So, I might have to move soon. I've living in my house my entire life and it's been in family since my grandmother got married. (She even left it to me in her will) There are so many memories and I'm not sure if I can handle all this pressure. I know, to you I sound rediculous, but my home is everything to me. We would still be living in the same state, but really really far from the city. The reason why we are moving is because the city we are living in is causing us a lot of problems. I mean it would be great to leave this city (I personaly hate it), but leaving this house behind is going to tear me in two. How am I supposed to deal with this situation?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? sunnyville answered Thursday August 23 2007, 8:52 pm: I am going to move soon away from my home too because of problems I'm having so I also have memories in my home as well.I know it's such a painful thing to move away from a place you lived so many special moments that you will never forget you just have to tell yourself I have to leave it eventually one day I can't stay here forever you know,be able to adapt to another location for my own good,for my family ,I'm sure that you're grandma would understand that,that she would want you to be happy,see you grow into this great person,it's understandable that you feel this way,all these memories keep them in your heart,in your mind,spirit,don't be upset,you may one day look, back in the future,say it's good that I was able to be strong,to let go,accept to go somewhere safe,that I will always remember my loved ones,don't look at it as you're abandoning it but as starting a new,better life for you and your family. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
hollister_lover09 answered Thursday August 23 2007, 8:43 pm: Maybe take something that really means something to you off the house and take it. Like say wallpaper, if its been there since your grandma lived there, rip some off and put it in a picture frame. Or something like that. I hope I helped, I tryed<3 [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
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