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Yo YO Yo! My name is Julie and im 13/f. I love to listen to music andhelp my ffriends out with there problems! You can e-mail me or IM if you dont want to post a problem, ill help with anything, but i wont say i have the best advice in the world. I love to hang with friends and do stupid stuff, im such a dork =D! In the picture i have im the one in the blue and the other girl is my bestest friend in the world!

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okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help.

First of all you need to tell him that you would like to have kids and how it will yall more as a family. Second of all he might not be ready. I know my parents didnt have my older brother for 2 1/2 years after they were married! Hes probally afraid of whats going to happen if yall have a baby, just sit down and talk things out. hope i helped! rate me plz*
--Julie

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hi, my friend really needs a babysitting job. we live in walpole, ma. any suggestions? i need advice asap. thx guys!
xo_always-Kerri

Ask your mom or dad if they know anybody with kids that may need a babysitter. You need to show your parents that your old enough too. hope i helped.
--Julie

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I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help

Hmmmm its sounds like he likes you. Dont think bad about him saying "i dont like you" hes just playing around. If your going to comfront him then i would ask him out, he'll probally say Yes! Good luck and i hope i helped! Rate me plz*
--Julie

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hi my best friends diched me for the popular gang , how can I get them back , they dont even talk to me now!!!!!! PLZ help Jenipher

Well if they diched you for the "popular" gang and dont talk to you then there not your real friends! Go and hangout with some new people there not going to bite, hehe. If they come back talk to them or dont talk to them, either way you feel. Hope i helped. rate me plz*
--Julie

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I'm sorry but for everyone out there how do you get a guy to notice you?

First become friends with him and talk to him. Then FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT! But be always beyourself most guys hate when girls arent being themselves! Hope i help! Rate me Plz*
--Julie

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How do i tell my parents i have an eating disorder? i promised my best friend i would do something about it after her reading my journal and finding out. im miserable and depressed and cant stop. how do i tell them?

Signed
help

The thing to do is to sit them down and tell them straight out. They will take you to a doctor and usally everything goes well. The thing to do is EAT, even if you dont want to. Not eating isnt healthy, and for the depressed thing you need to think happy and good thoughts. Hope i helped.
--Julie

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My family expects me to be exactly like my cousin, "Sarah". Sarah's one of those preppy, popular girls, & I'm not even close to that. I have a few close friends & I'm more laid-back. Just because we look alike (we look like sisters), everyone expects us to act alike. I hate being compared to Sarah all the time & being expected to be like her. I don't want to be her shadow. How can I handle this?

Tell them that even though yall look alike, yall are diffrent people and yall dont and wont act the same. Yall are to diffrent people and yall shouldnt act like each other. Show them that you have your own life and your not going to be like her. rate me plz*
--Julie

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This girl Deanna R. always give me an attitude, but today i got really fed up. she started givin me an attitude because i had a qupte in my profile that she didnt like. So she starts threatining me to take it off. so i did. cuz i kno if u get her pisst off she'll throw a hissy fit and get a whole bunch of her friends to try to make my life shit. and i hate it. what should i do. i try as much as i can to avoid her, and ignore her rude comments but it really bugs me.

-nicole g

You know what its your life not hers! she cant tell you what to do or what to say, its not right! I would keep on avoiding and ignoring her. its the best thing to do. If she keeps IMing you saying mean stuff then block her or get a new s/n and not let her know, she cant do that to you if she doesnt know how to talk to you. *rate me plz
--Julie

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Okay so Im 15 and everytime I go to the beach in my BIKNI I lay down and try to get a tan, but I dont feel right around the other gurls , they gather and sit and talk about me, but althe other guys are trying to ask me outeven 2 years loder than I am.... LOL PLZ HELP ME Thanks Jenipher

The girls are jealous that they dont have guys asking them out. So just forget about them, its not like you have a signed on you that says "GUYS ASK ME OUT!" lol, have fun with guys!
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--Julie

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I have a large very sore lump on my head near my neck. I want to know what it is and if it is serious.

I would go see a doctor, i dont hear that much.

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ok. i am 14 and i am a female. I really like this on kid. but there is a different kid that likes me alot. he is funny and everything u would want a boyfriend to be...well maybe. i mean i dont know if i should go out with him bc he isnt exactly the cutest guy in the world. actually he isnt cute at all. and the only thing that is keeping me from going out with him is the fact that he is ugly and that ppl will say stuff to me like"oh ur going out with him? he is so ugly!" i just dont want ppl to say that. i mean he is funny, nice and wont push u to do nethign like most guys would. his 2 best friends r going out with my 2 best friends and we r the ones left out. my question is i guess. should i go out with him even tho he is ugly?

First of all do you like this guy? Thats the most important thing.
Second, ITS OKAY IF HES UGLY! you shouldnt not go out with a guy you like if hes ugly, its just wrong. If people come up to you and say "your going out with him...." just be like "yeah i am and, you can think hes ugly, i dont care". hope i helped , rate me!!

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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do

This is normal. I have a older brother and we call each other names and fight all the time. If you want it to stop, be nicer and stop calling him names. That should work and if it doesnt, tell him that you dont like yall arguing. i hope i helped! rate me please.

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me and my bf are ok together (slight kissing dilema but that's not too bad) but we've run outta places to go on dates! we've been to the cinema, to town but there's no where else to go. there's no bowling places near us and we live on the other side of town from each other. any ideas of places we could go? im an almost 13 year old girl and i live in the UK.

Go out to eat, Go to the park, go skating. They are always fun!

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hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict?

hey Kristen, your 13 and you cant go outside or play with your firends?! Wow, thats sucks! You need to talk to your mom how your older than your brother and she can trust you. You should also ask why your younger brother can go places and you cant. Also help around the house more and show her that she can trust you.

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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me.

The thing to do is talk to her about what she does. Tell her why its bad for her and what can happen. She probally knows, but its always better to hear it from a freind and know that someone cares about them.

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How do you know when it's love at first site?

love at first site is hard to explaine. its like something hits you and your like "woahhhhh". You get this warm feeling inside you too. Thats how love at first site is like kinda. hope that helps some. rate me please

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there's this friend i have and she always lies to me, but then if i catch her in the middle of a lie, and am like well before you said this, shes like NO I DIDN'T. shes one of my best friends and shes fun to be around when shes not lying, but it gets really annoying...what should i do?

Hmmm.... it seems your friend has a lieing problem. The best thing to do is sit down with your friend and talk to her about it. Also explaine to her that if she has any problems and shes is lieing to hide it that your her best friend and she can tell you anything or she can come to this site and ask for advice too. i hope i helper =). please rate me, thanks.

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Well,there is this guy whom i really like and we get along very well.We're just friends.Recently he sent me a message on my cell which read"No one can hold you like I hold you,no one can kiss you like i kiss you, no one can love you like i love you".I called him up and asked him wether its true and he said he does nt know and when the time will come he will tell me. I wish i could read peoples mind.By the way im a 15 year old girl.Pleas advice........

hey, it sounds like think guy really likes you. I mean why would he send you that if he didnt mean it? Unless he wants to play a really mean joke, but I dont think thats true. If you really want to know, go and ask him, the worst thing he can say is no. But remember theres plenty of fish in the sea. good luck! rate me plese =)

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"who send the questions? cause your a loser faget!!!!!"

here's a question how do you spell faggot? certainly not faget!

zing

you can spell it more than one way!

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how many monkeys does it take to screw in a light bulb?

2

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