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Not just sex..
ALright I posted this question last night but most of the advice I got was really rude.. So I am asking one more time for you to help me with this problem! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if I ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him, because he is really nice and funny (and cute) and I have a crush on him.. but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me.. cause I dont think he actualy likes me.. so how do I make him like me so I have a chance of going out with him! but also how do I know its not just for sexual stuff..?
PLEASE HELP!
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Dont put out to early in your relationship..... I know this is not what you want to hear BUT you shouldn't put out at all untill your in LOVE... but I know it happens... so wait until you get to know him better before you do then you should be able to read him and know if he is useing you or not.
Ohhh and make him wear a condom....
some stuff don't wash off
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Well you really can't make someone like you...but just try talking to him more and getting to know him better...so then he'll get to know you and then maybe he'll like you. But I wouldn't really go out with him.. cause if he's really horny basically right of the bat you can tell he only really wants sex probably, and you don't wanna go out with a guy like that. You can find guys that are really nice, funny, and cute..and they're not really horny.. so I wouldn't go out with him. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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hmmm i think i was in your shoes...i a little bit ago..and now we are going out happily! well i dont think you can make someone like you...so just flirt with him and see what he gives you back you know? and if it so happens he flirts back in a positive way then maybe call him up and see if the feelings are mutual...but its probably a different situation then mine because my guy adn i are bestfriends. so just see what happens and see if the feelings are mutual and if you do go out and he wants to do stuff and you dont want to say if you respect me enough you would respect my decision...agh! girl i dont know if that made sense...if you want me to try to explain it a little better IM me on AIM @ P0LKAxDoTxR0CK
♥BLAiR
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you cant really make someone like you but an idea to try to get him to like you is talk to one of his friends and see what he likes to do and his favorite movie or something and then hang out with him and suprise him with what you know about him and talk to him and be like i really like and find out his reaction and if you feel like he just wants to use you then just call it off..hope i helped
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