Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Im 16. I had sex one day before my period. (unprotected) and the next day i barely spot which i never do. and the day after i got what i thought was my period but it only lasted one day when mine lasts four. and even a week later i still randomely spot which freaks me out cause that never happens. im not nauseous but ive lost fifteen ounds this month but my stomachstays the same if not has gotten just microscopicly bigger. Could i be prenant? thanks in advance (link)
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its possible, but if you were pregnant, you wouldnt be showing (as in getting bigger) until the third or fourth month, most women don't. all you can do now is wait a few more weeks and if you don't get your period again, take 3 tests. majority rules.
no matter if you're on your period or not, if you're having sex unprotected, there is ALWAYS a chance of getting pregnant. i know everyone else will probably tell you this, but in order to lower the chances of an unexpected teen pregnancy, use a condom. and even when using a condom, don't let the guy cum inside you. just staying on the safe side.
take care.
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Okay. So it makes me really mad when maagazines or TV shows or movies or books make fun of the so called "cliche" blonde hair blue eyed girl. I'm sorry but look at the commercials on TV right now. Noone of the girls look like that! Look at movies and shows, the main charachter?? Doesn't normally look like that... Books? The blondie blue is always the bitchy air head. So I don't get it. It's like the media is trying to stay so far away from the tall blonde with blue eyes that they're making their own cliche. HAs anyone else noticed this?? Cuz I'm a skinny blonde hair blue eyed girl and it's just kind of annoying when girls who don't look like that diss the "cliche" becuase they don't realize that they aren't dissing a cliche, they're in fact dissing girls like me. Real people... So what gives? Has anyone else noticed this? (link)
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yes, i've noticed that. i've also noticed that the blonde hair, blue eyed girl (or boy) is always the love interest. the world has its own weird stereotypes for everything, like jockey boys are dumb and arrogant, girls with glasses are smart, the popular people are always the bitchiest, and so on. sometimes, we just learn to live with these. i'm dealing with a "dissed stereotype", myself. i dress in all black and have black hair and thick eye makeup. everyone at school either thinks i'm a satanist, emo or goth, but they're wrong. all of those don't even come close to what i really am. all that really matters is what you make yourself out to be, one day, we'll all figure it out. the rest of the people can go suck a big one if they don't get it.
thats kind of a sunday school answer, i know, but i get where you're coming from. you just learn to either laugh along, or ignore it all together.
take care
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my breast hurt but I THINK ITS MY PIOR THAT IS COMING OR THAT im prenget (link)
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just wait it out. if you don't get your period around the time you think you should, go get 3 pregnancy tests from a store and try them out. thats the only way you can know for sure; just wait.
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i've just one question?
does masturbate harmful 4 a female or male? (link)
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masturbation won't harm you in any way. just be sure you clean your hands or whatever you use before and after.
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So. My ex boyfriend and I had dated for seven months. Then one morning, he broke up with me in a text message. He said he didn't want to be tied down anymore. He was sixteen at the time, I was fourteen at the time. He's sixteen now, I'm fifteen now. It's been three months since the break up. While we were dating things were pretty bad. He pressured me into a looot of stuff. Like fingering. He physically forced me to give him a hj. And he made me feel guilty for months until I finally gave him a blowjob. He dumped me four days after the bj. I was messed up while we were dating... I honestly don't know who that person was. I was totally whipped, and I don't know why I thought anything he did was okay... but I did. Since the split I've realized how bad it was, and I'm a lot stronger. Thing is, after we broke up things were still bad for about a month. He told everyone how far we'd been, saying "she put out. like we made out all the time, and she gave me head." he even spread a rumor that we had sex saying "when I was on top, I thought I was gonnna break her cause she's so tiny. But she let me do wahtever I wanted. I coulda stuck it up the ass if I felt like it." Just stupid, stupid stuff. One day he'd say he wanted me back, the next he'd tell me I was stupid bitch. It was horrible. We stopped talking for a month. Then he apologized. After a shitty relationship, two months of hell, he said he was done being a dick. Then we were okay... I guess. We've been trying out this whole friends thing for about a month. It's been pretty shaky. But now one of our mutual friends has told me that my ex has been talking shit to him. Saying he didn't wanna be around me because I am immature. IIIII am immature. ME. Excuse me??? Immature people do what he did when we were dating. Immature people break up in texts. Immature people break promises and spread stupid rumors. Mature people take all of that shit without ONCE acting back. No revenge. Ever. Mature people look past what's happen and decide to be the bigger person to make things okay. I'm immature??? I don't think so. I'm pissed. The mutual friend has a certain theory about my ex. He says that my ex broke up with me because he was scared of how intense his feelings were getting for me. He says he just says that stuff to cover up how bad he feels about what's happen. That told everyone how far we went/spread those rumors to cover up him hurting about the breakup. And that he says the immature stuff to cover up him wanting to be around me... but I don't think thats it!!! I don't know what to do. Should I bring it up with my ex?? I mean... if we're trying ot be freinds... I don't know. I just don't want to stir shit up... What should I do??? (link)
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uhhh....HELL NO. do NOT bring it up to him. don't even talk to him! he sounds like a total douche. i've been in a situation close to this one before, and trust me, he will NEVER change, no matter what he says. you said at one point he said he was tired of being a dick, right? well, what did he do after that? called you immature. you sound like you're pretty much over him, so it wont be hard for you to just let go and move on with life. tell him you're sick of his shit and want to start enjoying life a bit. you can put it into any words you wish. but my advice to you is drop him immediately. don't text/call/talk anything. he's officially invisible to you.
if you're not completely over him yet, it will be a little hard at first. but it'll get a lot easier, and trust me, you'll feel soooo much better.
good luck and take care.
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I am really confused cuz I think my ex might like me and we broke up in may of last year. We started out as friends and now were right back at the friendship level. We were together for 2 years keeping our relationship a secret from everyone. He ended it with me because his parents were suspicious and confronted us and didnt want us together. They almost found out about us but didnt because we lied out way out of it. He told me he was to scared and couldnt stay with me because of his paretns. He said he loved me though. We never speak of us every being together now its like it never happend. We still hang out everday almost just as much as we were when we were together. I have heard from his friends that he said he still had feelings for me and i confronted him about it and he got mad and denied that he ever said that. He said nothing will ever happen and he has said that alot before and things did happen. His body language sure doesnt match his words. Now he is starting to show it he likes to play fight with me and when i didnt see him for 5 days he called me everyday and he acts so nice and flirty to me one day and the next day he is mean and makes fun of me usually only in front of people now I am confused and dont know what to think. (link)
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considering you guys broke up with no other choice, then yeah i'd say he still does. and you said earlier you kept your relationship a secret from everyone, so maybe the reason he's being rude sometimes is to keep people from finding out that he still likes you, which is a certain yes. he still does. now, you decide how to take it.
good luck
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Well, for the longest time I've wanted to get red streaks in my hair. And now i actually want to get around to doing it. One problem. I have no idea how to go about it.
First of all my hair is super curly. And I want them to look like (ignore what the model is wearing) http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs29838/hji/medium/2008-red-streaks.jpg that.
So has anyone ever done something like this? What products should I have to buy? Do I need to straighten my hair first (I've never tried to sraighten my hair)? Any ideas would be greatly appriciated. I just don't want to do this wrong.
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well first of all, good luck looking exactly like the chick in that picture. she had a professional hairstylist do it like that, and if you're gonna do it yourself, it definitely wont turn out like that.
i wanted to dye my hair black and get a blonde under-streak. when i tried to do it myself it turned hellish and looked horrible and faded pretty quickly. so i went to a professional hairplace to get it done. its expensive to do this, yes, but totally worth it in the end. what you need to do is go to a nearby place and schedule an appointment, either in person or on the phone. print out the pic of that model and bring it to them so they have a pretty decent idea of what you want.
after you get your hair done, go to the store and buy a really good brand of colour shampoo and conditioner. this will bring out the colouring and make it stay longer.
but also, ask the stylist to use a really good brand of dye when getting it done. i went to get red streaks in my hair once and they stayed in for about a month and faded to orange. just a forwarning.
good luck! i hope it looks awesome
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my boyfriend and i have been togehter for 1 year thank GOD =D i jsut wanted to know, whenever he explains how much he loves me, he starts crying.. is that a good thing ? :) (link)
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all i can say is this; i wish my boyfriend would tell me how much he loves me, let alone, started crying while doing so.
yes, this is a very good thing. hold on to him.
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My boyfriend pre cumed on the outside of my butt, my cherry hasnt been poped and he wasnt near my vagina. I also went and washed off and changed pants and underwear. Could I be pregnant? (link)
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semen, if anywhere near the vagina, can travel inside and fertilize. considering you washed yourself afterwards and he wasn't inside you, i doubt you are.
take care.
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Iss it possible for your Mind not to listen to what your hearts says. I go out with this boy currently and im in love. && Here is another boy i used to go out with my mind wants to be with my ex. But my heart wants to be with current boyfriend. It gets so confusing at times. So is this possible ? I wonder !
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completely. there's always a small part of you that'll never let go of your ex (your mind) since you have all the memories. you may no longer love him, but you haven't forgotten him. this new guy you're with and love, you two are working on making memories.
luckily, in most cases, the mind cannot overtake what the heart wants. you'll be fine :) take care.
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Well, first off, my boyfriend and I have been going out for approximately nine months. We're extremely close, we love each other, we want to get married some day...er, well, that is, later in life. We have strict agreements that nothing's gonna happen until after college.
A few months after we started dating, I took him with me to an anime convention. I asked him if he would dress up as the character Grell Sutcliffe from one of my favorite shows, Kuroshitsuji, who (if you haven't seen it -probably-) is an openly-gay, flaming hunk of sunshine. I called him brave when he agreed to do it, and when we did, we had a great time.
Ever since then, though, this small idea of crossdressing...well, he's started taking it to the next level. He's borrowed my clothes and struts around in them (looking amazing, I might add ;D). A month or so ago, he expressed his desire to dress as Mana from Malice Mizer, which involves a black dress, platform heels, thigh-highs and pigtails. And, just last night, he told me that he would dress up as Frankenfurter for the next con...
Is it weird that I'm oddly in love with this?
I mean, all of my friends keep talking about how weird and slightly gross it is. Some even say he's going to turn gay. But the worst part about it are all these people saying that I forced him into doing these things, like I was MAKING him act this way...Sure, I love it, but does that necessarily mean I'm forcing him to do this?
Either way. I'm loving the confidence that my boyfriend is getting, and all of this is actually bringing us closer together. Through all of this, he still hasn't dumped me for a guy, although everybody expects this to happen sooner or later :P (link)
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subconciously, he knew it was pleasing you. and he, as a male, most likely wants to please you. he's not gay, he just developed a liking for this kind of stuff because he knows that you praised him for it the first time. maybe he's also just trying to be funny and make you smile.
you, on the other hand, are not weird for loving this. i don't know if he's into anime, like you, but this is him showing that he's interested in something you're interested in, and you love it because you both have this in common. if my boyfriend dressed up as my favourite character off a cartoon, i'd find it funny and really sweet.
no worries, i highly doubt he's gay :)
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My white bra always shows through when I wear a white tee is this ok? I've tried multiple white tees and they all showthrough. Is this ok? A cami underneath is not
possible with most of my outfits. So is this ok? (link)
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no, its not ok. stop wearing white shirts.
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Hi I'm 10 years old and I really want my mom to move to Strasburg, Pa so I can see my friend all the time, but even though I gave her good reasons why to move she still won't move how can I convince her.
BTW these are the reasons I gave her, about school I can transfer to the school in Strasburg.I won't be bugging her about when I can see my friend again, I can get a job and help her earn the money for the house. She can get a new job as a guidence counsler at the school, and she won't have to pay too much for the school.Last of all my house here is boring because there's nothing to do but if we move to Stasburg there will be tons of things I can do, and my mom still isn't convinced thats why I need help ): (link)
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first off, you're ten. you can't get a job anywhere until you're at least in highschool. second, wanting to see a friend all the time is not a good enough reason to move. and having a boring house isn't a good reason either. you can't convince your parents to just up and leave because their child can't see a friend all the time. its not gonna happen, i'm sorry.
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What is the alcohol content difference of Smirnoff Ice and Mike's Hard? (link)
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they're both the same alcohol content.
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Im like afraid to even touch a guy down there ...like it grosses me out so how do i get used to it?? (link)
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i used to be just like you. i didn't want to look down there, feel down there, i just wanted to be without all of it. but eventually i tried and realized its actually not that bad. in all reality, the vagina is a lot grosser. you don't have to immediately jump into oral or full on hand jobs, just maybe some stroking outside the clothing, and move from there. thats what i did. i'm pretty used to it now.
take care :)
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I have problem I don't last long when having sex. I get too excited when at the foreplay stage then when I actually come to the sex part I don't last long at all. Is there any advice people can give me please (link)
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if you're a guy, this is pretty normal. men don't generally last very long during sex. did you know the average time that sex should take is 7 minutes? :O true. anyways, my advice to you is since you get excited easily, you probably don't have much of a problem getting erect, right? so just as soon as you get an erection, go at it. skip foreplay. or some guys know how to "hold it in" but since i'm not a dude, i couldn't tell you how to do that :\ hopefully someone thats a guy will tell you how to do that.
take care
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name of my wife
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i'm sorry, i don't understand your question. therefore, i cannot answer.
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18/male
Lately I've been thinking alot about just killing myself. Also i have always been a very emotionally detached perosn and Im not depressed or anything. furthermore, I have asked some very trusted people who assured me I dont act or sound depressed. Even so, I keep getting that feeling of just saying fuck it and killing myself. lately I have been partying alot more than I used to and my life probably has never been better, but I just keep feeling like i should just end it. any reason after 18 and half years of little or no emotion, i might be feeling like this now? (link)
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it happens. you're 18, so you're still a teenager, which means you still have hormones that can cause said thoughts. you may not be depressed, but you may just be sick of life in general. your subconscience is probably trying to tell you that maybe this is as good as it gets, so there's no point. maybe you know it'll get tougher as you get older and these are the few years you have left of a really fun-filled life. a lot of people know that after you pass a certain age, life just starts sucking major ass. teengers think that life sucks then they're 13, and then most come to the realization that things can be so much worse, and they'll get like that.
i'm no professional, so i can't give you any real advice. try to go see a doctor and ask them. they can tell you what you need to know, and they can help. sorry thats a cliche response, but its what i got.
get to feeling better
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My boyfriend is constantly saying cute things to me. He always says how much he loves me and all the good traits i have. He even tells me that he would be thrilled to spend everyday of his life with me. We talk about getting married and having kids together in the future (were kinda young so it'd be like 8 years). I'm not very good with words and i don't know how to tell him I feel the same way. Do you know any way to word that in a cute way or to show him I truely mean it when I say I wanna spend the rest of my like with him? (link)
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if you can't say it, write it. DO NOT SING TO HIM, this may look cute in movies, but in all reality, EVERYbody can't stand it.
aanyways, write it down. give him a cute little card saying stuff like "i love you, you make me so happy, i have no words for how much you mean to me, etc" just say what you feel without being too obligating or too gooey. :) or write a poem. poetry sounds hard on paper but once you get started, the words just pour out onto the paper. it doesnt even have to rhyme, just have a sensual rhythm that flows.
best of luck :)
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Here's the question . I work two jobs and I'm tired of the same old thing day in day out its like nothing changes I need some meaning in my life but don't know where to start you see its like all my likes are becomeing dislikes everything that I loved has been taken from me my family disowend me my ex wife did some wrong things to hurt me I haven't seen my daughter since she was three she's twelve now and its not because of me its because she had me charged with injury to a child witch I never did she did this because she wanted me out of the picture she planed it this way her and her lover now the courts won't let me see my owen daughter cause the took her side not mine so now I have nothing to look forward too just rejection after rejection and I don't think I could ever trust anyone again iv been used and hurt way too many times by the ones I thought I could trust and the thing is nobody brlives my side of the story of happend years ago (link)
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first off, i am sincerely sorry for the way things are going for you. life is a bitch and at some point, we all come to that realization. every parent deserves to see their own child, whether they did or didn't do something to them. don't get me wrong, i highly doubt you did whatever your ex wife said you did. you sound like you'd be a loving father.
this is what i'd do if i was in your position. gather whatever money you have in your bank, and relocate. complete new place, where you can start a completely new life. it will be a little tough at first, but you'll start to love it. somewhere far away where you are now. this isn't the same as running away from your problems. this is coming into contact with your grief and finding some way to move on from it. moving on can be the biggest relief in life you'll ever feel. and although you'll miss your daughter, maybe when she gets older, she'll decide she'll want to meet you. most children do. her mother will probably lie to her, but one way or another, you WILL see her again. i promise you that.
when you leave, if you take this advice, try to use your old jobs as references to get a new job, something you've never tried, like bartending or something. i dunno if you've tried that or not, i'm just spitballing. or you could go back to school to get a new diploma.
anyways, again, you have my deepest sympathies, and i wish you the best of luck.
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