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I'm having a bit of a problem with this guy i am currently dating. You see, i like him a lot, but there is also this other guy. Me n him are best friends and a few nights ago he told me that he sorta likes me and is always going to have a "soft spot" for me,and i said that same to him. Because its true...sometimes i like my bf better but then other times i like my best friend better..my best friend feels the same way b/c he has a gf also. My question would then have to be..am i cheatin on my bf? I mean im not like "doin anything" wit my best friend like that...i just really need advice on what to do...i hear u give AWESOME advice...ThaNKs (link)
haha thanks.

well no, you are not cheating on your boyfriend, at all. but you arent giving him your all either. and he isnt making you 100% happy either.
so here is what i would do.
i would tell the boyfriend that you need a break, and talk to your guy friend. because it isnt fair that you are dating a guy, but you have feelings for some one else.
and if things dont work out between you and your guy friend, you can always go back to the boyfriend.

maybe you could try to explain this to your boyfriend. maybe say "look, i really like you. but i have some feelings for _____. so i think it would be best if we take a break for a while so i can get things straight"

that would be the best thing.
best of luck ♥


how do you know if a guy likes you. cause i like this guy and we're pretty good friends i just can't tell if he likes me back? (link)
there are a lot of things.
he can flirt with you
or joke around with you
come talk to you when he can
come to your locker
tries not to make eye contact with you.
gets red when talking to you



ok, im 13/f and i kno everyone has upper lip hair, but mine is starting to get a little more noticable and i was wondering whats the best way to get rid of it? i dont want to wax, if u even can, so dont say that. I have this little grooming razor thingy so would that work? thanks danielle (link)
yeah .. it would work.
but its going to grow back
faster. and look darker.
maybe you can talk to your parents about
getting it removed. for good
that lasor thing. i know i am getting that
when i get a little older.
but for now, you can use that razor
or get it waxed.
i would wait for the lasor until your about 16.


Does anyone know where I can buy scarves? Rate 5's. (link)
you can buy them anywhere!
American eagle has some really cute ones.
so does dilias


How much do you guys think look really matter? i think I have to be attracted to the person I'm dating so it's always been about 40% for me. BUT, sometimes if the person isn't the hottest but has a killer personality, it kind of pushes their hottness up, you know? So what do you guys think? (link)
as much as we say ''looks dont matter'' they do.
i mean. my guy doesnt have to be OMG gorgeous. but he's got to be cute.
but giving a killer personality and being a gorgeous person is a double hit.

i think looks for me is about .. 30 or 40 % .
so its not like you are being shallow. at all



I'm 13 and I just started my period I think in January. Ever since I started after that time of the month was over, this white stuff comes out and it is nasty. And I'm afraid there's something wrong with me, Help? (link)
nope.
you are perfectly normal
its call discharge, its a way your body cleans it's self
you can wear pantie liners if you please, but you dont have too
your not abnormal.


haha Justine your the best! (link)
yeah
any time ♥


ok well the reason why they dont like my boyfriend is because he did something to get my 2 friends mad and so my 2 friends beat up my boyfriends brother and his brother had something wrong with him and he almost died.. so yeah I am trying to talk to them but they are just like omg brake up with him. you are so gay for going out with him.. and I hate when they do that it just gets me soo mad (link)
yeah. i know what your going through. one of my best friends doesnt like my boyfriend either.
but you've just got to tell the girls that he is very important, and ask them to try to see the good side of him.
and have your boyfriend be nice to them as well.

that's wrong, what they did to his brother


So I have olivish golden skin and I want to buy like a beigish(sp?) lip gloss like tha stuff that Jessica Simpson wears.. It's really cute but I dont want stuff that is super thick
Okay so my boyfriend doesnt like glossy lips because when he kisses me it gets on his lips... soo is there anyway that I can lighty add color to my lips while making them soft and kissable? (link)
chap stick is great
they've got differnt flavors, and colors.
that's what i would recomend.
(its also good tasting)


Hey,
I'm 16 and I want to try contact lenses. My optician says it's all OK. I was just wondering if anyone had any really good/bad experiences with contact lenses they could tell me about, or if there are tips any of you might have? Are they really weird to get used to? I have a real thing about touching my eyes, I don't like it at all. Will I find this really difficult? What happens if you can't get it out? (link)
if you dont like touching you eye, it might make this a little difficult.
i have contacts. and i've gotten bad experiences out of them.
i have headaches and neck aches all the time
and my vision has gotten worse.
but that's just the side effects contacts has had on me.. for most people nothing bad happens

just make sure you take them out every night, and re-wet your eyes some times with the drops.
they arent to weird to get used to. some days are better then others.

good luck ♥


i have a boyfriend and I really like him. but my 2 friends are trying to change my mind about going out with him. My two friends don't like my boyfriend at all. I can not stand my two friends being mad at me. Part of me wants to break up with my boyfriend and the other part say hey, give him a chance.. I am so confused. and I need some help.. so if u could please help me that would be great (link)
why dont your friends like him?
thats just crazy.
just explain how much this boy means to you, and ask your friends to give him a chance.
they should listen .


okay, see i have liked this guy since the beginging of 8th grade, but i dont really know him that well. i finally got a boyfriend and he(the kid i liked since the beging of the year) likes me. I like my boyfriend a lot but i also like the other guy. what should i do? (link)
well who do you like more?
it seems like you like they guy from the beginging of the year more.
i think you should wait until tthat guy says anything to you to to really break it off with your boyfriend.
so stay with your boyfriend until the other guy does anything.


I think a lot of the guys are hot and cute but i dont really like one specific person. I found out from this guy that one of the guys that i think is cute likes me, i dont really believe him but i still want to know so im gonna ask him! Also there is his friend that doesnt really like one girl and doesnt want a gf and we're like really good friends and we went out before. I want to know if i should pick the guy who i think likes me if he really does and go out with him or wait for the guy that im good friends with but he doesnt know what he wants and he wants too much? I just need a little push on who i should chose! (link)
who do you like more?
i would go for the guy that likes you, only because the other guy sounds .. strange.
♥ good luck.


okay so i know its kinda of well acutally reallllly early, but me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and for christmas i wanan do somethign very special not like make him dinner but something really cute and from the heart i just cant come up with osmone creative... i also want to make him something for christmas im goign to buy him a dvd(snomobling one) bc he wants it but i was thinking maybe a pillow that i ca mmake with a screening of a pic of me and him'? but idk if thats to girly--- plllease help with a gift i can make him (link)
the pillow idea is a really cute idea. and i dont think its to girly. at all. you should most deff. do it.


im 13 and in the 8th grade. school is getting so hard for me! i have about 1 1/2 to 2 hours of hoework everynight. homework in every subject too. is there any way i can get it done faster or make more time for it? i recently switched to spanish becasue french was getting to hard too. (link)
well being online takes up ALL of my time. i am always on. so if you have that problem force yourself to get off some times and do homework.
to make things easier for you .. just listen in class.. thats about it. because if you listen - you understand it better an will be able to do it faster.

you can also try doing some homework with a friend. that always gose by faster. and its more fun!
♥ ♥


i sweat alot and i use good deodarant but i find that i stink by the end of the school day and i wont take off my hoodie. whats hould i do? (link)
well the hoodie might be the problem. you need to wear light clothing.
and wear a lot of deodarant. maybe go to your doctor for some.
also. if you have gym, bring some and put it in your gym locker, if you h ave one, or in your backpack and put some on before and after gym.

around lunch time you can also go to the bathroom, and put some more on too. i do that with make up all the time.

but you should be wearing thin clothes, and only a jacket when you need to.
your doctors can always help . ask them to give you a good over the counter brand. those always work


hey ok so i like to run a lot but since its getting colder, i can't run everyday like i like to do. i also do crunches everynight. but i'm getting this belly and i really wanna be able to get rid of it...how can i do that since i can't run??? **i do have a tredmill if running is the ONLY option...i'd really like some others to tho
thanx!!! (link)
do you have a comunity place near by that you can work out in? like a Y or a neighborhood club house? you can try those places.
if you dont. you can always wear underarm and warmer clothes and run outside. or use your tredmill.
for the belly part, just keep doing then. increasing some every day. if you have time do it twice a day.

but look around for a comunity place to become a member and using. that would be the best thing
♥ good luck.


i have quite a chubby stomach and i have been doing about 60 crunches each night and i havent seen much results.. i know in a few weeks i might but i dont want to waste my time doing crunches and find out it didnt work.. so anyone that had experience.. does crunches really work? (link)
they do work.. really well. but you need to be doing more then 60 . every day you should increase by 5.
because your body gets used to doing 60 . and it doesnt work. but if you make the numbers higher and higher, you have to work to get it.

you can also try doing 60 in the morning, then 65 at night. then 70 the next morning then 75 the next night.. and so on

good luck ♥


I heard that gatorade is really bad for your teeth and like rots them or somthing is that true?? (link)
i mean everything with sugars and acid isnt good for your teeth. but there are things that are 10 times worse for your teethe like soda and coffee. but gatorage is mostly good for you.




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