The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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I'm 16. I'm having a problem. My current boyfriend Scott is wonderful. He's a good friend of mine and we recently started going out. This monday will be two weeks. Anyways, I'm having problems getting over my ex. (We'll call him ****** okay? I don't want to give his name.)So me and ****** have been friends for a while too. We went out for a while but then we broke up and decided to be friends. The other day he decided to tell me that the only reason he initiated the break-up was because he's afraid that he'll break my heart or hurt me. He could never hurt me in the ways that he thinks he can. But we won't get into that. And he doesn't know I'm not exactly over him. I've told him how I felt during the relationship but I never told him that I still feel that way.
Should I tell him?
What should I do about Scott? (I really don't want to hurt him)
And what am I going to do if Scott and I break up?
-Sam (link)
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Well, that's tough. I think that you should stay with Scott until you know for sure that ****** does like you and will date you, because didn't you say that you like Scott? Well, he still likes you! So stay with him until you know more and then if you need anymore advice then leave me mail in my inbox or IM at southernditz69. GOOD LUCK! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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My girlfriend of one and a half years left me for
another guy. She said if I move out the flat she
would break up with me but I moved out anyway
because of her disrespectful children and loafer
brother. She did nothing to rectify the situation
but instead got the first guy she met to move
with her into another flat. is she trying to
spite me and make me jealous or is she just
using another guy to help her pay the rent? She
says she loves me but she hasnt called me for
days now and we havent been out for weeks?
I dont take shit from her children but she is so
soft on them. What should I do? Just play it cool? (link)
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Yeah, you should just play it cool. Most likely she's just mad because you didn't stay in the same house as her and she's trying to make you jealous. Also, I wouldn't take crap from her children either. If they don't respect you, then don't respect them. That's what I think anyways. Anyways, if she doesn't have enough money to pay rent then she's probably also trying to get someone to help her since you aren't anymore. I hope I helped and I'm sorry your in that kind of position. -Kayla
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there is this guy i like, and he knows that i like him. Well he had told his friends, and my brother that he likes me. Well I wrote him a letter yesterday confronting him about my feelings toward him that i liked him and if anything would happen between us. And his friend told me yesterday that He likes some other girl... But i don't understand because he told all his friends that he likes me. So he wrote me a letter stating: Hey what's up. I have to clear up a couple of issues between us. You seem like a really nice person, but I'm not ready for a relationship. So can we just be friends? I still like him a lot , no matter what, and I don't know what else I should say to him or to write back to him. *i rate* thanks!! (link)
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Well, to be honest I think he's a jerk for telling practically everyone. Second, I think that you should just move on until you find someone better because it seems he's not interested and that really sucks and even if you keep having your feelings for him you can still like other guys. So try it. It will make you heal fast, lol. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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im going out with this girl but nothing really seems the same from what we started outwith.who do i know if she still likes me? because i really like her. sometimes she acts cold she sometimes dosent want to talk to me and durring our conversations online i ask 2 many questions and she getts annoyed really fast and i think that she is starting to not like me bacouse woe used to talk every night she'd call me but now she dosent and i dont want to call her bacouse the past 2 weeks shes been really sick and i think that thats the problem can you help me and tell me if she is acting like that bacouse she is sick or beacouse she dont like me anymore (link)
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I think it's probably because she's sick and she's having a few mood swings, but I do think that you should call her at least every other day and see how she's feeling and be really sweet so she knows you still care. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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how often should u dye ur roots if u dye ur hair like blonde and ur hair is naturally black:? (link)
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When you start to see your roots, then you should dye it again. There's no real answer for this sorry. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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ok here goes...there is this guy that i have been talking to for about 4 moths(lets call him bob). hes the most awesome and i just cant get him out of my head...hes nice, sweet, caring and pretty much just perfect..the thing is, is that he dont talk to me if he is infront of his friends and when e are talking in person.he talks to me all the time tho if we are ont he phone or online..heres the problem..about two weeks ago we were hanging out w/ some of his friends, and one of his friends(lets call him sam) tells me that he likes me and would like to "hook up" and asks me all this personal questions..i dont know what to do..obviously sam is afraid to show me him feeling and bob isnt..i like bob ALLOT, but i dont know if i can keep this talking thing us anymore..im getting to the point now were i really want a boyfriend.should i just wait for bob to come around or should i take the chance with sam while i have it..I NEED HELP~!~ (link)
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Well, actually I think that if you do like "Bob" a lot then maybe YOU should ask HIM out because if you do date "Sam" and you don't really like him as much as "Bob" then whenever you see "Bob" you will still have more feelings for him. Try asking him out and if you really don't want to do that or you don't want to talk to him, go out with his friend if you really truly like him like that. Otherwise, don't break his heart! I hope I helped! -Kayla
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one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help (link)
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Well, try talking to him about it. If he has enough courage to tell you and to show you then I'm sure he will talk to you about it and besides he IS your best friend. I hope everything goes good with him and I hope he stops doing that! Hope I helped! -Kayla
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Okay, just for a little background info, my guy and I have been together eleven months in 2 days. We're totally in love, I know he'd never cheat on me, and I totally trust him.
He told me that he went clubbing with his guyfriends and was kind of surrounded by girls (I don't doubt this, he's really hot...*drool*), and was dancing with them and all that...
His guyfriends apparently were telling him "ooh, your girlfriend's gonna be pissed" and stuff like that, and he said I wouldn't.
The thing is, I told him I wasn't, but I kind of am...I mean, I've always said "oh, I'm not the jealous type" and I'm not, really. I trust him, and I know it's not cheating. It's just dancing. But it still bothers me for some reason.
I don't want to make him think I don't want him to talk to girls or anything, lol. I mean, that's hypocritical. Most of my friends are guys.
What should I do/say? Should I do/say anything, or just leave it alone? (link)
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well i dont think you should say anything to him .. we both know it wasnt that big of a deal and he obviously loves you not those chicks he was just looking for a fun time and im sure something like that will happen with you sometime and you will hope he doesnt get mad or jealous too. i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok well theres this guy that i kinda like n well i wanna know if he likes me wut do u think?:
he smiles n talks to me all da time he blows off other grls for me n he says stuff realli sweet n he winks at me from across tha room...wut do u think? ill rate!~ (link)
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either ask him yourself or ask one of his friends adn if tehy dont know well make sure its one of your good friends too and have him talk to him about you and then have him report back lol but make sure he doestn tell him you like him unless he says he likes you. hope i helped! -kayla
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hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.
so what should i tell him?
sry it's kind of long and confusing... (link)
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he should just tell the other girl that ISNT his gf that they arent dating and he already has a gf and he just wants to be friends with her. hope i helped you or him out! -kayla
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i personally dont think it matters what people rate me because i think what i gave is good advice, plus i dont care if people have high ratings or not if i ask a question
so what is your opinion?
note: im not gonna rate you if you post here. (link)
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i dont think it matters what ppl rate you bc you gave all the advice you could think of. -kayla
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hey, ok.... ive been feeling sad lately b/c my bf dumped me. we went out for about 3 weeks and then someone told him i was breaking up w/ him. that wasnt the first time it happened. we continued to have these problems until one day he told me he wants to be single anyway for the first marking period. i didnt know what to say so i just acted like it was ok with me but its really not. were still acting like friends but sometimes i get some clues toward thinking that hes with someone else now. hes asked my friends many times why i broke up w/ him. he didnt want to be with me then b/c he thought i couldnt decide whether i wanted him or not. i think hes moved on but sometimes thinks about me again. i wish he would really want me back. this guy is really important to me alot. ive only had like two bfs b4 him and this one means alot. i feel like ive lost something i didnt deserve to lose. every day i wonder if he will go out with me again in the second marking period like he promised. if he doesnt i dont know wht i will do. please if u have any advice let me know so i wont feel as depressed. thanx so much! ~tepy - 13 -female~ (link)
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ok well i think you should just ask him back out or at least tell him you like him a lot adn you really want to date him again. see what he does and if he still likes you he will date you again. but i think maybe yalls friendship is a little weird bc neither of you will just come out and say what you feel so just get up the guts and tell him how you feel maybe hes just a little shy. hope i helped! -kayla
ps. if you need anymore help write me back or IM me @ southernditz69
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i want to become a dancer and i dont know what to do. does anyone know where to go to persue my dreams. i rate extremely high. pleez and thank you. (link)
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it depends where you live ... -kayla
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my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do? (link)
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wow ask her why she feels that way? thats strange .. ive never heard of that before ... sorry im not much help. good luck! -kayla
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ive had my period more then 2 yrs....since 4th grade (im in 8th now) and its still irregular (link)
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oh ok i see ... well just go to the doctor and get asked to be put on birth control. it will make you have a regular cycle. hope i helped! -kayla
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this morning i burnt my leg with my hair crimper. and it left a scar on my leg. there is like 2 dark lines on my legg, and im not sure how to get rid of it?!...is there any way i can?!...please help! (link)
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nope i dont think there is unless you put cover up on it hahaha but it will go away soon i promise i burnt my forehead one time with my str8n iron and it went away in about a week. hope i helped! -kayla
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My Ex is one of my best friends now and I have a new Boyfriend and He has a new Girlfriend... But today at lunch he pulled me aside and said this:
"If we were together again, like we were at one time, would you try harder to make it workout?" Now This has me seriously confused and I dont know how to take it So I just replied "I dunno" Wat did he mean? (link)
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i guess it means that he still kinda wants to be with you but since youve moved on so does he and he just now got up the guts to ask you ... i know i didnt help much but i hope i helped a little! -kayla
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my cousin got me and her boyfriends brother 2 talk. and well he goes 2 my school now, hes a sophmore and im a freshman. we "got to know each other" for about 2 weeks. and we were just friends with benefits, and well after the two weeks he finaly asked me out, and its almost 2 weeks that weve been 2gether. and we are really close! and were planning on having sex, and were both virgins! im just nervous! any advice?! (link)
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wow your having sex after 2 weeks .. well idk but if your ready go ahead just remember that you cant do anything wrong bc he wont know since hes still a virgin too. have fun! hope i helped! -kayla
ps. use protection!
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can you get preagnet by giving bjs? (link)
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nope you cant bc youd have to have sex to get pregnant ... so to answer your ? ... no -kayla
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ok last week a well used to be friend of mine KNEW i liked this guy and tehn he asked her out and she rubbed it in my face and i wanted to kill her *still do* but teh guy is my best friend and well now were not even talkin in school but online hes like "oh ur my homi and i'm ur homi were best friends u no that" and its so fuckin not true cause he totaly dosen't even talk to me anymore and i'm like fine so yesterday i bitched at him *sorry for all teh cursing* and i got in his face *online unfortunitly* and yelled at him and he gave me the whole why are u acting like this were friends blah blah blah well i'm pissed at him for being such an asshole to me and like expecting me to not be mad at her and to top it off is yellin at me for not talkin to her WHEN THE BITCH IS SPPREADIN SHIT ABOUT ME AND TELLIN EVERYONE CRAP AND HE WONDERS WHY I"M PISSED
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sorry to u guys i just needed to vent a little lol (link)
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haha i loved it lots of excitement and good to get it all off your chest. well first of all your friend sucks and if your best friend doesnt know what HIS gf did then you need to let him in on the details and next time she tries talking to you all sweet like that then just bitch her out adn try to be nice to the guy otherwise he might not want to date you later on. good luck and hope i helped! -kayla
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