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ditching us.
Okay well Me and my cousin Jill hang out with these girls Erin, Erin, Marissa, and Danielle.
well today we were planning a sleepover For tongiht And Everything and Then Like Out of No where They are Like, I am tired I think we Should Do it another night. But I just Looked at There Away messages and they are All having a Sleepover without Me and Jill.
By the way, This isnt the first time it happened, Its actually the 4th I talked About it to Them, the First TWO Times it Happened. and They flipped out on me. SO right Now i am confused I mean i wanna Tell them how i feel But They Keep on Flipping out on Me.
My Friend Heather used to be Friends with Them but Stopped Because they Kept doing This is to her too. I mean I kinda Wanna just forget about Them because They dont seem like Reak friends at all. But i kind that Hard to Do. I HATE Losing friends And its the Last thing I wanna Do.
So please Help, How could i Handle this? SHould i just Let it slide? Should i Ditch Them?
I NEED MAJOR ADVICE!!
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ok so first of all if they're treating you like that they aren't your friends...sure sometimes my friends hang out without me too...but I know it's just because we spend tons of time together and we need breaks from each other sometimes...but these girls wont even listen to you...I know you hate losing friends, everyone does..but sometimes it really is necessary...those girls are no friends of yours...just sit them down and be like "Hey...If I plan something and you guys don't want to go tell me...don't plan other stuff behind my back and lie to me about it...I'd rather hear the truth...If you guys honestly don't like me then don't hang out with me." It might seem harsh...but you have to get the point across...they aren't honest to you or your cousin...and they are no friends at all.
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You call those people your friends?!?!
ha I wouldn't...
they obviously don't want to be around you and Jill. and If I recall, you already posted a quesiton like this. And I think I told you to talk to them about it...
well you said that they flip out on you, just forget them!!!
I've had soo many friendships like this and I was stupid enough to continue being friends with them, then it got really badd...
stop this maddness right now and don't let it get too far. I know you said that you don't want to lose friends, but would you rather stick with them and always get hurt?? or lose them and make new and better friends that actually respect you and are actually your friends??
I hope you make the right choice
-volleyball2150
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