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I'm a med student, so health related questions I can usually answer pretty well. I also like to think I'm somewhat decent at giving advice. I can also give you an honest opinion."I love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen or, who I'm gonna meet, or where I'm gonna wind up. I figure life's a gift and I don't intend on wasting it. You don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next."
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he was my first real love, and broke up with be abruptly when i was 12. now i'm 16, and i thought for sure i was over it, but now i'm not so certain. i started going out with his best friend a while back, and they were both fine with my ex's and my own history together, so there wasn't a problem there. i don't see him very often, but when i know he's coming to my boyfriend's house or i know i'm going to see him, i get anxious. my stomach starts hurting with anxiety and i get really paranoid about the way i look or act. does this mean i still like him, or am i just weird.
it doesn't necessarily mean you still like him. when i see my ex i always want to look good too. it's normal. its kinda like you want to show him what he's missing out on;) haha
I've heard about girls loving big dicks. I don't really know why though. I know that line about "not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean" but it seems like it must not be so true since so many girls are raving about how huge penises really do the trick for them. Even pornstars show off their size.
I'm definitely no porn star though and I don't have a big one. So, I'm just curious why girls do prefer bigger penises? I don't have a problem with it. If it's just the way it is then it's just the way it is. Can anyone offer me some answers though as to why girls prefer it? Out of pure curiosity, of course...
i think big penises are gross. i don't like them small either but a good size will do the trick fine. if its too big it could be painful and i just think its unsttractive if its huge.
I need the real answer to this and not some sugar coated lie. If a girl gives a guy a blowjob (head, oral sex, sucking, whatever you wanna call it) and he finishes up in her mouth then can she get pregnant if she swallows it?
My friend just got a blow job and the girl spit it out. She told him that she does that so she doesn't get pregnant. Is she lying or telling the truth?
hahaha no you can't get pregnant from swallowing it.
hey, my boyfriend calls me babe.i wanna give him a nickname too but i cant think of anything.i would prefer something that will match what he calls me.but i cant think of a masculine version for babe.
i'm sure he won't care if you call him babe. i've used babe, sweetie, sweetheart, anything really i'm sure he'll think its cute haha
...So i know whats wrong...I just dont know how to fix it...I think I want too much at the same time. I want to have a diploma/certificate, a full time job/career that i like/love, i want to spend time with my bf I want to be healthy I want to work out but I cant possibly do all these things...then i get sad or depressed becasue i want a career but i dont know what, or i want to be healthy but i dont find time or W/E...anyways how do i fix me????
chill out and take it one step at a time. there is no way to "fix" you, you're fine, just a bit ansy. just calm down and move slowly. its alot to handle at once but definetly possible if you don't get so frustrated.
13/f
we just got our yearbooks and i dont know how to ask the guy i like to sign mine...i REALLY want himtosign it..but im a little nervous and scared...and he sits right next tome in science
just go up and ask him, its not like he's going to be the only signature in your yearbook. if you guys are friends its definetly not unusual.
Hi, I have a lot of trouble with basic algebra, so I'm trying to start from the beginning and try to reteach myself some of the basic concepts.
I have an example problem, and then a question that follows...if someone could please help me out, it'd be greatly appreciated.
I'm supposed to simplify:
3x+2y - 5x+8y
I understand that I have to group the like-terms together, therefore it becomes:
(3x-5x)+(2y+8y)
It's pretty pathetic to say this, but this is where I get stuck... I know how to group the like-terms... but what confuses me is which signs to use at which time. For instance, Why does the positive sign change to a negative sign,meanwhile the sign between the two sets of parentheses changes to a plus sign? How do I know when I'm supposed to change a sign and when I'm supposed to keep one the same?
I understand that the solution comes to
-2x+10y
though the middle part... regrouping all the numbers together because of the sign changes, that part confuses me. Are there any easy tips or me to remember which sign is supposed to come next?
you don't need to group them in parenthesis.
so it would be 3x-5x+2y+8y or -2x+10y
the signs don't ever change. 3x-5x is subtraction because its -5x. and when you use grouping to solve equations its always addition in the middle unless a specific number is negative (in this case it would be if the 2y was negative).
umm hii umm..! i need help because me nd my ex are still talkin and we both still like eachother cause i asked him and he said he did but like are we ever going to get back together i dont know what to do anymore can you help me..! :(
i honestly think from experience that getting back together with your ex isn't a good idea. you broke up for a reason and even if you get that spark again with each other you're most likely just going to break up shortly after because of that reason. i know it hurts and i know you want him back really bad, i've been in your shoes just last year and it took me awhile to get over it but it will happen and you will find someone that will stay with you.
whats the best/easiest brand of tampons to use?
i have a hard time using them lol
thanks!
xo
tampax pearl
Okay, so im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend plan on staying virgins till we are married. Well, this is also mine and his first relationship so we are both figuring out stuff. Well the other night we both kinda got into the moment and we ended up kinda grinding up on each other, which is also known as dry sex. Well, I stopped it and it only lasted maybe 3 minutes...well, im getting all worried that there is a chance i could be pregnant even though he swears he didnt ejaculate. He was wearing underwear and jeans and i was wearing running shorts and underwear. So is there any possible way? And I know this is probably even stupid to ask but I still have about 3 weeks if not a little longer till my next period.
you both were wearing clothes. there is no way you are pregnant.
ok..... welll i read your column of how to tell my mom i had my period but the problem is that she overreacts
once i waited only 2 days to tell my mom i needed a bra and she flipped out its been about six months now from my first period and i have no clue how to tell her with out being grounded or killed or kicked out she over reachs to everything
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just tell her. she doesn't need to know that you've had it for 6 months without telling her. just tell her you just got it.
Hello im 19/f and i wanna get a new car.. well a used car i'm thinking a 2006 Chevy cobalt, or like a dodge stratus or Oldsmobile alero. Does anybody own one of these cars or know someone who does. I live in Michigan and it snows alot, so must be able to handle winters! I do rate so thanks alot to everybody who answers! :)
Thanks
hey i have a 2005 chevy cobalt, its pretty much the exact same thing as the 2006. i live in connecticut and it handles winters pretty well. it isn't the best, but you're not going to get it unless you get four wheel drive or like a truck or something but it has done me just fine. just make sure to get snow tires.
if you could be anyone in the world alive or dead who would u be?
myself. honestly, sometimes i wish i was someone else at times but i look at what i have and that's all i really need.
(15/f)
I was wondering if anyone could tell me if my hair is healthy or not, or if i'm damaging it too much!
Everyday i get up, shower, wash and condition my hair, blow-dry, then straighten. My hair is naturaly curly and frizzy, so i prefer it straight.
Even though i straighten it everyday, i use a protecting spray, bought from a salon.
The thing is, my mom tells me ALL THE TIME, i'm damaging my hair, and i don't want to be!
Before I started processing my hair often, it was very thick and healthy feeling. Now, it seems it's been thinning around my bangs.
Could this be because of my routine?
If it is, what can i do to change that?
And does anyone know any tricks on how to get thicker nicer hair?
Thanks! :)
straightening and blowdrying is really bad for your hair, especially if you do it every day. if you're gonna blowdry it try using cool air. and you definetly shouldn't straighten it everyday, it does soo much damage to your hair. your hair is naturally curly, so many people are jealous of that. why don't you wear it curly more? i use tousle me softly mousse from herbal escenses so it keeps your curls soft and frizz-ease to keep the frizziness away.
i'm a girl and i'm 14, and i admit, i have a boyfriend. we've been going out for 9 months and he's usually NOT like this!
i'm keeping this brief, cuz i hate going into detail about it.
we were at a park alone recently, and he was sitting at the base of a slide and i was on his lap. i was kinda uncomfortable, but we were just talking and i didn't see any harm. but then he started....rubbing my thigh and getting closer to my butt...
i really didn't like it so i got up and pretended to look at something.
he asked me to sit next to him again. i didn't want to, really, but i thought maybe he just wanted to tell me something.
well he started touching me like that again. i was about to say something, but i was SO scared!
i hate myself for not doing anything!! you have no idea...
just then his phone alarm went off and we had to go. as we were standing up, i noticed a bulge in his pants and...it REALLY looked like he had a boner...
it was SO AKWARRRDD!!! he was trying to cover it up with his shirt and pretend nothing happened...
for two weeks i was totally hung up about it.
i hate anything sexual, my eye kept twitching, i was zoning out more than usual, i kept thinking about it and flinching when people touched me.
he's apologized, but now he doesn't seem affected.
he's usually such a good kid, though.
oh btw he's 15, just information i forgot to add.
am i overreacting? he's my first boyfriend, so i don't know how significant a boner is...
help pleeez.....
thanks...
well you're right you shouldn't let him touch you if you're not comfortable with it but i think you're overexaggerating about the boner. its completely normal that just means he's turned on by you. he shouldn't have to apologize for having a boner because he can't help it. just make it clear to him that you don't want sex right now. he will probably still get a boner if you sit on his lap or makeout and stuff but that doesn't mean you have to have sex with him.
Tell me if this is normal because i'm freaking out.
I'm a 17 year old girl. Junior in High school. I still can't wear tampons. Is that bad?? I only wear pads and i've tried soooooo many times to try tampons but they hurt too badly and feel weird all the time and i just overall hate them. I feel so different. like other girls can handle sex and stuff, but i can barely put in a tampon! is something wrong with me?? It will be a year with my boyfriend in May and he's always wondering why I don't want him to finger me. If i tell him, or anybody for that matter, i'll be so embarrassed and feel like i'm so different than everybody.
Helppp i'm desperate.. everytime i try, i start crying in frustration because it NEVER works out. I get about an inch in, and then it starts to feel weird and gross.
If it helps, i'm terrified of needles. so i think that putting in a tampon reminds me of a needle going in me. do you think that could be a reason??
i think that if you're comfortable with your boyfriend and ready for him to finger you (even if you think it might hurt) to just have him do it. tell him to go real slow at first though. i used to have the exact same problem as you but i found it that if someone else who i trusted stuck something up there instead of myself i didn't freak out as much. it will also get your body used to having something up there which should make putting a tampon in alot easier.
Well like I want to because well we do have things in common. I guess it's just that like in the beginning things were good between us. There weren't any problems or anything. But then he ended up making these two friends and well in the beginning was cool because like I felt included. Then all of a sudden the conversations just started to revolve around them and I felt I was left out of the equation. Now I try to find every lame excuse so I don't have to go out with him and his friends, because when it's just us it's cool but when his friends are there, it sucks because he doesn't include me and neither do his friends. Plus like I promised his brother I would sort of look out for him, not babysit, just look out for him since he's in Europe and his brother's English is not perfect so I kind of help him out. But my friend from Europe is like my older brother. Usually I don't get involved with my friend's siblings because with a former friend years ago, I got into a problem with his brother and well he obviously took his brother's side and well I don't want history repeating itself because well like people say no matter what, blood is thicker than water. So I feel conflicted.
oh i see. maybe you could just go out with just him and not when he's with those friends. or maybe you can invite some of your other friends when he's with his other friends and you can all hangout together so you feel less like a thirdwheel since you have your friends there too.
I am a 20 year old guy, and well I am having friendship trouble. My best friend had to go back to Europe and then his brother came instead. So it's different than the way it was with my best friend. But what upsets me the most is that my best friends brother says that we're friends and he emphasizes it a lot, but he acts contrary to that. He never talks to me, there is some tension and when he invites me to hang out with him and his friends, the conversation revolves around them and he doesn't include me and I feel like a third wheel. I really want to have a genuine friendship with my best friends brother. What can I do?
well does your best friends brother want a genuine friendship with you, or does he just feel obligated because since his best friend left, he feels like he has to fill the position? why exactly do you want a friendship so badly with someone who treats you like a third wheel? if it's bothering you that much and you really want to be friends with this guy let him know everything that you told me. see if he actually wants to be friends with you. its not worth trying to make a friendship better when the other person doesn' even want it.
Like I had dis problem with my girlfriend see I really don't like my girlfriends to drink cause who knows wats gonna happen when they get drunk :( and like my new girlfriend now we been going out 4 3months now and we love each other to death and like she used2 drink but she stopped becuz of me but she is gonna go to dis birthday party dis week 4 her cousin and I know it's gonna be alcohol there but she said she wasn't gonna drink any but her cousins might pressure her or she might just sneek and drink some and I can't go to da party so idk wat to do I'm just scared she might get drunk I told her already but she said she's not how do I know she will never tell :(
what's the big deal if she drinks a little bit? if she really cares about you then she won't do anything stupid. if you love her, trust her. let her have a little fun, don't be so dramatic.
if you saw your husband sending messages to other girls lets say thru facebook or myspace etch and he wrote "hey bby let me get your aim or msn,your a cutie" while being with you would you get mad?? but without him knowin you check his thing .
yeah i would definetly get mad. that's the start of cheating and he shouldn't be doing that while in relationship.