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E-mail: jane_254@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Valdosta, Georgia
Age: 16
AIM: jane3240
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Member Since: July 11, 2004
Answers: 314
Last Update: February 25, 2005
Visitors: 16787


okay my cousin is here everyday because my mom has to babysit him and hes 10 and im 12 and in the past he has chocked me locked me in a car when it was 100 degrees out side he has banged a softball against my ear locked me in his rooam and bathroom he has pushed me in the shower and made me hit my head and yet he still does things to hurt me and now im stronger so i just wanna sock him really bad and i think he learns these things from his dad because his dad abuses him but still he does it and it hurts and sometimes he can be really cool like the best cousin ever but he abuses his little brother and makes fun of my sister and teases her how do i get him to stop should i just leave him alone i dont wanna get hurt again... (link)
*Tell your mother!!! Tell anyone in your family, you have no choice but to.*


how do u make urself throw up. i no that i lean over and stick ur fingers down ur throat and cough.. is that rite..what else do u do
-just wondering (link)
*Don't even think about making yourself throw up! You'll become bulimic.*


Okay, I like this guy, he's 20 and I am only 16. No he's not a rapest. He's got alot of respect for me and my father (he's afraid of him) and also he won't date because I am too young. But he said he likes me back... what should I do... I know he's 20 but I've cared about him for about a year now... and he knows I want him.... so do yall think there's a chance for me in the future? Tell me what you think! Be honest Plz! (link)
*Yes there should be a future with yall if he cares about you. Wait to be with him until you're 18 which is legal age. Lucky you he's turning 21 he can be your beer run man ;D*


i have a very bad addiction of fingerin myself..once i almost got caught what do i do? (link)
*Find yourself a guy*


when im if a (virble) fight wit some one im not good at comin up wit good comebacks what do i do so i dont sound stupid?
(link)
*Don't even get into verbal fights because those are stupid. You could really hurt someone's feelings.*


i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please (link)
*Your are in a stage of depression, ask your doctor to subscribe you pills for it. But please don't go killing yourself, because you are blessed with living and there's so much more to look foward to in the future.*


ok,i'm 13, 5 2 and 110 lbs. i already do situps and i'm on a soccer team. how can i lose lyk 5 to 10 lbs? plz help! ~***I RATE***~ (link)
*I think the 110 lbs. is muscle since your doing soccer.. Eat healthy food, cut down on snacks, and running and jogging will defintley help.*


i think all preps shoukd die! (link)
*Okay? Sorry you feel that way..*


my best friend is going after my ex. i'm sure its ok but i really dont enjoy it. i still like him. and its hurting my feelings. but....... i really dont no how to tell her that. (link)
*The only way is tell her to give you time to get over him*


What is a dildo I have read soooooooooo many ? on here about them and I dont know what they are... (link)
*They are fake dicks that you can hold and use them on yourself.*


i need help.my vagina seems to be smellin what should i do?its gettin really bad.pleae any sugettions (link)
*You might have a yeast infection. Just go to your doctor if you're really worried about it*


my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!

-signed help my friend out!-

I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
*Just flat out tell her she doesn't need to cut and you don't like it. If she can't tell her parents maybe you should, because one day she could cut too deep and be gone. Tell her to see a counselor or go into a special rehab for that.*


I am going into 7th grade and i am not allowed to have a boyfriend.I really like this guy and I know that he likes me.he asked me out and i told him i would think about it...what should I do.I really like him and i am afraid that if i say no that he will forget about me and...well just move on.I think that she is about to let me have a bf anyway.
Please give me advice.
~Thanx~ (link)
*Well if your mom's about to let you, then just wait until then. Just tell the guy your situation and he should understand. Instead of going on alone dates go on group dates so your mom can trust you and your guy better.*


what kind of clothes should i get for back to school..im going shopping soon (link)
*Right now the style is cropped jeans, long skirts, mini skirts, mini cardigans and denim jackets. But whatever your style is pick it, don't go along with everyone else =)*


okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her? (link)
*Using her of course. They're both using each other for pleasure. That's why there's "buddies" in fuck buddies.*


does anyone know how to loose a couple pounds in like a week?

-thanks (link)
*Exercise, diet, cut off on snacks and only eat healthy foods for the 3 meals. Also running and walking really helps!!*


whats a good icon site. (link)
* www.badassbuddy.com and www.iconhell.com *


how can i check what people rated my answers????????????????? (link)
*Go to View Feedback on your column page*


when is the best time to have sex without having to worry about getting pregnet? (link)
*Anytime except when your on your period which can be a mess. You won't get pregnant if you use a condom or if you're on the Pill. Just make sure you have protection and you won't get pregnant!*


Im moving in a few months, i hate it that i have to leave all my friends and everyone. i mean ill never forget them but im scared well loose touch and i dont want that. and when i go 2 a new school im gonna be so scared i hate it! ahh im so scared! (link)
*Well, when you go to your new school, just be yourself. It's a fresh start in life so take advantage of it!*




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