Question Posted Saturday November 26 2005, 9:15 pm
I'm having a bit of a problem with this guy i am currently dating. You see, i like him a lot, but there is also this other guy. Me n him are best friends and a few nights ago he told me that he sorta likes me and is always going to have a "soft spot" for me,and i said that same to him. Because its true...sometimes i like my bf better but then other times i like my best friend better..my best friend feels the same way b/c he has a gf also. My question would then have to be..am i cheatin on my bf? I mean im not like "doin anything" wit my best friend like that...i just really need advice on what to do...i hear u give AWESOME advice...ThaNKs<3
well no, you are not cheating on your boyfriend, at all. but you arent giving him your all either. and he isnt making you 100% happy either.
so here is what i would do.
i would tell the boyfriend that you need a break, and talk to your guy friend. because it isnt fair that you are dating a guy, but you have feelings for some one else.
and if things dont work out between you and your guy friend, you can always go back to the boyfriend.
maybe you could try to explain this to your boyfriend. maybe say "look, i really like you. but i have some feelings for _____. so i think it would be best if we take a break for a while so i can get things straight"
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