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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

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Does any one know any websites that you can order big sunglasses from, like pink and white ones. ive looked at macys online and all kinds of other places, and i have only found black sunglasses that where actually big. so can you give me like links to pink or white big sunglasses. the bigger the better.
thnx.
xoxo

i got my pink ones from hot topic.. I dont have a site, but next time at the mall, check them out =]

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hey guys so i have a friend thats 12 years old but shes so mature for her age i mean she has a really opened mind about stuff nd stuff anyway she likes this guy... lets cal him bobby.. but hese 15 years old turning 16.. she really likes him and she knows hese not lookin her way because he likes another girl lets call her jessica.. nywy school finished nd he went to a nother country.. nd she still likes him she was begining to get over him she was so close to until she found out that he camme back nd she got so happy nd so i think that her feelings ccame back but the girl that helikes went to another country aswell nd i heard that he already got over her anyway but this year hese gonna be in skoolwit us nd the thing is is that she wont kno how to get over him because they are rlly good friends.. even thou thyrs like 3-4 years diffrence.. but she really likes him nd no they wont go outcause she doesnt do those kinds of stuff... nyay..the question is iz that she doesnt kno what to do she wants to get overhim but she cant.. i rlly need ur help.. seriosuly plz help me to help her im sorry this was long but its true..

alrite
Bye,,,

So your in what 6-7th grade? And hes in 11th? You need to be truthful, he more then likely doesnt like her in that way. Right now that age differnce us huge. But when she gets older, maybe. But as for now, dont talk to him as much. You might not see him in school, im taking it as your school is big, bc you habe the middle school & highschool together, so she might not see him. I'm not sure of what all to say, but I feel that it wont happen. He doesnt want a girl that isnt even a teenager, no matter how matture she is for her age. Im sorry..

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a month or two ago i asked people what their opinions were on my situation. it was whether i should keep hanging out with dave, the guy i am with. since it is illegal for us to see eachother, we arent really going out, but we like eachother. he lives in boston and i am 5 minutes away so i go there everyday to hangout/sleepover. he is moving back home tomorrow, an hour and a half away from me. i dont know what i am going to do. we want to still talk but we havent really figured anything dominant out. he says he would let me stay at his house (his familys home) on weekends but he doesnt know how is mom would feel about me being 17. any suggestions? thanks =(

I dont your age is that big of a differnce. My sister is 19 and dating a 24 year old. She started dating him at 17 and he was 22. Its working good for them. Have him talk to him mom before he even moves. Tell him to tell her that your 17, but you are not a little girl and you dont act like it. (girls matture faster then guys) If shes still like uhh about it, have him invit you over for dinner so you all can talk and meet and everything. I'm sure shell be fine with it. My boyfriend is an hour and a half away from me, its hard, but we're still dating. Hes away at college but I get to see him tomorrow!!! I think you two will be fine. Have him talk to het and plan something out!! I hope I helped,3

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So, I might have to move soon. I've living in my house my entire life and it's been in family since my grandmother got married. (She even left it to me in her will) There are so many memories and I'm not sure if I can handle all this pressure. I know, to you I sound rediculous, but my home is everything to me. We would still be living in the same state, but really really far from the city. The reason why we are moving is because the city we are living in is causing us a lot of problems. I mean it would be great to leave this city (I personaly hate it), but leaving this house behind is going to tear me in two. How am I supposed to deal with this situation?

Maybe take something that really means something to you off the house and take it. Like say wallpaper, if its been there since your grandma lived there, rip some off and put it in a picture frame. Or something like that. I hope I helped, I tryed

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Anybody have any quick tips to help me with toe touches. I have trouble getting my legs up, I don't know why because I'm pretty flexible. Is it my abs?
Well anyway I'm doing a performance friday and I need quick tips to help make it look better.
Thanks!

Tomorrow? you cant get them better that fast. But maybe in a weeks time.
Sit on the ground with your legs apart. Rest your hands infront of you on the ground, right by your privets. Lift your right leg of the ground and make it do circles going to the back. Do about 10 the first time(or if you can do more and it doesnt hurt, it more then likely will the first time tho) then do your left leg. Do them twice a day. Then the next day, do 5 more, so 15. And so on. I hope I helped

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13/f

Have any of you been in a relationship that lasted all through high school? I am really in love with the guy I'm dating now, and no one thinks we'll ever make it.

Hunny, let me tell you my story real fast.
I started dating my boyfriend last sept. and we're still together 11 months and 2 days! =]
ALL my friends said we will only last a month, and look at us now. Don't listen to anyone. Only YOU know what you feel for him. NO ONE else.

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Okay im 13/f i need a way to loose a little belly fat b4 school starts im not fat but i have a little belly fat any quick ways i can get rid of it before next MONDAY!!??

run..

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I believe it's possible for me to get a right & left leg split by the end of summer (note my exlusion of the straddle split..hahaha) So..um..how should I go about it? I know I have to practice..but like..how often should I do it/do I hold or bounce/etcetc..

(ps gymnastics tryouts are on august 31!)ty in advance

get as far down as possible without hurting yourself. Sit there for a few then bounce. Or have your mom/dad hold your hands above you and make you bounce. I did that and I got mine in about a week a week and a half. If your REALLY flexable it will come easy. I hope I Helped

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Hi, I just got on AIM, and one of my friends that things have been real rocky with lately sent an offline IM that said just this:

******: [Offline IM sent 2d and 20h ago] http://www.elyrics.net/read/b/blue-october-lyrics/hate-me-lyrics.html

He's a guy, I'm a girl. Could anyone tell me possibly what he's trying to say to me by making me read those lyrics? Or what the point of sending those to me are? Thank you.

a little more info, we used to be best friends, but he changed a lot, and now we're always fighting, and barely friends.

I think he still cares. Maybe he likes you more then a friend? Try downloading the song and listening to how he sings it. Good luck

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where can i find really cool seat covers that fit all seats? i'm a female...i love pink...im almost 16 so you know something that would be cool for a girl.

try wal mart if not there, if you have an Auto Zone They have them there! I hope I helped

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ok so i want this next school year to be the best year for me. it is my sophmore year. i want to make a whole lot more friends.
but im really shy. i normally wait untill people come to me. so how can i become more friendly?
or unshy? haha lol.
im the type of girl who needs to be comfortable around you..for me to be who i am.
so any help on how to make friends?

Try just going up to people, and be like "hey Im (name)" if you dont know them. If you know them, but never talked to them before, go up and be like "hey I really like you (outfit or w/e)".
That wil start a convo. with anyone. It works for me! I hope I helped

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i have a light greenish color for my eyes.
my eyes are kinda small.
and i have circles under htem but there not like black.
but there not super light.

how should i apply my make up to make them
pop out more and seem bigger?
how do i make my eyes look more green?

At Walmart, they have eye make up out, and at the top it will say "this is best used for green eyes" buy that. My friend got the eye make up for blue eyes, and it works soo good.

I also have kinda small eyes, I use eyeliner on my top and bottom lids.

For the circles under your eyes, but two spoons in the freezer and leave them in there for maybe a day, take them out and put them under your eyes. You might need to do this everyday for maybe a week, I made my dad do it, and it helped. But he stoped doing it bc he felt girly. haha. I hope I Helped

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I WAS semi-involved with this guy, who has been a really good friend of mine since 7th grade (currently in 10th)he even broke up with his girlfriend for me. i felt really bad about that bc shes my friend. but i thought he must be pretty serious, bc shes freaking gorgeous. so we talked for a while, and we started dating on Friday. then. the next day my best friend calls me and says that he was gunna break up with me.
wtf?
next thing i know, were not dating and he's into his ex again. i feel so freaking used. and. blah.

what do i do? he was one of my best friends and now i cant think of him like that anymore.
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was your best friend the girl he dumped?.. or just a friend?.. anyways. maybe the ex talked him into dating her again.. ask him what went on, and what happened?.. did you really like him? or see you guys being friends? if friends, then just be friends, if not and you liked him, tell him that he hurt you..

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I am not a bully, and I am not currently being bullied. But I just finished reading the book
'Please Stop Laughing At Me" and it REALLY opened my eyes to the kids at my school who are bullied. I try to be nice to everyone, but there are those kids who stand out of the crowd and a lot of kids make fun of their differences. There are a bunch of kids I can name at my school who are victims of this. Constantly being made fun of. On one side, No one should ever have to be laughed at or made fun of. On the other hand, for some kids they kind of set themselves up for it. Is my reasoning wrong? I mean, I want to be friendly to those who dont have any friends and who are lonely, but I admit, I have to protect myself. The kid in that book that I read tried to help someone and he got made fun of. At my school, you could get like beat up. How am I supposed to help if I cant reach out to them. That book brought me to tears, just thinking of all the times a long time ago when I used to make fun of people. Not too bad stuff, but It sure wasnt angelic. If I tried talking to these kids that are shunned from the group, I will get shunned too. But if I dont help, I feel like a terrible person. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!? Thanks for the help

Just be nice to them. You don;t have to ask them to go places with you, or hang out with you. But if someone in your class is like that, and you cause are doing a partner thing, ask them to be in it. at my school, all the so called "preps" (me & my friends) WE dont make fun of those kind of people, but other kids who seem to be "punks" do. But I understand what you are saying. If your friends are like mine, and are nice to the others, then be nice. But if your friends are the "punk" kind, then find new friends. Im sorry I didnt help much. But just be nice to them, remember, you DONT have to ask them to hang out or anything, but the kindness you do, will someday be returned..

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okay so my boyfriend is only a year older but a year is a lot with us because im going into seventh grade and he is going into eighth. He always tells me about how his best friend got to third in a cemetery and stuff and well i know that he wants to go farther too. and if he tries to touch my boobs or take off my shirt i always tell him no because i dont want him to see the stretch marks on my boobs. what should i do.

thanks xox

aw hunny its fine. I have them, its just bc your boobs grew fast, nothing to be ashamed of. Its fine!.. If you been with him for awhile, he wont care!!

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Hey! Well I was just wondering if anyone knows what cell phone vanessa hudgens uses in high school musical. And what carrier that phone belongs to.
Thanks anyways!

I know its cingular, bc I was looking for a new phone..

http://cgi.ebay.com/Treo-600-Unlocked-Cingular-T-Mobile-Cell-Pda-Cell-Phone_W0QQitemZ120152705467QQihZ002QQcategoryZ64355QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem#ebayphotohosting

I think that is the one.. it looked like it. && I think its called Treo 600. Hope I helped

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Okay, I was saposed to be getting my hair straightned before school, but the dressers all booked up so I was thinking of going somewhere else. But I was gunna have my Grandmother pay for it, well i work for her, and complicated but theres no time. But my Mom has time how am I going to convince her to pay 100 dollars? Umm I seriously have really really curly hair and I can straighten it myself but I cant get it wet and its just huge puffy and not pretty.. err. Help me?

just ask your grandma to give you the money and have your mom take you to get it done. Good luck

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well i have a twin sister and our parents told us we could each get a dog. she really wants to model herself after paris hilton so she wants one of those small yippy dogs. but the truth is i cant stand those dogs and i would hate to have it in our room yipping the whole night away! i want to ask her for another choice but i dontknow how to break it to her since we both really care abou the others feelings and she could take it two ways- one, be all defensive, ending in a big fight or two, get upset that she feels were growing up and growing apart. help?!

well i have a chihuahua, and the thing with chihuahuas are they LOOOVE their family. just not other people. So the puppy wont be yipping all night like you think. But if you still dont want her to get one, try asking her nicely if she could think about getting a differnt dog. Or find a picture of a CUTE dog and be like omgosh look how cute, and hopefully shell fall in love.. haha I hope I helped

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so im throwing this huge party tonight for the primere of high school musical 2. its gonna be great [duh zac is such a cutie!] but i need some suggestions on what to do at the party. what food should i serve, what decorations, what to do at commercials,and DUH...what size posters of zacky wacky should I hang on every inch of the movie room!!!!!!!!!.... etc. i really need it to be quick because its gonna be tonight so pleaseeeee reply ASAP!!!
thanks!!! :]

Order PIZZA! Everyone loovesss pizza for watching movies. Popcorn, pop, chips. I dont think you really need decorations, but put posters up. Not like everywhere, but a good bit. For commercials, sing what you just saw. Or run to get more food outa the kitchen. Commercials arent THAT long. But I think singing a song you just heard would be fun.. HAVE FUN!

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I'm not flexible at ALL and I really need to gain some flexibility.

Question is, how?
Please don't say yoga, I've tried it before and it's incredibly boring.

stretch everyday. Hold each stretch for 45 secs. And do a backbend. Now Find a wall face away from it, and bend back to touch the wall and walk yourself down as far as you can go. Even if its a little. Then walk it back up with your hands. I hope I help

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