I went out last week with this guy I have huge crash for a while.
We made out, and he called the next morning to applogize whatever he did, and doesn't want me to have the "wrong idea".
I don't think I ever want him to be my bf, but what he did/said actually hurts my feeling. I'm not sure I want to talk to him again, but there's this feeling inside of me wanting to go out with him again.......
what should I do?
(I felt he took advantage of me, just because he knew I really like him but obviouly he doesn't like me enough to consider my feeling.............)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? mizz_me answered Monday January 8 2007, 3:26 pm: well realli n truly i fink that it may have jus been a moment thing...where everyfin jus gets intences and it cums az a spur of da moment...dun be tooo hung up on it doe..i kno he hurt ure feelings but ppl like dat cum and go and ure likely to meet more pplz like dat so dun dwell on it tooo much..and dat feeling dat ure having could simply be lust...thats probably wat he waz feelin wen he kissed u..truss derez plently more boys out dere ;) hope my advice waz a lil bit usefull ;) [ mizz_me's advice column | Ask mizz_me A Question ]
twistedlover69 answered Monday January 8 2007, 2:21 pm: maybe your getting the wrong idea you know maybe he applogized for it because he didnt want to hurt your feelings but he obviously was attracted to you if he kissed you and if he wanted to use u im sure he wouldve tryed to do more than kiss you think did you act weird after he kissed you cause if you did than maybe thats why he called but if you didnt i would really think do you want him or not you know cause you dont want to be played hope i helped goodluck [ twistedlover69's advice column | Ask twistedlover69 A Question ]
xocrazyyaboutyou answered Monday January 8 2007, 2:01 pm: guys can be extremely low sometimes and just want to do stuff with you without having to take responsibility for it. so he got to make out with u and have a good time without having to worry about it and he clearly wanted you to know that he didnt want you to think it was anything more than just a makeout by calling you to tell you that.
- for example i know exactly how your feeling bcuz i went out with this guy but wen he broke up i still had feelings with him and he still had feelins for me but he didnt want to go out wit me he just wanted to make out with me and do stuff but not have to worry about my feelings. it completely crushed me because he knew i liked him.
-its okay to still have that feeling inside of you wanting to go out with him again. thats how you feel when you care about someone or have a "crush" on someone. if you dont want to talk to him anymore dont. its good that you dont want your feelings hurt anymore. Tell him what he did was wrong and that he cant just makeout with you. its all of you or none. or just ask him if he cares about you.
-if he doesnt then its best that you just move on, im sorry that a guy would do that to you, because i kno what it feels like to have that done to you.
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