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I am 14 and female. I am in year nine now, and when i was in year 8 i had a big crush on a boy in my class. the feelings were reciprocated but we decided not to go out coz we weren;t ready for a relationship. we were ace friends, he would knock on for me and we would hang and stuff and it was cool. but he was a prat around his mates and i said that i didnt like him anymore because of his immaturity. i broke his heart. and now i understand that it was a pathetic reason but now, i think i like him again and i have become more immature so i think we would suit. we were perfect for each other but i spoilt it. and it is totally annoying, normally i would tell him but he hates me now because i was mean. what should i do? i really think i am falling for him again :'( i need help on this, then i have a load more relationship issues you can help me solve. and sorry for the length :S
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The first thing you should do, is never change who you are to suit anyway. You claim you havent changed for him, but you're supposed to be more mature is you get older, not the other way around, so I think deep down, you have allowed yourself to become more immature because you think its what he wants in a girlfriend.
I get that, at 14 years old, this can seem like the end of the world, but believe me, its not. Life will only get harder the older you get. But I suggest you talk to this boy, tell him how you feel, and apolpogise to him for how you behaved previously. If he refuses to forgive you, then you can move on with your life knowing that you tried. Do you really want to sit back and always wonder what would have happened between you if you had apologised to him?
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hey, firt off dont be more immature because thats what he is. dont change yoruself for anyone. just be yourself and if he cant except it then its his loss. but talk to him and tell him thsat you like him again. cait♥
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