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5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


!!STAY SiC!!

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hEy! whats the rap song thats out noW that says something about dem hIps?! thanks a million!

Ohh your probably talking about pimpin all over the world, where hes like hey girl im diggin them lips you better watch where yur walking when yur swinging them hips, or something.
good song.

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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex


...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am

when u bleed during sex it means someone popped your cherry

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Can girls get orgasm's without having sex?

yeah

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Hello. I need your help desperately. I'm a female and I hate the summer because I sweat like crazy. As a result of this, I get massive sweat stains under my arms. This makes me extremely self-conscious. I usually put on tons of deodorant with anti-perspirant in it to stop me from sweatting so much, but it doesn't help. I get really embarassed because of it, and now I only wear darker colored shirts because you can't see them as bad. What do I do?! :-( Thank you so much for your help.

Okay you can use this deoderant called "Certain-Dri", or go to the dermatologist, the derm will most likely give you a deoderant called "Dry-sol" that will work wonders. If you have problems making appointments with the derm for some weird reason you can order it here:
http://www.canamedsplus.com/searchresults.php?keywords=drysol

i think all you need is a credit card. if you need firther help just instant message me il be online all day whoo hoo.
good luck!

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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...

is it weird that i miss him all day?

people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him


and i miss him

Its not weird, i know how it is. im missing alot of people right now and ive just been sad all day. just concentrate on your friends and stuff it will pass the time away.

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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

Oh GOD im on mine now and your period IS ONE OF THE WORST THINGS YOUL HAVE TO FACE IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. the pain, the blood, the tampons, the vagina, the mood swings,the cramps, AHHHH!!!!!!!BAN PERIODS! Youl get used to tampons, you dont really feel them unless u put them in teh wrong way. yeah read the instructions. itl be okay. its ALL PART OF BEING A WOMAN WOOHOOO

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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?

Thanks!

They usually do a really good job but i usually make sure how i want it, because once time they waved all but like 5 hairs off my eyebrows haha it was horrible. The pain? Eh. it will just sting a little. dont be worried about it, they will do a good job, just go to a good place. good luck!

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what are some flirty sweet names to call a guy besides sexy or baby???

omg lol my friend always calls me honeybun(ny)...its so great...i love that kid..

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i wanna have sex so bad i finger my self everyday does neguy wanna contact me??? leave me ur # and ill call i dont care if you live in Missippi......ill drive i live in NC
P.S my holes tight so guys......it will feel GOOD

call me. 1-773-509-5027

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Im just wondering..when you get your cell phone bill in the mail, does it ever list what the text messages said?

lol no. and if it ever did id never be able to use my cell phone again.

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OK, i am 14, and just going into highschool.I am going to an all girls school. I have never been boycrazy, i havent even gone out with a boy or anything. I do have a lot of friends who are guys. I really want a boyfriend, but going to an all girls highschool will make it harder. I am also an EXTREME tomboy, and i'm not really fat, just bulky and muscular. How do i get guys to like me? And what can i do to get a bf when im going to an all girls school? help me, i rate high!!

Tomboys are just wounded girls. just wait for a boyfriend. youre not going to find one when your searching for one.

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so i had a pimple in my forehead and i started picking it .... until it eventually bleeded so know its all red/perple ugly and it has a scab any ideas of how i can get rid of it fast ?

neosporin helps, it really does.

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How short do you have to be to be considered a migit? im 15 and 4'10...does that make me a migit?

lol, well to me, youd be a midget. alike everyone. im 5'9''.

ahh the midget memories.

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What does it mean if your nipples are inverted?
How does it affect you?
Is it like a deformity?
Thanks i Rate high!

flat and inverted nipples are rather common – especially in first time mothers – they typically respond and improve over time.

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your not supposed to shave your pubic hair right
because it gets all stubbly and during the day it itches REALLY BAD soo...you not supposed to...right?

Just because it gets stubbly doesnt mean you should shave it. i mean who wants a big afro puff down there anyways? there are multiple things your can do about this. i answered a question similar to this before and this is what i replied:
Ahh...razorburn. theres not much you can do about getting rid of that completely, but you can try bikini-touch instead of a razor. theres also bikini zone shavcing cream and after shave stuff to put ion it. okay well heres some things you can try.
*shave with new razor never used.
*shaving in the direction of hair growth.
*waxing.
*using conditioner instead of shaving cream.
*putting conditioner, special non perfume lotion like cetaphil on after, or dabbing milk on with a cotton ball and wearing boxers.
*wear loose clothing after shaving.
*get specially formulated shaving cream for razorburn.
*put baby oil on when youre done.
*donating money to the poor.
Hope i help!!

x3 me"

yeah..

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ok...so I went to my boyfriends ball game and afterwords we uesually go out to eat. Well my boy friends best friends which is my ex wen't too. Well his brother and his brothers girlfriend came also...we were eating and everything wen't great! I had a fun time! Well a couple of days ago my boyfriend and I were in this place eating and he said did you have on thongs the other day when you came to my ball game and we wen't out to eat...I said idk because i wasn't sure why he was asking. He said becasue my best friend's brother's girlfriend said that they were halfway up your back! OMG! I was so imbarresed because i am younger than her like 4 years younger. And she probbly wen't back and told all of her little friends! I feel horrible what should I do?

omgosh dont worry honey, everyone always wears thongs, and usually girls thongs go halfway up their back too, lol. its nothing to be worried about, its just underwear. and thats pretty immature for her to go and do that. next time just make sure where ur underwear is lol

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I was on the bus yesterday and noticed that a really attractive guy was looking at me...he looked at me the entire time I was on the bus but never said anything to me. I'm thinking about trying to find him with craigslist - the only problem is that I'm 17 and he looked like he was in his early 20s. I would like to get to know him but am worried that he'll be put off by my age. Should I still try posting on craigslist anyways?

sure!

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ok well i have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart and then i have this guy friend that i like ONLY as a friend but see the thing is HE LOVES ME and he is always telling that he wishes i was with him and that he would treat me right. i know he would but he isnt my type of guy. his looks arent the best and i know looks arent everything because he is a great guy but i just cant see myself with him. i have tryed tellign him but it is still the samething . he always says o i wish i was ur boyfriend i know i would treat you right. can someone plz help me!! sometimes he makes me feel like i am a bad person and make me hate myself because i cant choice the right guy to go out with.:'(

Aww honey you dont deserve that. i know exactly how that feels. Just tell him youre sorry. Also tell him, that you cant be with someoen thats trying to break up the relationship b/w u and your boyfriend by making you feel bad, and that hes not really a good friend for doing what hes doing. i know you dont wanna break his heart..:(;; Maybe help him find a girl, and tell him to be confident and stuff. Ahh..grr..love, whats the point of it. Alright well try telling him u just wanna be friends i guess, im sorry. Good luck

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Ok well me and my best friend both like the same guy!!and like its big time like,so u cant stop liking him.hehe confusing i know.and so like he was saying he wants to "do stuff" with me then he turns around nd says he wants to "do stuff" with her adn tells her not to tell me because he doesnt want to ake me mad.and like we just want him to pick one of us because its getting like jealousy.but if he picks one of us then one of us will get jealous but we want him to soo like hehe whta do we do??????thanks soo much and ya i know its a little confusing! 14/f

p.s. i really really like him!

this has happened alot and the best thing that you guys can do is both get over him, and neither go out with him. like you said if one person is gonna go out with him then the other is going to get jealous and vice versa. I know it might be hard to do but you both could help each other through it, and it will bring u two both closer together. also, hes not really such a good guy if he says he wants to 'do stuff' with you, thats kinda low and shallow. plus thats pretty much using you. especially if hes going to say that two both of you. im sorry but really its the best all of you can do. hope you take my advice and good luck, &hearts.

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what are the bases??
like

1st is frenching.. right?

can anybody please tell me? Thanks

1st.-Kissing each other. (frenching, sure)
2nd.-Touching each other (hand jobs, fingering, feeling up)
3rd.-Oral sex (mouth to genital contact)
4th.(also known as home)-Sex (umm, sex)

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