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I'm BLAiR, Im a SENi0R this year, Finally! I have waited 4 years for this! I would like to say I'm enjoying it, but I think its one of my most challenging years yet. Im so excited to go off to college and meet new people. I hope to go to aTm! I love polkadots and duckies too. I have been through a lot with guys and relationships so shoot!
NO QUESTION IS STUPID!
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advice

is it weird for an 8th grader to be friends with a 6th grader? and not just friends like hey, friends like hanging out after school and going to birthday parties. thanks.

no i dont think so. age shouldnt matter.
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Ok so, my crush asked me out last night so of course I said yes. I'm new to the whole dating experience, im only 14. I like him a lot, but whenever the thought of going to the movies or something comes up, I automatically make up an excuse to not go. I don't know why. I'm very co-dependant and I would be too scared to go anywhere unless it was a double date or something. He says hes okay with that but I dont know whats wrong with me. I think my main fear is making out. Yea yea laugh, but I guess im just scared to do it. I dont know whats wrong with me and why im so scared to go anywhere with him. I'll rate you high. Thx a bunch

nothing is wrong with you, its normal since you're new to it all...but you should feel comfortable around your boyfriend and making out is part of getting closer to him i guess? just try it and see if you have fun! dont worry adn just go have fun girl!
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hey or the past couple days my voice has kind of been like cracking, but i am a girl. and my throat doesnt really hurt or anything, and i havent been screaming or shrieking a whole lot. any ideas what it is? or is it just normal? thanks!
~*jaimee*~

do you play sports? because my friends voice is like that and when she doesnt play for a while it goes back to normal...lol its sorta weird. or maybe you could be getting a cold or something
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OK i like this guy, Jesse. And everyone who knows him keeps saying he likes you he likes you, but like i can see it i just like cant believe it you know? well anyways, Jesse is really nice, like we met abut a week & 1/2 ago and stuff but like we really hit it off and stuff. WEll it turns out he has a girlfriend, Bethaniee. and i know his girlfriend too. well his girl friend keeps being a little suspicious about me talking to him and hanging out with him cause the last time we hung out it was at my friend Faye's house and we were sitting in her hot tub half of the day talking about random stuff. and i dont know how Bethaniee found out we were in the hot tub but nothing happend so anywys like we were talking on aim and he imed me and we started talkin. then all out of the blue he asked for my cell number. i gave it to him and he called me 5 minutes later. we talked for like 2 hours. Then at like 1 last night he called me and we talked for an hour and stuff then my dad came in and said get off the phone so i hung up on him . then he texted me saying "are u ok?" and "im sorry i got you in trouble" i know i like him but i can't admit it to my friends cause there all like do you like him and i didnt at first but like know i really do.


so my 2 questions are:A.After readding all in info do you think he likes me
&
B.should i tell him i like him

well it seems he does by what poeple say, but maybe he just sees you as a really good friend? and sure! why not what have you got to lose? the worst that could happen is him say: im sorry i dont feel the same way and i have a girlfriend, but i think its always better to let someone know how you feel before its too late, even IF he has a girlfriend at least he knows how you feel.
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hey guys! im looking for a new s/n for aim and i just cant seem to think of one! I love pink, umm... well anything actually. If you come up with some good ones i'll rate you nicely! =D please ++ thanks ♥

PiNKiSH0T xx
PiNKiSHoT
PiNKxiSxHoT
PiNKxiSxH0T

lol. since i dont know anything else about you.
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well my friend, lets call him aihgn, he is worried about havin his kid turn into a punk w/ me other friend lets call her rialb. wats rong w/ that? i dunno wat is but his exact words were
aihgn: i dont want to raise a child with you
aihgn: you would only make my child a punk
lmfao!! sry just got bored, and ur away message said do one of those so ya... but anyways wat shuld nghi..eh...aihgn do?lol thats just 2 funnny wat he wrote 2 ya cya

haha very funny loser.
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Hey guys, i like to read a lot, and i've read many famous books like To kill a mocking bird, Catcher in the Rye, Harry potter, and so on. Anyways does anyone know any really really good books, and authors for when i go to the library next time? And i dont want books that you have heard sound good, but actual books you guys have read and really enjoyed, like an "i never want to put it down" kinda book if that makes sense. Thanks luv ya!

The giver-lois lowry! i read it in 6th grade and i really enjoyed it...btw im going to 10th now.
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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

the only thing i can say is listen to your heart...weigh them out wiht pros and cons...
hah hope i helped girl!
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hey whats a henna? like for your hair

its a temporary tattoo
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What's the ideal weight for a 16 year old girl that's 5'0"?

i would say between 100-120lbs.
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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.

sorry i have to agree with them...50 first dates and the notebook
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14/m
Im in 8th grade. Me and my gf have been going out for 6 months, and we have already had sex 2 times. We are completely in love
Im not sure, but i think that she isnt comfortable doing me. Im afraid she lets me have sex with her just because she is weak-willed, and cant say no. I talked to her about this, and she said that she is comfortable doing it, and she doesnt mind if we have sex again in the future. But knowing her as well as i do, she cares about my feelings, and i think she doesnt want to hurt them by saying no, or telling me she doesnt want to have sex wiht me again because she isnt comfortable.
How do i figure out if she is comfortable or not without asking her?
plz help me, i love her soo much and i dont want this to cause a fight between us.

well i dont think theres a way to just know without asking her. i dont know maybe next time just say are you sure you want to do this? dont do it just to please me. just talk to her! :)
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if you pop a cherry, will u be pregnate?

well yes being sex without protection is what popped it but other then that there are many ways u can pop it.
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hay, me n my boyfriend get along GREAT, and we both love eachother ALOT, and he always asks me to go places with him, and i always think of an excuse not to go anywhere with him because i dont feel comftorable(sp?) around him, i dont know if its because hes older then me, or like what, and im not shy around boys, we've been going out for 2 months and i havent even hugged him, the one and only time i did was at our school fair and we werent even going out then!, please help, i dont know what to do

well maybe ur scared he might take advantage of you...so really ask yourself wouldnt you rather be with someone you enjoy and are comfortable around AND LOVE?
just a question.
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I'm 15 and there's this guy that I really, really like, and we're pretty good friends, but he's moving to another city, and it's aabout 5 hours away and I wanted to tell him that I like him, but he just got a girlfriend... what do I do? I like him soooo much but im not sure if he likes me back or not, he sends mixed signals, and now hes got a gf! I dont want him to think I'm hitting on him, I just want him to know how I feel before he leaves. I'm stuck, and his moving date is very close.

just do it girl! just say exactly what you told me..."i know we're pretty good friends but i thiink i have started to like you...as more than a friend, and i wanted you to know how i felt before you moved away"
the worst that could happen is him say im just not feeling it and i have a girlfriend or you find out that he likes you back!
hope it works out for the best girl!
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What is a cure for chiggers/red bugs?? They itch like crazy and I have no idea how to get rid of the little suckers! Please help me out here!!

theres some stuff taht you can buy call chigarid or put some anti-itch stuff.
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Hey advice-giving people! I have this friend who acts like I should be devoted to him and I should have no other friends beside him since I've known him since pre-k. Ok, well, one of my other friends, Jessica, asked me to go to the beach with her and I said sure because well.. the beach ROCKS! But anyways.. We told John Ross (the obsessive friend) not to tell Brittany (our other friend) because we knew it would make her mad at us. Ok, well he went & told her & it made her mad. He's ALWAYS doing stuff like that. How do I tell him to shut the freak up without losing him as a friend?

tell him whatever u say to him stays between you and him
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Im going to visit my family in california and im going to disneyland. Do they have water rides or roller coasters there?

yes.
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Is it possible to not be able to kiss someone because their nose is "too big"? I haven't kissed anyone yet but I've heard stories of girls that's noses were "in the way" when they were trying to make out with their boyfriends. So0rry if this sounds stupid it's just, my boyfriend made a comment about mine && now I'm kind of self-counsious (sp??) about it.

no i dont think its possible because u tilt ur head usually.
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ALright I posted this question last night but most of the advice I got was really rude.. So I am asking one more time for you to help me with this problem! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if I ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him, because he is really nice and funny (and cute) and I have a crush on him.. but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me.. cause I dont think he actualy likes me.. so how do I make him like me so I have a chance of going out with him! but also how do I know its not just for sexual stuff..?

PLEASE HELP!

hmmm i think i was in your shoes...i a little bit ago..and now we are going out happily! well i dont think you can make someone like you...so just flirt with him and see what he gives you back you know? and if it so happens he flirts back in a positive way then maybe call him up and see if the feelings are mutual...but its probably a different situation then mine because my guy adn i are bestfriends. so just see what happens and see if the feelings are mutual and if you do go out and he wants to do stuff and you dont want to say if you respect me enough you would respect my decision...agh! girl i dont know if that made sense...if you want me to try to explain it a little better IM me on AIM @ P0LKAxDoTxR0CK
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