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Hey. I'm 13/f, he's 12/m. This kid has had a crush on me, a really bad one, since the beginning of this school year. [It's two weeks until the end.. :D!] But he really likes me, and he flirts with me A LOT and he's nice to me and everything but it gets really annoying. I don't like him, I just like the attention that I get from him. But as for his actualy personality, there's nothing besides a friendship there. I told him like 6 times that I don't like him, never have, and never will. (in nicer ways than that obviously). And my friends have told him. He just won't quit.
What should I do!? PLEASE HELP ME!
tell him to stop askingyou out! if he doesnt get the hint maybe you should say it more strongly. if you still want to be his friend then tell him. but if he continues to as you then say your either friends or your not friends at all. plain and simple. he should get the hint if you stick to your guns and dont let up.
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ok well me and my family havent been going to church lately for the past 4 months, (maybe longer) anyways this couple from the church came by and talked to us about how they missed us so much and how they all wanted us to come back. then they asked my two brothers if they were going and they said yes, then they asked me and i said yes. they didnt ask my dad. anyways im not ready to go back. i mean i dont want to at all. i dont like the preacher and i dont like the church. i mean the people are nice but i mean i just dont wanna go back. i mean what was i supposed to say? but anyways the question im asking is how do i get out of it. im going this sunday and i cant decide how to not go. i mean i cant tell my dad because then he will say WELL YOUR NOT CLOSE TO THE LORD and i am i just dont want to go to that church. how do i get out of going? (and no i cant call the church)
well sweetie chursh is only an hour and a half. if you dont want ta go then you shouldnt have to. if you did tell you dad and he said you werent close to the Lord calmly tell him that thats not how you realy feal. you just dont like that church, but you would like to go to another church. he should understand after you tell him that you would like to go to another church.
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Okay, so, i think i kinda have a boyfriend, but im not so sure, because he's been in rehab for...18 months now. I havn't seen him in 2 months, but the last time i saw him, he pretty much informed me that we were in a relationship. Heehee, pushy i know. But just a few days ago, my ex-bf started talking to me. A day later, he broke up with his gf of six months, and has been trying to hang out with me ever since. I know he still likes me, but i dont feel that way about him. I also dont think he knows that i have a "bf". How do i let him down easily? I feel bad because he told his friend he broke up with his gf for me. I really dont think its his buisness that i have a bf, because this is like, the first time i've started talking to him in like...2 years. But i dont know what to tell him. So, what should i say to tell him im not interested. ESPECIALLy if he asks me out.
Much luv,
~Abigail~*
*name changed for privacy reasons
well u havent seen your bf in 2 months. and your ex wants to get back with you. well just tell him. tell him that you have a boyfriend that you realy like. you still want to be friends with your ex. and you think its sweet he broke up with his ex just for you.(are you positive thats why he broke up with her)you havent talked in 2 years and all of a sudden he wants to be friends (somethings not right)i dont think you should tell your boyfriend about your ex. but if you have one of those relationships based on honesty then maybe you should.
15/m hi my name is ... well im not going to tell you but you can call me lonly& confused. before i start i would just like to let you know im really bad at typeing. well heres my problem. Im in love with someone who likes my best friend and idk if i shoud just go with it cuz i would rather her go out with him than some other slut. so ive been telling her things that arent exactly truthfull to make her happy because i love to see her happy. she means the world to me. im starting to think that im going crazy not really but like. im forgetting things so i save my convos from AIM and myspace so taht i can go back and see why she would be mad at me or whatever. well heres the big problem she likes my friend and i like her and her friend likes me. but i dont like her friend back. i dont want to lose her on the move to the highschool and i think im really good friends with her. im getting mixed messages from her and i cant tell whats real or whats fake. she told me that she dosnt tell people when she likes them so how am i suppoesd to know when she likes me if she dosent tell me. and she also said that she doesnt ask out people. so i dont want to seem like a total retard when i ask her out because of a sick joke. this is why i think im loseing it. shes really good friends with me and ive always liked her. but i need to know what to do. do i give up on her. and go out with the girl that i dont like but she likes me because it would be the nice thing to do. or do i try to get her to like me. if i try to get her to like me im going to end up hurt. but then again if i go out with her friend it would be easy but not what i want. and she thinks that my friend likes her as much as she likes him. but thats not true he used to like her but now he only wants to be friend. if someone could help me taht would be great. but i dont think anyone could handle what im going threw.
dont go out with someone if you dont like them. then you wouldnt be happy.
i say keep trying on the girl that you like. always be her friend.i know she said she doesnt ask people out. and thats totally understandable. because im the same way. maybe you should hint around with her. be nice and be patient. she'll get the point eventually. its cute that your going crazy over her and that shows that you really like her. just give her time. she'll come around.
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15/f
ok so this guy i used to date for a while is just now starting to talk to me again. and i just now started getting over him, cause he took my virginity and everything so it was hard to move on.
since he started talking to me im scared im gonna end up falling for his bullshit again.
and the other guy i like is in rehab and me and him are supposed to get together when he gets back but thats in 3 weeks. and i havent really talked to him since he left.
im just scared ill end up falling for my ex again, and i dont want to cause he went out with me for sex, treated me like shit and cheated on me like 10 times.
how do i avoid this?
HECK NO!! he sooo does not deserve you. im sorry but he totally screwed you over. he's taking atvantage of you. and then trying to get back with you. if you do happen to go back out with him dont be surprised when he hurts you again.
the second guy's in rehab, but you havet been communicating in 3 weeks. the key to a healthy relationship is communication. so things might be a little awkward when he gets back.
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ok so my two friends like these boys alot, and the boys hang out in the same class as my friends during lunch and stuff, but the problem is , they never talk to eachother my friends and the boys! the boys are really stupid and my best friend like a boy named "john" and we know john likes her only problem is hes a real shallow guy everyone knows it, but yeah he likes to flirt with her and he has told me before he only likes her as a friend but its real obvious he likes her more then that! what can she do, she wont talk to him i think she should give up but she says no, i mean why waste time on a guy who isnt willing to waste time on you!
and mean while my other friend likes "chris" but chris we know dosnt like her, and i dont want to piss her off but she needs to get that through her head , i mean why waste your time on him when you can be trying for someone else who does like you? she is gorgous but dosnt realize it, they both are beautiful girls but the boys they like are stupid.
now today i was talking to my bestfriend, the girl that likes john, and well she was being really depressed and i was like" whats wrong" she was like well lately ive been thinking of killing my self! "omg" i know but umm i was like well why she was like cause i think everyone would be happier my mom said it her self and my sis would like it, but i know her family and they would be devestated. i would be super upset cause i care for her alot she is my bestfriend for life. but i dont know, the thing is, i know for a fact she wont kill her self she is the person who says it but wont do it, and im over 200% sure she wont, but its just the fact she is saying it! that makes me upset., and the thing is, she says its cause of her family and the boy, but she needs to realize tthe bboy definetly isnt worth it! and her family loves her no matter what. this isnt the only time this has happened with a boy she likes, whenever she likes a boy she becomes kindda obsest wit hthem witch isnt good casue then she neevr mingles with other ppl to see wha telse is out there. she stays hooked on one person to long. and i know its not good to do that, becasue if they dont like you wha tcan you do so please help!!!! p.s they are both 15 almost 16 females :) thanks
she needs to talk to him. how else would the relationship work. or you and your friend could try to hook them up. but you have to be extremely careful. because you could just make the matters worse by making too big of a deal.
if the guy is extremely shallow then maybe he doesnt deserve your friend.
i agree with you on the second story. i understand what you mean completely. theres nothing much you can do. she likes the boy who doesnt like her. eventually she'll get the clue Lovey.
i know you sure that she wont kill herself but the fact that she said still means its on her mind. still pay attention to her attitude. if she is serious then you'll see she wiill be more mopey and depressed. she will aslo give away her stuff (suicide victom statistics show that they will give away their stuff to get rid of them like a will)i hope you friend is al right.
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hii!
im getting my nose pierced in 2 days =]
i got a question,
i read online that it could fall out while your sleeping and the hole will close up, so this one girl said it helps to put a little baindade over it so it wont fall out, but i was thinking that it could get an infection cause bacteria will be trapped and the area wont beable to breathe.
what do you guys think?
--ashley
hoestly how would it slip out. i think you should just sleep and see if you have any problems. make sure its tooken care of though (and its clean). before you go to sleep check to see if its fastened correctly. congrats on the nose ring btw. thats kool. your brave . did it hurt? =)
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ok so this is so confusing and so hard i'm a 15 year old female who is madly in love with my boyfriend of 1 year his name is zach and i love him to death...but he does the stupidest shit like for example he's got arrested 3 TIMES this year and it hurts i can take it anymore and the first to time's it had to do with drugs. the third time it was because he was in a stolen car with my BROTHER and my bff HANGING AND KISSING HER!!!!!!!!! then my ex boyfriend chris is now wanting to get back with me and i like him yeah but when he broke up wit me he said he was in love with this girl melissa and now he's saying he's sorry and he loves me but i don't want to take him back he hurt me...then i'm a new student at this school in eastern washington where i'm minority because it's mainly mexicans and indians and i don't have a problem with it but it's hard when your new and everyone makes fun of you because your white and you have a punk hair cut but there is this one guy leriamy he's so cut and i really like him i've been going to school not even a month but i do like him and his friends have all told me he likes me and wants to go out with me but he doesn't want to ask me out and i'm like ok but then i see him flirt with his ex girlfriend mayra who is like my closet friend here so i don't want to ruin that but she says she doesn't care if i go out with him because she doesn't like him. and i would it's just people keep on making jokes bout us and it's really starting to get me pissed off and he doesn't say anything and when people say that we are going out he doesn't correct them i'm so confused it's not fair gosh i hate being put in this situation it's not fair to me or them i just need HELP picking one or should i go single again...
any advice would help thanks a bunch
well truthfully its not fun being single. your boyfriend now is cool but ask yourself 'is he always going to be around' he's always in jail and its hurting you so why doesnt he care? your ex might have gotton dumped by his girl so now hes crawling back to you so you probabally deserve better then him. as to the new guy it pretty obviose he likes you. as why he doesnt say anything back to the others is because hes thinking about it (you) truth is he's just as confused as you. and everyone is giving you such a hard time then tell them off. tell its not true and to shut up. (thats only if its really bothering you) i think you should talk to leriamy and ask him whats going on. and i recommend giving your boy-friend a big talk too.
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ok so tomorrow is this outside rec night thing basically it's a dance and it's outside now me and my two best friends last year had lots of fun at it last year but this year there's this guy i like i've asked about him befroe anywho like if i want him to like me or whatever how should act i mean like idk i cant really explain my question but if you know what i'm saying please answer
be normal. make eye contact so he knoows you've noticed him. (but dont stare at him)laugh alot so it shows that you have a sense of humor. hold your head high and be confident because stuff like that does show. always where lip gloss.
and when you walk its OK to put a little swing in it ;) when he says something funny giggle. stay close to him but make sure its not too obviuse. talk loudly and be funny so he notices you.
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So I kind of have a problem with saying the wrong words at the wrong time...like, when something surprising happens to me I usually react by swearing or saying "Jesus Christ!" I know I really shouldn't be swearing OR saying Jesus Christ in vain but I can't help it! Plus, I'd get in trouble if a teacher or whatever heard me swearing. How can I like, stop myself from doing that!? What other words can I say instead? I don't wanna insult people, but it's just my reactions to things. Any suggestions?
i was having the same problem. instead of saying 'o my God' i say 'o my goodness'. and instead of saying 'holy sh**' u can say 'holy shitake mushrooms'. they both sound pretty stupid but they work. theres: dang, darn, fricken, freakin
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One of my female student recently (after spring break)decided to start wearing skirts just because of a boy she likes, unfortunately she has no idea how to flirt....
She wears skirts but she covers her legs with a sweater eventhough it is 100 degrees...
she needs help
well the sweater was def. a bad move. a skirt is designed to show off your legs. the sweater would look wierd.
she should laugh and giggle around him (but not in an air-headed way)laugh alot. and hold your head up high when she walks around him. be confident in the way you walk and nothing wrong with putting a little twist with it.
make-up: not too heavy(CRUCIAL). if you have fair skin then pastel colors are the way to go. make sure she wears lipgloss(clear is always OK)
tight clothes are good but dont look like a slut or like your too easy, you know.
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whats the code to hiding everything under the headline ?? ive been lukin for it! help me please!
basic info? it has location birthday and stuff?
i dont know how to hide basic info (i dont think you can).
but if your talking about details: step1 put this code in the begginning of heroes-
step2 place this code at the top of about me- .hidethem {visibility:hidden; display:none;}
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i've been suspecting that my dad did coke before with his druggie buddy
and this morning i heard my parents fighting about it and he has done cocaine
im really confused about it and i hav nothing against ppl who do drugs but its my dada and its different i kinda deel different about him
i still love him but im realllllly confused
i dont want to talk about with him or my mom
cant talk to my mo cuz shes an alchoholic and is always drunk how can i stop feeling weird bout my dad i love him to death but its all different now
well still love your dad even if he does do coke. talk to him about it. let him know how you feel about the whole situation. i think you should still let your mom know things because she still need lovin even if she is drunk. i understand that you feel differentely about your dad and thans OK. just dont block him out of your life.
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my frined wants to know if you make out with a girlwith braces can you cut your lip or mouth? or anyhting else that can harm you? thanks!!
well its possible that you could get cut and the cut could get in fected (if you want to get technical)
but its not like people with braces never get kisses. its completely OK to kiss someone with braces. making out is more vigorous and faster so it might get a little uncomfortable. just remember people with braces need lovin too ;)
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whats the code to hiding everything under the headline ?? ive been lukin for it! help me please!
excuse me
whats fanatic?
a person with an extreme and uncritical enthusiasm
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Alright, Im going to the beach for a week. im going with all of my best freinds, and i want to take a lot of really really cute pictures.
what i need, is ideas.
I know we're going to do footprints in the sand, write our names, sunset pictures, stuff like that. I just want really super cute things we could do that would make good pics.
thanks so much!
sand angels, sand fight, splash fights,funny poses, pics of water games....
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SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!im 14 and when i was born my mom put me into a foster home(couldnt take care of me)(i have 9 blood brothers/sisters) and when i was 4 i was adopted and given to a great family.the problem is the adoption people said that they lost the photo album with my mom/grandma/and me in it.my foster mom had baby pictures of me but when i left she wouldnt give me any of them because she was mad that she couldnt keep me(leagal reasons).the youngest pict i have of myself is when i was 4 right before i was adopted(school pict) but i really want to see baby pict of me and also pict of my mom/grandma.for some reason my parents get mail from the adoption adency(its like a bill)and i was curious so i took one.i have the name of the agency(also a guy that i think might have helped with the adoption) and the adress but i tried to look it up on the internet and couldnt find anything.i dont live any where near the agency because i moved.i just really want my baby pict! you dont know how it feels not to know what your blood mom looked like or what you looked like when you where a baby.it hurts when i have school projests that requre me to bring in baby pict and im the only one without any!please help if you can!
well this is dealing with legal documents that were lost. and if that agency lost them then that shows there not organized. but it seems that you need an investigation plot. call the agencies and get all the facts. i dont know if you could sue them (you should talk to your foster parents about that) get the agency to give you the name and adress or any information on your real grandma and parents. if the agency doesnt have all the answers demand to speak to the manager. do whatever it takes to GET THOSE PICS BACK! hope u get them back Lovey =)
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lets call this boy "brandon" i really don't like him i love him and i when i actually talk about it; its kind of weird because i have never loved anyone before and i always thought that 14 was too young to be in love but i have figured out that if any one was to hurt him then i would go to juvi for him
well i just don't know what to do because the apt. he lived in are being torn down so "brandon" had to move and i will never see him again its possible that i could move to that school that he is going to and i was going to go to that school but the fact that gas is three dollars cut that off and i have no way of contacting him so what i am really trying to say is how do i get him out of my head im deppressed i loose weight then i gain it and its bothering me so how do i get him out of my head please help me plz ♥
well first of all weight making is very serious and not healthy, so maybe you should calm down a little. talk to your friends and seek comfort in them. counselors might not be best at the moment but try sharing your feeling with people who will really listen. dont keep your emotions inside because that can cause stress damage. and result in worse. talk to the boy. let it all out. long time relationships are hard to keep up, but you both are clearly in love so you'll make it happen. but long term relatioship is going to take time and commitment. so make sure he really is the one. get both your parents involved and maybe find a place for him (if he hasn't moved already)
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We known each other since last december 2nd.but on the internet.I'm student and he is in military.I'm 18 and he's 22.we sent an emails,chats,web-cam,phone calls,mesages each other.we talked about life and any other things.we passed the hard time but we still talking to each other.sometime late in July he have to deploy in Iraq again.I knew that I like him.He like me too.he said before he go he want to see me but he asked me "if you want to!its up to you".he said he care about my decision.I really want to see him too.I know some of the blind dates are silly and funny and horrible.but I don't know I want to see him.I know about him.{not the rest of the things..but I know about him}what should I do?I just want to see him before he go.cuz nobody can knows military men's tomorrow.Especially Marines.please tell me what to do?
well using we-cam shows that you have seen him before. but still be careful because the internet can be a very scary place. make sure you know exactly what your getting into. but i think that you should. its obviouse that you like each other. and maybe it will turn into something seriouse. but maybe its best not to get your hopes up. its the military sweetie. thats ttakin a serious commitment. are you willing to wait for him. are you sure he's even comming back. have fun and get to know him because if hes a good as you say he is. then im sure he's a great guy.
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