really safe use a condom but before he comes tell him to pull out
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Ok male 17 and i am tring really hard to stop masterbating so often but i cant seem to do it any tips? thanks (link)
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simple question simple answer get a lover or somebody to do it for you so than theres no need
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i am 15 i have been sexual active since june 28 and i have had sex alot with my boyfriend but all of the sudden we cant have sex that long because it hurts me. and now my boyfriend has noticed that around my clit its really red and under the lips or whatever its really sensetive and it kind of burns when i touch or he does
please help (link)
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i think that you should go see a doctor because maybe you've been having to much sex so ur obviouly irritated check it out before it gets worse
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My dad died in october and stuf... and this guy i really liked and once went out with, his name is zach, went to his funeral. at the time i was dating his brother trace , haha. and trace told me that zach only went to my dad's funeral to get out of school for the day.
this made me angry and hurt me really badly. i didnt show it at the time and idk why but i still like him. any ways now several months later hes saying stuf like he thinks he likes me and hes shown some jelouse moments and yeah. one day i asked him if he went to my dads funeral just to get out of school and he said kinda
so hes on and off liked me and i dont know what to do!!! if he ever asks me out again should i saay yes or no???
would it be disrespectful to my dad ???
idk wat to do!!!!! (link)
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before i start im sorry about your dad!!!!!!!!!!! anyway well that is fucked up but he was honest and your dating his brother so i wouldnt keep going bac and forth you know but if you really think that you and him can last than do what your tells you to you know but remeber take it slow and dont rush into things goodluck and i hope it works out for the best but i would also make sure you tell him how much he hurt you when he went to your fathers funeral for the wrong reasons
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My best guy friend has this friend that's a girl that I highly dislike. They weren't friends from August til now. I think they're starting to be friends again, which really sucks for me. The reason he stopped being her friend in August was because she would keep bringing him places far away, like theme parks, etc. Then she'd leave without him knowing. I always went and got him, even when it was about 2 hours away. Why he wants to be her friend again I do not know. :/ How can I deal with this? For some reason it bothers me very much, to the point where I cry every night, hyperventilate and what not. I have told him, so what else can I do? Thank you. (link)
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your right he should deff choose his friends better because your always the one picking up the peices and wasting money on gas but maybe you should also think about your friendship he maybe your best friend but it sounds to me like you might like him more than a friend considering you cry and hypovenulate over him and tell him that your not going to always be there to pick up the pecies and if you want to be friends than go head but remeber when you get stuck or straded dont call me and if you like him as more than a friend maybe it time for a more serious talk about your friendship i hope i helped goodluck
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well for the past year i have been seeing this guy over the net the thing is we both love other more than life i go onto his myspace or bebo and they will have commets from other girl and him replying to them in the same way he replys to my txts messagers i have confronted him about this he said someone else was useing he's account i really dont belive him guys all he mates says he users it when i see the commmets hes let for some other girls it makes me cry when i hang up the fone i cry when im on the phone to him he always says stuff like i would never play you i love you i wanna marry you he says that he has never said anything like that to anyone but i dunno im lost but in love help me ?? (link)
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well it is the computer but than again he is a guy and i think your 100% right he could just be playing mind games with u i mean the evdince is right there in front of you and do you only talk to him on the computer than if so than i think that you should try to redirect your heart else where somewhere local because of what experenice and know longdistance or computer phone or whatever relationships always end badly so if thats the cause than i would deff try to back out slowly you know before you really fall and end up regretting it later.and remeber guys no matter who they are love playing mind games so if says that hes not a playing and gets all devfenses than most likely he is plus you have the evidence right there in front of you hope i helped goodluck
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