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my best friend is going out with my other best friends step bro. we will call them k&j. well j's brother only comes down everyother weekend and thats the only time k goes there. j is always saying that she feels left out cause k is always with her bf. when i talk to j she seems upset. do u thin is k using j. cause i really dont know and if she is should i bring it or just keep it to myself.
ok.
ok, so heres the delio, i had been waitin for this guy to ask me out for 4 months, he had told a bunch of ppl he was gunna and we had been flirting and stuff, well he finally did on halloween, and i said yes , well 3 or 4 days into the relationship he gets in a fight with my friends, see hes christian and he believes no sex beofre marriage and no abortion and that kinda stuff which is what i believe too, but my friend dosnt, and so he called her a prostitue, well i stuck up for my friend, and was pretty much you dont have any right to call her that, you can tell her what she believes is wrong but thats crossing the line, and he got mad and is now ignoring me because i "took their side" over his, he has been ignoring me for the last 5 freakin days! and i have apolgized like 3 times, even though i feel like i did nothing wrong, and today i finally said we either need to fix this or break it off, because i dont want to be in a relationship where my boyfriend ignores me, even though i really really like him, but im sick of it, what should i do? should i try and work things out, or break it off with him?
ex.
Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys?
sex. outgoingness. flirty. talkative. ditzy. looks.
Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...
who cares.
How do I get guys to like me? Im a 14/f and i weigh 115 lbs. My friends say i am really pretty but i cant seem to get guys to notice me. Any suggestions?
become pretty and ditzy.
does any1 know how bad it hurts your hair to permantly straighten it? and what the process is??
no.
ok i like my friends step brother alot. she always tell s me she wants us to go out and stuff but sometimes i think shes lieing. my other best friend said that she wasnt but shes goin out with her other brother and she said the same thing to her and then she was mad for a month. i dont know wat to do should i go out with the guy or not?????
signed
confused
do watever, whenever, with whoever, cause no1 cares.
me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now but weve known and liked eachother for about a year...well we r really close n i decided to tel my parents about him and ive met his parents n stuff already...well 2dae i went to the movies with him and his family n his dad brought me home n dropepd me off and my bf walked me to the door...well my mom was like
"OH CAN I MEET UR PARENTS??" n my bf was like sure..and he walked her to his car...and i was like NO mom omg i cant believe u!1 and now i feel stupid! im scared to talk to him now bc im scared he mite think im a loser or watever for having my MOM go meet and talk to his parents and me standing ther having a lil fitt....wat can i do? idk im so embarassed im like not wanting him to call...=\
watever. go die.
Ok, i'm a huge flirt. even tho i've never had a bf. But i tend to flirt with guys that my friends like. And sumtimes they start to like me. (omg that sounded so cocky) Anyways... This happens a lot. And i'm sick of my friends calling me a man stealer, and i'm not! I want to stay loyal to my friends, but i can't help flirting. And i want guys to like me. What should i do?
yes.
mmkay im curious. i'm a 17 year old guy, and i know lots of girls think all guys are shallow..and only like really hot girls. well, when asked the question on who'd i choose, out of 'a gorgeous girl, thats really ditzy/dumb', or 'an okay girl, thats very intelligent' i picked option b. but to be honest, option a isnt that bad. most 'ditzy/dumb' girls are so much fun to be around, bcuz you never know what theyre gonna do next. theyre freakin so funny. my best friends sister is a complete ditz, lmao, but shes is like the coolest person to hang out with.
so i'm just wondering..what would some of you pick?
option a: gorgeous girl, no brains
option b: okay girl, intelligent
a
Ok, do all guys wait for GIRLS to make the first move? I mean, i kno this guy likes me but he wont make a move. what should i do with him?
i dunno, u decide.
Ok, i'm a girl who likes sports, video games, and all that stuff. And i hate girly stuff like shopping, make up, and all that. I'm tough and strong and i'm just wondering if it's a turnoff to guys when a girl is like me. I mean, do guys only want to be friends with girls like me? PLZ ANSWER!!
nope. guyz like girly girls. sry!
I worry for my fiance because she has reumatoid arthritis, which is very rare for someone her age. Well anyways the medicine they put her on always makes her feel horrible so she doesn't take it and deals with the pain. I'm just worried about the long term effects. I've talked to her about not taking it but she avoids the question. She's sick of seeing doctors so she won't get a second opinion on medicine. How can I help her?
bring her 2 the doctor, duh!
Guys, I am in late twenties and old enough to analyze whats bad and whats right. I had enough sex in my life. But I still feel so much attracted towards girls as well as women. Each female is different than other and all seems to be very attractive. I mean sometimes I feel, I should get some strange woman to have love, which never happened. Sometimes I myself feel bad about my feelings. Is it because I have extra sex feelings? I am not sure whether other people of my age group feels the same. Please share your experience.
ur not a virgin! bad boy!
I joined the army to make a life for my then girlfriend, now fiance. She has always resented the fact that I made the decision to enlist and leave home. It's now been almost a year and I have only seen her a few times since leaving. I miss her and I think it could have been a mistake joining even though it has created a way for us to get married. I am not happy without her and the long distance is wearing on me. How do i make myself happy without her?
letters. aww sry.
ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
tattletale TELL.
alright well theres this boy named ted..I've been going out with him sence august 6th and like in october he broke up with me and I brok eup with him altogether around 3 or 4 times and all those times we'ver gotten back together..but wednesday he broke up with me because he liked two other people..alina and tara..well alina has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is teds best friend..so he wouldn't get her.. tara is one of my best friends so she wont go out with him because she thinks hes a horrible boyfriend from what he did to me..and becasue she doesn't like him like that and also because hes the kind of boy that likes to be really close with there girlfriends and like make-out and stuff like that and she doesn't like that..so neither alina or tara like him..my friend britney was talking to him today and last night we had a schol dance and he was like staring at me and stuff..and she asked him if he still liked me and he said i dunno and stuff like that and then he asked me to call this girl taylor for him and I think it was so he could ask her out but I'm not sure..it might be that or it might be because she brok eup with her boyfriend yesterday and ted adn her ex are good friends so it might be for him..but I'm just not ready to let go..I'm scared that would be our last time going out..I like him soo much..like I would do anything for him..I know I sound pathitic but its true..I'm scared that if I dont get him back I might do something to myself because he was like my life..so my question is how to get him back..I dont wanna hurt myself because I've done it before but not for that reason...and I really need him back but I dunno how to .. please help..I'll rate high
let go.
Okay one of my bffs dad hits her and her mom doesnt belive her..Shes havin alot of trouble with her bf..And shes think about alot of things..like she only has 1 reason to live..and all this i really need help this is really serious..
i dont kno.
I have this friend that one day can be like my best friend and the next day act like she doesn't even know me/ like me. She is someone i want to be friends with but i just can't really take all the confusing things she does. I just kind of need a good friend in my life that is pretty stable since i dont really have to many other friends where i live. 15/f/wa thanks
ur confusing. dont occuse her. what was that? i dont understand!
A friend of mine needs a roommate, and I really want to move in with her because she's got a cool place and I'm sick of living on my own. The problem is that she's got a cat and I'm allergic to cats. The duplex has all hardwood floors and I'd have my own cat-free room, but I'm really nervous about moving in because cats really make me sick. Should I risk it?
yes. so yu dont bug the cats. poor cats.