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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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this situation is going to sound ridiculous, but here goes. i had to make a collage for my school's yearbook of latest trends. most of the trendy stuff i put on there i didn't like myself, but yeah. i put a picture of daddy yankee on there since i thought his music appealed to most hispanics at my school. but now i learned that there was some kind of controversy about him hating mexicans or whatever. my school is around 60 percent mexican. do you think there will be some sort of uproar over it since it's now in the yearbook? i don't want to be the one screwed over.

hey, it shouldnt be a problem. because its not you hating mexicans its him. however, if there is a problem then just polietly explain to people that you didnt mean for it to be a problem and that your sorry. cait♥

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im going to brazil for like an interniship type thing this summer. i cant speak portuguese well, but i can read and understand it. are there like any websites that have like articles where i can just like read them? thanks

hey, try google. they usually have stuff to help. cait♥

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Can anyone help me out? i'm looking to buy a day bed with a matress that pulls out from underneath..but i dont want it to come up..i just want it to pull out..and i think the style i like is called sleigh bed? maybe..well anyways my friend has one and i really want one to replace my king size bed now..does anyone know if i can find one at jc pennys or something like that? anyone have any experience with this? Thanks in advance

hey, my friend has a day bed with a bed that pulls out. the bed that pulls out is called a trendill. i dont htink you can get them at those types of stores. only like bed stores or furniture stores. cait♥

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my ribs stick out and i don't like how it looks, so how can i gain more weight there? or is there any exercises i can do to tone that area? because its like skinny up there but a little wider as you go down so it looks weird lol. and i just want my ribs to not show up as much. what can i do to fix that?

hey, my ribs stick out on the sides only. sometimes theres nothing that you can do about it. some people are just born like tat. cause i eat ALOT and im stick skinny and the sdies of my ribs stick out. try eating more tho to see if it helps. cait&harts;

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Is there such a thing as a battery powered straightener? I ask because it is normally hot in my first class at school and when its hot..of course..i sweat..and my hair goes balistic on me..especially after the first time i straighten it. So i was wondering if there is such a thing or if there is like a mini straightener or something...if not then does anyone know of anything that will help me? thanks

hey, i straighten my hair everyday. at night (usually between 5-7) i take a shower. i let my hair air-dry for 1-2 hours. then if its not dyr by then ill blow-dry it a little. after that i will straighten it and sleep on it. also dont straighten your hair in the heat, it will make it puffy. cait♥

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i really need to get tan in like a month and i cant go in a tanning bed is there any other way to get really tan in like a month? thanks!

hey, theres spray tanning which you can get done at like a regualr tanning salon. theres also sunless tanner (which sometimes turns your orange) that comes in a bottle that you spray and a lotion that you rub on. also if your going to apply either of those do it once a day and before you get dressed. less is more so spread little and evenly. cait♥

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Is there such a thing as waterproof eyeliner; and if so what kind is the best to buy? I know there's waterproof mascara, I use it all the time. But what about eyeliner, and even eyeshadow; if they have it, whats the best product to buy? Thanks forthe advice.

hey, yes tehres water-proof eyeliner! theres no such thing as water-proff eyeshadow tho. pretty much any namebrand is good. just not like CVS brand. cait♥

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ok well i just put on sunless tanning and like it worked but it looks orange sorta...but does the orangness stay orangge or does it like fade and turn into a tan....this is my first day i just put it on last night. so if anyone else had this problem plz tell me cuz i have a bonfire this weekend and i need to look good in a bikini
thanx

hey, build a tan sucsk! i used it and looked veyr orange. i took showers three tiems a day and scrubed for 5 days it eventually came off. just scrub i guess lol. cait♥

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hi. well am a 14 yr old guy, and im growing my hair. right now, itz the stage where every1 says "you need a haircut!" . and i was just wandering, if i grow it, and i dont like it, will i be able to cut it, and spike it up like i did before? or will it be too floppy? by the way, its kind of thick, and curly.

thanx

hey, if you hate the hair when its grown out then cut it after! long hair is way more difficult to spike. its best to have shorter hair. cait♥

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What causes the ugly red spots that show up when you shave your legs and are there alllll the time? Its really gross and ugly looking.
Anyone got any advice on how to reduce the noticeability of them or even make them go away?

I tried lotion but.. that only lasts so long and definately doesnt make them GO AWAY.

Is it just irritated skin?

hey, yes its just an irratation. make sure you use skinmate baby soft(blue bottle) shaving gel and a venus razor. those help the red bumps go away the best. cait♥

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I am now 16. When i was in 7th grade i started cutting my wrists....in 9th grade a was "an alcoholic" after i got over drinking i started taking pills...and this year...i started vomitting after every meal. I need help i know...but how do i get it and where...my sister is 17 and pregnant and just recently left home to her 38 yr. old bf "she ran away" my mom is so carring....she doesnt know i do this and it would kill her if i told her because she is under so much stress...i dont have many close friends because i have a bf and i spend all my available time with him.....he doesnt know either i alwayz wear long sleeved shirts and i always say i have to pee after i get done eating...now it is such a habbit that when i eat"if i eat till im full" it starts comming up on its own and i cant control it...its too late...plz someone tell me what to do????

Confused!

hey, damn you need major help. let people know that you have problems so that they can help you! dont hide it. get therapy and concilling. cait♥

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hey im trying to find a really good song that deals with this: Well my ex boyfriends till means a realyl lot to me and i still love him with all my heart. I was wondering if there was any songs that any of you know off the top of your head this like like i still want you back and i love you. etc even though he was someone new. It can be country because i love country. Or hip hop R&b anything like that. THANKS A BUNCH! I'll rate 5's!!!

hey, love b keyshia cole is great. cait♥

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i'm 16 years old and i am 7 months pregnet and me and my babay father who is 17 is still together and he has a job makin 9 dollas an hour i was wondering do you know of any programs that would help us get a place of our own

hey, good luck wiht your child. i hope all goes well. im not quite familar with places like that. you could try searching google. i think i know of one place that may be of help planned parenthood. cait♥

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My mother took my thongs away from me probally about 8 months ago. I've asked for them back a few times, but not in a looong time! i mean like aleast 2 months.
I'd like to know what i could say to her to persuade to her to let me wear them. I'm pretty sure she took thema way because she thought i was doing sexual things(which, honestly, i was not)

please list things i could say to her
im so depressed & i kno exactly where they are at, which makes it worse. Please do'nt tell me not to worry about it, bc i am, and please don't tell me to sneak them. Its not possible.

hey, lol. sorry for lauhging. but have a tlak with your mother and say im not doing sexual things can i please have my thongs back. tell her your point of view. be honest, dont lie about anything. cait♥

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okay well. i`m 13/f and have never had a boyfriend. i don`t wanna be mean, but even some pretty ugly girls in my grade have boyfriends. and i want one..that i like. i dont just want one because its "cool". i want someone to like me for who i am and such. i dont know ? i guess what i`m asking is how do you think i can get one and find someone who likes me ? i`m athletic, pretty tall, outgoing, skinny, and nice. and i don`t know what else i shoud do ? please give me some advice -- some real advice and if your just going to bad talk, dont even bother..thanks

hey, taking a byofriend takes time. soemtimes the guys go for the slutty type girls. dont be that way tho jsut to get a guy. be funny adn witty(guys usually like that). dont by shy. guys hate shy. be youreslf. cait♥

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I am 14 and female. I am in year nine now, and when i was in year 8 i had a big crush on a boy in my class. the feelings were reciprocated but we decided not to go out coz we weren;t ready for a relationship. we were ace friends, he would knock on for me and we would hang and stuff and it was cool. but he was a prat around his mates and i said that i didnt like him anymore because of his immaturity. i broke his heart. and now i understand that it was a pathetic reason but now, i think i like him again and i have become more immature so i think we would suit. we were perfect for each other but i spoilt it. and it is totally annoying, normally i would tell him but he hates me now because i was mean. what should i do? i really think i am falling for him again :'( i need help on this, then i have a load more relationship issues you can help me solve. and sorry for the length :S

hey, firt off dont be more immature because thats what he is. dont change yoruself for anyone. just be yourself and if he cant except it then its his loss. but talk to him and tell him thsat you like him again. cait♥

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well i need major help
-i don't know what to do because my parents dont except me and i dont kn ow how to make them
-i have been grounded for 3 weeks because i didnt go to tutoring and they did it purposely to ruin my social life
-they even told me that they were taking my social life away.
-my friends are starting to know
-i feel like someone could shoot me and no one would care
-i used to hate school and love to come home, but now i would rather be anywhere than at home
-my mom makes me tell her about my feelings and then she goes and tells all of her friends
-i cant trust anyone now, not even my parents
-how can i make my life just a little better?

i will rate high and i need answers soon!

xXxheartbrokenxXx

hhey, have a tlak with your parents and family. let them know how you feel and explain to them just exactly what your point of view is. get some help by going to concelling or thrapy. also you need self confidence. get a manicure and pedicure and facial. make you feel good about your self. cait♥

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umph can you help me? im getting my hair cut tomorrow and i want bangs but i want them side swept? maybe? im not sure what its called? send pics?

hey, there called side bangs lol. if you want good hair pics go on google. i got sied bangs and my inspiration was jamie-lynn spears. cait♥

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hey im 15/f theres this guy in one of my classes that i have liked for a little over a year now. His locker is right by mine to. One of his friends said that he'd "bang me" so as in im okay. And he always grabs my butt, and says like nice a** and stuff. He really doesn't ever talk to me though like doesn't flirt. Does he like me? But then again he does this too all other girls too. What do i do? I really like him and i want to go out with him possibly. but we barely ever talk and if we do its about stupid stuff. PLezz help

hey, with guys its always hard to tell. the best thing to do is ask him yourself. dont have a friend do it because information can be easily misinterptered. about the talking, start a good converstation with him. about something you both like. talk about stuff he talks about with other people. like example if he said i like watermelon talk aboutt hat. hell know that your listening and he will be happy. cait♥

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I'm trying to learn a backflip on the trampoline.. I can do one on my but like jump til you get high and then land on your but and do a backflip and land it.. My friends says it's easier.. but I'm just afraid of landing on my neck I feel like I could do it..I'm going to get someone to spot me.. but it just makes me more scared of hurting them

what should I do to get the backflip?

hey, just go for it. learn to backsrping first tho. yes have a spotter and if you hurt them its not your fault they said they would spot. but let them know that you might hurt them before. you could also join a clinic for tumbling if your really serious about it. cait♥

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