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ok....i just got my hair highlighted platinum blonde and honey blonde. my natural hair color is a dirty blonde/light brown. when i part it down the middle there is soooo much blonde on the top of my head! it looks practically white..should i go back to my hair stylist and get my hair stripped or dye it brown? 14/f

HELP MEEE!!!!

go brown!!! or if you want a honey-yellow,thats very pretty! you dont want to spend lots of money then have it be out of style do you?!

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Every time I get out of the shower my hair is frizzy, poofy, and just a pain! No matter how much i straighten it, it never hangs down flat like other girl's hair! Its always poofing out, or has waves in it! I need help my hair always looks bad!

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aye aye aye~this always happens eh? ok,straitener from con-air always works for me! anti-frizz spray is awesome aswell! But to be honest,i think you should go for a crazy look :) maybe anti frizz your hair then crimp it ! wet it down then blowdry it,crimp it a little more if you want! that is an awesome look!

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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx!

cold water,lotion is good :) but dont put any make up on!! you'll have a beautiful tan soon!!!
this happend to my friend also,she was red today but it will turn a nice crip tan!!!

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Hi my name is shaby
as the question suggests im a totally confused ,insecure guy , a victim of inferiority complex ,introvertism ,shyness,underdeveloped social skills ........
I donot have many friends and i wanna be loved by people ...
i act like a pushover which I shoudnt be......
i also am a coward and i cant ask ppl for favours or refuse people for anything they want even if its for their own good ....
plus i try avoid uncomfortable social events bcoz obviously of which i wont be aware or known ...... nor i will know about other people ......
my mind goes conmpletely blank when someone asks me anything ....
plzzz help me .... im so depresesd i cry to myself ....... i find it dificult to open up ... im so lonely i feel like killing myself

ok,try to find a talent like,something good about you! maybe people will notice how good you are at it. you might say "i dont have talents" Try different things. Maybe talk to you parents/teachers about this!! Join a sport,you have to take the pressure. If your mad at someone because they make fun of you,express it on this sport [[such as basket ball,base ball,football,some of these are good to express anger in]] The more anger you express the less stress and the better you'll feel!!

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i got my school report last week and it was okay.my maths teacher said that i should ask for help when i dont understand,so i have ever since but everytime i ask its like its too much effort for her to help me. well today i asked for help and she did a real big sigh and i just lost it and sweared at her and stuff. anyway she said she would forget about it if i said sorry but i refused cos i was still angry.well now im waiting to go into the heads office and i dont know what to do or say? anyone done this before?please reply quick xx

oh boy!! ahh....say your VERY sorry for your actions but it was to hard to understand and frustrateing.Say, something like "its to hard for people to help me,and i feel like whenever someone dose,i'm being babyed" something like that.Say sorry to your teacher and that you werent thinking at all. i hope i helped :)

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last week was spring break for me, and i went to the beach. While i was there, i got sunburned. My face is peeling and all. My question is, will it be ok to get my eye brows waxed tomorrow or will it make my face peel more?

wait till it gets better!! and if you do get them waxed,you'll have white spots near your eyebrows,it might look odd!! i say not now,get them done when your face it better :)

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Hey!

I don't know where else to get some advice for this but I was just wondering what color of eyeshadow/eyeliner would look good with a light turquoise blue dress?

I have red hair, blue eyes & I'm somewhat fair-skinned.

Thanks so much!

i'd say maybe yellow & white mixed. Or just white,i dont think you want a lot,just something to make it shine. Brown eyeline will be good,because black tends to look to dark on fair skin.You could mix brown and black eyeliner,but dont put to much black on. i hope i helped :)

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Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)

What Would *You* do?

i would tell her my feelings! who knows that mystery crush might just be you!! and if she dosent,you still friends!if you think you will be uncomfotable around her if she dosent like you when you tell her,please dont feel uncomfortable! Your friends and you should be cool with each other! if she dosent like you,so what you should be happy for her if she gose out with another person :).If she dose,good friends make a good couple,right?!?!

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I'm really close to my cousin who is 2 years younger than me (we're both girls). But its the fact that we've been around eachother our whole lives that makes us close. If it wasn't for being related, I would never hang out with her. All her life, she's been a follower and there is absolutley nothing thats unique about her. AT ALL and I'm tired of it. When the whole "skater" thing was in...she pretended to be a skater. Now that the "punk" thing has been in for awhile shes followed that. I know, I know..."some people like it, so let them be". But she's always posting things like "peace" "drop food not bombs" blah blah blah because her older brother does it (he's a punk, but he's been a punk for awhile and he's truly into it). So she's going around posting all this crap, and she has NO CLUE whos running for president. She has NO IDEA on politics whatso ever and here she is posting all this crap. Another thing is her vegetarianism. She became a vegetarian because her brother and all of their punk friends were vegetarians. I asked her why she became one, and she would not answer me because she had nothing to back it up with. Its cool that she doesn't eat meat--I don't either (I don't eat it because of health/personal reasons whereas her brother does it for the animals) and I have no problem sharing that with people. But her on the other hand... yea. And she's embarassing to go places with because of the way she dresses. Her pants are super tight and she'll sew the bottoms for them to look like that and she's not exactly skinny or someone who would look good in those pants. The other day, her pants ripped in the butt area and she was embarrassed. Then she shouldn't wear such tight pants. She can afford regular pair! Thats what she buys at the stores. Its not the fact that shes "punk"...its the fact that its all a stupid little show. And she's such a drama queen too. I'm so sick of her. She hardly takes a shower and she thinks she's the best at everything, I'm not even kidding. She thinks she sings really, really good and everytime I sing in the car really low to a song on the radio, she'll hear me and start trying to sing over my voice (I'm not even singing loud in the first place, so I don't know how she can hear me). Her voice is TERRIBLE. Even my other family members talk about it behind her back. To sum it up...my cousin is so unoriginal its disgusting. I know the world is full of people copying other people, but some things you only see once or twice. But everything on her is like every sellout thing imagined. And she's so self-absorbed. I'm sick and tired of it. But because we're cousins I can't just tell her all of this. How can I tell her in a more polite way to stop living off of what other people do or say and start becoming your own person?

woah,long :). I think its a phase. when your yunger people tend to follow,its like having an idol.ughh that must be anoying,but at least shes not copying your every move!! If you have clothes that dont fit you and will fit her,let her have them :),in the car,say"lets sing together" if you want to. Maybe u could go to the mall and shop 4 clothes with her.Or you could say "the new style is being original and yourself!!" "everyone dose it and it is cool!!"
i hope i helped :):)

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ok well i used to go out with this boy im not saying his name tho and well he treated me with respect and he cared about me and he would always see how my day was and cheer me up he was the only guy who could ever make me laugh and smile when i was crying or deprssed and then i dumped him for another guy that i thought was sweet but apparently not becuz he keeps telling me and with alot of force in his tone to give him head and to have sex with him and i reallie miss the guy i dumped becuz he was the closest thing to perfect that i had in my life and when it was just me and him it felt like nothing else existed but me and him and the least i could have done was treated him with respect in return. and this is all my fault!!!

plz help me

ok this is not a VERY bad situasion[sorry spelling]
Dump that loser who wants you to have sex with you!! Next,tell your old boyfriend you were sorry for dumping him,dont ask him out just yet.Become friends,good friends,see what will happen then!
--i hope i helped

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ok so i have this friend and she's mexican and obviously she's not white. i'm persian but i dont look persian at all...i look white b/c i basically am. she's acting all getto all the time and its hard to deal with sometimes like she is acting all like that and i'm stuck being white. how do i deal with this?

aye aye aye! im white aswell :). It should not matter the skin color! if i might say,people also act different in different places,example-- i used to live in a city that was all getto,so i acted a bit myself,but when i moved i didnt act as getto because people there were not.[[not saying im getto or not,why should it matter!!]] Summer is coming soon :) get a niicee tan!!:):) i hope i helped you:)

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can you name some fatining foods?

different types of sugar, pizza,greasy foods,much more [[i've heard garlic salt is not good for you,but i do not no if this is true.]]
--cokecap

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Hi ..theres a school dance on fri. and all my friends have plans to do something before the dance but i dont! my group of friends split in half & basically i was the one left out! ='( Im so sad ..but what do i do? No one really wants me to join their plans ..We cant bring ppl from other towns and everyone like in my school (that i know well) has plans.. hwat do i do? signed, Lonely

well,you can get one of your friends from a different town or your sister [[if you have one]] and do something fun and they can help you get ready. If you want to be friends with someone,hangout with them!! my group of friends slpit up as well! Just find someone who likes you and u will talk to.Dont pay atesion[sp!!] to what other people think:) i hope i helped :)

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