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Hello everyone. My name is Kimmy. I'm 17/female just incase anyone is wondering. I just put a new layout on my myspace from this site called freecodesource.com or something like that. It's really cute. It has a kitten on it and it's blue. I'm not really good at myspace and changing things, so that was the first time I changed the layout. Anyway, my problem is that the information in my survey, the about me section, and the left side of the page is in a black font. Probably from before cuz I had a black and blue playboy bunny layout. So the only way people can easily read the stuff on my myspace is if they highlight all the information, and I doubt they'd wanna do that. So I was wondering how I could change all that stuff so that way ALL the words including the survey could show up in like White for example. Or any other color that you think might look good. If anyone can somehow help me, please let me know!! I doubt I could even do this by myself cuz I don't wanna have to redo my whole myspace. Someone else made my myspace for me a long time ago, but I don't talk to her anymore. if I really had to I'd give someone my password on here to help fix it, and I'd change it afterwards if I had to. If anyone's willing to try and help please let me know asap. Thank you so much. Sorry so long. (link)
put some html like this "write what you want here" and then type you don't need the quotations around what you want to type...but thats the easiest way to do it...if you want a different color fill in another color for white.



I'm hoping someone will able to help me.

Well I took a sudden interest in Parapsychology the problem is I live in the U.S and I've heard that there arent many colleges that focus much on Paraspychology,and most dont even have it as a course.I was wondering if any of you can give me a list of universities or colleges that offer parapsychology,or related courses in the U.S?
I'd appreciate it.

[Im Still in highschool but I thought I'd get a headstart on looking for colleges just incase this doesnt work out I can always choose to do study something else before its too late.]

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go to the websites of schools your interested in...they should have a course list...if parapsychology is on there then great...but I should warn you that many colleges don't teach it mainly because it's what they call a pseudoscience...false science...there is no scientific truth to parapsychology...thus making it a false science...hey don't think I'm harshing on your rights to study the paranormal...I'm a ghost hunter myself...I'm an avid member of my towns local ghost hunting society...but I really would suggest going overseas if you want to study parapsychology...it's just not something we offer in america too often.


i have alot of friendssss
and a couple of great best friends
but none of them are really like me.
i hate to use this label but they're "preppy"
and idk
how do you make new friends? (link)
you should be happy with the friends that you have...my friends and I are nothing alike at all but thats what makes us such great friends...if you really want to find new friends get involved with stuff you like at school or in the community...you'll meet people who share similar interests and you'll have something to talk about with them...give that a try...but remember...make new friends but keep the old...


Can someone please help me find knee length leggings like the girl in the first picture has at an inexpensive price

links would be great

thanks (link)
try wet seal, target, wal-mart, american eagle(they had some...idk if they still do), Kohls, abercrombie, hollister, sears has some too...just check out stores like that...you should find what your looking for.


ok i know its probably impossible to answer without specific details but here it goes
yesterday at the mall i heard a rolling stones song in one of the stores
its very popular i remember hearing it alot of times people.
most likely on either rock or classic radio stations
(my parents)
i was planning on downloading it
BUT I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT ITS CALLED.
do you think you can give me some popular rolling stone songs?
thanks so much!
-adam 15/m (link)
I Can't Get No(Satisfaction)
Start Me Up
Paint It Black
Beast Of Burden
Honky Tonk Women
Angie
Sympathy For The Devil
You Can't Always Get What You Want
Wild Horses
Get Off of My Cloud..those are just a few...if none of those are it message me


Do you know any websites were I can find /unusual/ looking furniture and bedspreads?
Or anything with bright neon colors paired with black?
Thanks (link)
target and wal-mart actually have some really cool stuff...I'd also look at pbteen.com and ikea.com...they'll probably have something too!


ok i'm trying to lose weight but i cant seem to stay motivated and i really really want to lose weight and you might say i'm dont since i cant stay motivated but i really do and i just cant saty motivated any suggestion/tips for me that'd be great please and thanks in advance (link)
set a goal for yourself...a smaller clothing size...dessert once a week if you lose weight...a great bikini ready body...something that will really make you want to try hard...dont wait as long as i did...I didn't have any motivation until I was diagnosed with diabetes...that was a jump starter for me to start losing weight...don't wait until it gets there...but while your exercising just keep saying to yourself that with just a few more pounds gone you can wear that size or eat that dessert you've been craving...but make sure it always stays in the back of your mind while dieting and exercising.


yes, i know every girl dreads their period.
i never did because i never got cramps.
all of a sudden this period i've gotten cramps.
and it hurts SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad.
what do i do to get rid of them?
i'm having a little bit of trouble breathing and obviously it hurts like hell. help please! (link)
try some midol or pamprin...they work great...but every girl gets them at some point...just take some good pain relievers and it will ease up.


Im going to state quickly that Im not trying to be a jerk.

Your most recent answer was to a question about pot. You stated that it can cause coma, liver or kidney failure, heart and lung disease.

This is not factual information. Especially relating to substances that the person who is asking might be inclined to do, it is not a good idea to give out information that you dont know to be true.

On many subjects it cannot hurt but specifically with information on drugs it is better to offer no information at all than of the inaccurate kind. Please leave the answering of questions like this to those who are more experienced and informed in the future.

And just so you know, marijuana carries the possibility of making existing conditions worse (such as if you already have heart disease) but it cannot cause coma, kidney failure, or liver failure. Marijuana has the same physical side effects as smoking cigarettes, however because cigarettes are usually smoked in a far larger and more regular amount the risks of lung/throat cancer and heart disease associated with smoking something are overall lesser.

Please do research on a topic such as this before providing advice (to people who are possibly younger than you and who would take such information on faith) (link)
I have friends that do pot...i've tried it...I did a fucking report on it with factual information from people who actually know what they're talking about so please don't give me some bullshit about how I shouldn't give advice on stuff that I don't know about...chances are your a fucking pothead...you probably think pot is the best fucking shit in the world...guess what...it can put you into a fucking coma...one of my best friends had it happen to him...so don't give me some shit about not knowing what I'm talking about...so go shove a blunt up your ass.


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ok just so you know...I was there with my friend in the hospital...he's not lying...I don't appreciate you saying some of that shit you said...ok...seeing him there tore me to pieces and I don't think you have any idea what your talking about...go to the fucking library...look up a book on pot and it will tell you that the worst thing pot can do is put you into a coma...no it wont kill you...yes it can cause early stages of certain diseases, and yes if you have something it will make it worse...so don't give me your crap about how your so high and mighty and know everything...when you see your best friend lying in a hospital in a coma for 3 days from smoking too much pot then talk to me...but until then you have no reason to say anything to me because I was there and you weren't...I saw him suffer and you didn't...so there is nothing you could say to me to change my mind because I know what happened to him.


I need a non biasis answer. Is pot actually bad for you? I do not smoke, and I do not believe that I will ever. Someone close to me does and seeing that person high botheres me. To hear them talk about, be around it, or etc. bothers me. I think its wrong.. maybe I think its wrong because its against the law buuut I know its legal in other parts of the world.. so they wouldn't make it legal if it harmed you, would they? I just need some good advice on this... Am i overreacting when bothered about pot? (link)
well its good and bad...I don't smoke pot either...but it has medical advantages and disadvantages...it really helps people with glaucoma...it opens up the eyes so people see clearer...it has also been said to make the mind more alert...pot is one of the few drugs that wont kill you...the worst it will do is put you in a coma...but it can cause heart and lung disease as well as kidney or liver failure and several other things...for me personally the goods out weigh the bads...if your friend is just doing pot let them know about the risks but I wouldn't show too much concern...doctors give it to their patients..it must do something good...but if it really bothers you step in and tell them how you feel about it.


we had a big fight and she wont forgive me i think she hates me WHAT DO I DO?





Sad and Concerened (link)
Give her some space...you just got in a fight...sure she might seem upset now...but trust me...she'll come around...and it's not the end of the world...take a deep breath...go to sleep and give her some time alone...I promise everything will be fine...and she doesn't hate you.


where can you buy free webcams? Target? WAlmart?



oh and if you webcan yourself with a webcam and you start talking and post it in youtube will they hear you? or will they just see you moving because I DONT HAVE A MIC? Do you have to have a mic to be heard through a webcam like when you sing with a webcam for example are you heard when you post it? thanks (link)
well if you have to buy it it's not free...but you can get webcams at target, walmart, office depot, best buy...anywhere with an electronics section...but I'd suggest an electronics store...and unless you get a cam with a mic they aren't going to be able to hear you...but even the cams with mics...the mic isn't any good...I'd suggest getting a camera and a mic and using them together rather than getting a joint one.


14/f

Ok so last year I met this girl and she's my best friend. We laugh a lot and have fun together. I've never had a real best friend because all of my friends turn their backs on me. But she's not like that.. lets call her Jane

Recently, Jane has been obsessed with boys... and I know that it's normal at this age... but this is just getting out of control. She's crushing on 3 different guys!!!

guy #1- her neighbor, she says that he is only a friend... but constantly wants to see him and spend time with him

Guy #2- Her ex, they've been together for about 1 or 2 months... He's one of my friends. He's always talking about her, and she's spending time with him

Guy #3- 1 year older than her, she just met him... I met him, he's very funny and nice. She calls him a lot on his phone and is always looking forward to seeing him at church.

GAH!! It's driving me insane!! I really like Jane as a best friend and I don't want to lose my friendship with her.. but it's just sooooooooooooo annoying because she is always talking/seeing/watching boys

I've confronted her about this, about 5 times, and I told her that I'm so annoyed that she is obsessed with boys. I keep asking her who she truely likes and she can't crush on 3 guys. She tells me " I know, I know, I know... but I like all of them and I don't know who i like the most!!!"

So for about 4 days, I've been ignoring her... because I want nothing to do with her life right now.

Is there anyway I can get her to focus on me more, and less on boys?? Or change her mind about them?

I need advice! (link)
She's a teenage girl...we don't change our mind about boys...and she can have as many crushes as she wants...don't try to make her pick one...but if she's specifically dating one remind her to look but don't touch...if she's really ignoring you just to stare at guys tell her that you miss spending time with her and that you all need to hang out more...but don't try to tell her what she can or can't do...that will just upset her...let her be a girl...we can't help our obsessions.


im 15 and im gonna be a freshman and i dont really know what i want to wear. i dont want to wear a skirt. i think i wanna wear like skinny jeans, or jean capris. i'm kinda preppy i guess, i shop at like abercromnbie, a little hollister, urban behavior, forever 21, macys. (link)
ok...I'm a senior...and I remember my first day of high school...I tried so hard to look cool...when in reality all i did was stand out...all of the freshman really looked like freshman...HS is so laid back...it's really a t-shrit, hoodie, jeans type of place...those who try to hard look really out of place...where something that you like thats comfortable...don't try to look great for the first day...just wear what you would normally wear anywhere else...school is no different.


ok well i always have these sweat marks on my shirts in my underarm area! n i dont stink but it always happens i use deoderant (dove) but it doesnt help with it..??!!!!! i dont know what to do about it school starts on monday and its imbarrassing to have!! any time i raise my arm you can see it.!!!! how can you get rid of it or does anyone no what i can use?!!!! please help!!!!! (link)
it's from hormones...it's summer, it's hot, and we sweat...maybe the deodorant your using isn't strong enough...try the new Secret Clinical...its what I used this summer and it works great...I think it will really help you...if it still doesn't work explain to a doctor whats going on and they can prescribe you a super strong deodorant/antiperspirant.


i bought a bunch of stamps before they changed the prices now theyre like $.41 or somethin. anyways, can i still use the old ones? i hope i didnt waste my money? do i just put two on an envelope? (link)
yes they're still good...but you don't need to use two...just go to the local post office and get some 2 cent stamps...put one of the .39 cent stamps on there and one of the .02 cent stamps on there....but while your out you might want to consider getting the new stamps that work no matter how high the price of stamps get...they cost the current stamp price but even when stamps go up they can still be used without additional stamps.


Okay well Me and my cousin Jill hang out with these girls Erin, Erin, Marissa, and Danielle.
well today we were planning a sleepover For tongiht And Everything and Then Like Out of No where They are Like, I am tired I think we Should Do it another night. But I just Looked at There Away messages and they are All having a Sleepover without Me and Jill.

By the way, This isnt the first time it happened, Its actually the 4th I talked About it to Them, the First TWO Times it Happened. and They flipped out on me. SO right Now i am confused I mean i wanna Tell them how i feel But They Keep on Flipping out on Me.

My Friend Heather used to be Friends with Them but Stopped Because they Kept doing This is to her too. I mean I kinda Wanna just forget about Them because They dont seem like Reak friends at all. But i kind that Hard to Do. I HATE Losing friends And its the Last thing I wanna Do.

So please Help, How could i Handle this? SHould i just Let it slide? Should i Ditch Them?
I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!! (link)
ok so first of all if they're treating you like that they aren't your friends...sure sometimes my friends hang out without me too...but I know it's just because we spend tons of time together and we need breaks from each other sometimes...but these girls wont even listen to you...I know you hate losing friends, everyone does..but sometimes it really is necessary...those girls are no friends of yours...just sit them down and be like "Hey...If I plan something and you guys don't want to go tell me...don't plan other stuff behind my back and lie to me about it...I'd rather hear the truth...If you guys honestly don't like me then don't hang out with me." It might seem harsh...but you have to get the point across...they aren't honest to you or your cousin...and they are no friends at all.


I have brown hair, medium thickness...and curly. Not like madly curly..but it isn't wavy either.

I'm going to the hairdressers tomorrow..and I don't know what to do with my hair!

I mean I straighten it..but I want to stop straightening it..

any advice would be loved and appreciated.

thankss. (link)
well I do this and I've never been disappointed...go to your hairdresser...give her some vague guidelines but basically let her do what she wants...like if you want highlights tell her..but let her pick the color maybe...or if you only want a few inches off tell her that...but let her style it the way she thinks it will look best...when it's done ask her about some ways that you can style your hair and keep it under control...she's a professional and she'll have the best ideas and some great products that you can use.


My little brother is 5 feet, 8 inches tall! And he is only 11!!!! Was anbody that tall when they were that age? If you were, how tall are you now? My grandpas are tall though, so dont say hell stop growing, because he is probably going to be tall. Thanks!! (link)
it's just hormones...boys grow in spurts...he'll stop growing for a little while and then grow two or three inches...no he wont stop growing...boys don't...girls do...but his growing will slow down drastically as he gets older...it's hereditary that he's going to be tall...there's nothing wrong with that...but being 5'8" at age 11 his growing process might slow down before other kids in his class will...like he might slow down when he's 16 or 17 when most don't until they're 20 or 21...but it's nothing to worry about...but no he'll never officially stop growing.


I'm starting college on Monday and I just wanted to ask a few general questions. I'm going to Penn State McKeesport (aka Greater Allegheny) if that helps.

1. This might sound weird, but how do people normally dress for college? I come from a HS that didn't allow ANYTHING. I don't know if it's different in college. Like, are shorts and tank tops allowed? I'm just wondering.

2. Obviously, I'll have books. Do people usually carry their books, use backpacks, or use just really big purses?

3. I won't know anyone, and I'm not so good at making friends because I'm really really shy, so any pointers for making friends would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance and sorry if the first 2 questions are really weird, but I have social anxiety disorder, so I NEED to know stuff like that hahah.

Oh and also, I'm driving to school, so no, I won't have a roommate to make friends with. :[ (link)
college is a lot more casual than high school...jeans and a t-shirt are common garb...and yes shorts and tank tops are allowed...but everyone in college is a lot more focused on actually learning rather than what they wear...so you don't have to try as hard

as for books...most keep a backpack or messenger bag...sure in HS is those big purses...but most people carry their books in a backpack and their laptop in a messenger...but it really varies by college and standards

as for making friends...college is a great time to break out of your shell and show everyone who you really are...get out and join clubs and get involved with tons of student activities with people with similar interests...you'll make loads of new friends because you'll all be doing something that you like. Once you start making some friends it will be a lot easier for you to burst out of your shell and become more extroverted...I think college will be a great experience for you...just remember to have fun!




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