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k well my friend tells me that shes goin out w/ this boi from by her dads house and wen he asked her out she asked this another boi named matt wat 2 say and he tells her 2 say yea and and she does and i got mad at her (im over it now and her other friends that got mad r 2 and i was just like w/e i dont give wat ne1 does this yr) and now i think she just made this kid up cuz i was talkin 2 her on AIM and shes like u wanna talk 2 jake her "bf" and im like idc and he IM's me and it was wierd cuz like he would IM me and i would say sumthing 2 her and him at almost tha same time and 1 would say my friend is typin then after she sent tha IM it would say he is typin and then hes like bbl g2g ttyl 2 me and im like k bye and then shes like bbl and she put her away up then he signed off like less than 10 seconds later

It definitely sounds like your friend is making this kid up. Even if she did copy something he said, her font would only be the same on the window she pasted it to. I think that you should calmy try talking to her about it, and if not, then you should give up. True friends don't lie to eachother and if she can lie about this what else is she lying about?

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ok... i really like this guy that i have been dating for about 5 months... but we broke up for several reasons... but i also like this other guy that i have been talkin to for awhile, and hung out with before... i dont know what to do, because i like my ex and want to be with him, but i dont want to hurt this other guy because he likes me too, and i also like him... im soooo confused, i just don't know what to do. Me and my ex say we are goin to give it some time, to see what happens, even though we both really like each other. but he doesnt know i like another guy... what should i do? Thanx..

I think you should think about it. Ask yourself who means more to you and who you'd be better off with, who treats you better and so on. If you wanna be with your ex there should be no question about it..but since you like the other guy too its tough. In all fairness, you should tell your ex that you like this kid and that you're confused right now...see what he has to say about it. Hope it helped some :)

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i have been friends with this guy for like a year now well since last summer and we stoped talkin after i moved but now that i have moved back we started talkin more now and we r starting to hang out together alot more and i am starting to like him he is one of my first love...(ex boyfriends) friends what should i do should i tell him or keep it on the dL cuz i am scared he will freak out and it will mess up or friend ship but then agian i am scared that if i don't tell him then i will neva have a chance wit him..... plz help me what should i do...

"Always tell someone how you feel, mean what you say and say what you mean, opportunities are lost in the blink of an eye but regrets can last a
l i f e t i m e"....think about it

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ok here's the story: my friend ali was going out wit this kid chris (i hooked them up) then they broke up and he was telling me how much he liked me and how cute i am and how sweet and stuff. well i was all into it and i relized that i like him. the day after they got back together and i was crushed. i now feel like i am breaking them up cause i told ali that i like him. oh yeah THEY NEVER MET EACHOTHER!!!! i met him at the local theme park. I feel realli bad tho i think i am tearing them apart... what should i do?

A relationship isn't going to last with someone she never met...I dont understand why people do that. They really dont have anything if they never met eachother and are never around eachother!!! Just wait it out cause they will break up sooner or later.

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hey im 16 my bf and i have a long distance relationship he broke up with me and my feelings for him r still really strong. when he broke up with me he said that there could be a "us" again and i was all like ok whatever. but i was thinkin bout it do u think he is just using me?? also i kinda wanna get over him so how do i do that?? please help thanks

I don't really know if he was just using you because I don't know the whole situation. But, if you want to get over him the best way to do that is to not talk to him. Talking to him will only make you think about him and miss him more!

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hey...I met this guy N we hit it off N everything but then he told me that he still has feeling for his ex but like...I guess I can understand that bc they have been off N on for a while now but she's been seein other guys so I don't kno if I should keep talkin to him N see if he'll change his mind or just to forget bout him...plz help!!!

Well I think you should ask him if there is a chance for you two, and if he has feelings for you also. Never give up so easily, but don't make yourself so available..guys always wonder what girls are up to if they don't tell them every single detail. Yes its understandable that he still has feelings for his ex..give him a little time to sort things out because if she's seeing other people then she obviously doesn't want a relationship with this guy..he has to accept that first.

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im a 15 female... and i broke up with my boyfriend... he seemed to be very jealous when i went places with my guy friends, and even if he heard them near me when i would be on my cell phone talking to him, he would get mad... and i know he cares about me a lot and i really do care about him and i still really like him, but i'm not sure if i should just give it some time or what... whats ur advice?

jealous boyfriends will always be jealous..if you really like him then you should be with him. (only if you want to). To keep him from getting jealous all the time, why not try including him when you go out with guy friends? I think anyone would be a little worried if their gf/bf was hanging out with a bunch of people from the opposite sex. He's probably just worried or scared that you'll cheat on him. Its a normal human insecurity.

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Does anyone know a quick way to get rid of poison ivy. I know Chlorine and Bleach help...but anything else?

-Thanks
-Zero

calomine lotion or however you spell it, im sure you get the drift :)

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how do u girls keep ur hair down like i have straight hair but liek 10 mins after brushin it it get tangled up all messy can yall help me out

Try leave-in conditioner and some really good shampoo!

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hmm where to start.. well gee its fair time where im at and last year i was with this guy.. lets say his name is * steve.. well i had my first kiss with steve there.. and wow it was all so good n sstuff anyway things ended and min en his friendship faded.. but then we hooked back up .. he cheated on me once.. but i got over it and me n him always messed around.. but really n the end i was being used.. and i fell n love with him uh.. and then like we got n this fight and didnt talk 4 months.. well eventually me n him became friends again .. and we messed around again.. but c he uses alot of girls and alot of my friends have been all depressed over him.. and its so bad i mean i got used to b his friend but then he kisses me n it all changes he so perfect for me he just doesnt c it i love him so much and friendship meant alot to me.. but c me n my friends had this thing kall'd game plan where i was supposed to lead him on then leave em haha yeah it was so mean so i didnt do it but he found out about it anyways and now he hates me (again) and i saw him tonyt at tha fair and he hates me he told me all nyt and to fuck off and he wuldnt ride anything with me and kept sayin shyt and weve been thru so much i just wish i culd tell him .. i juss need some advice =/.. thanx

The same thing happened to me last summer. Its really really tough..um...he uses people..and he cheated on you..I wouldn't even wanna be friends with that jerk. He's trying to make you think that you did something wrong just to cover up the fact that it was his fault. Forget about him babe.

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I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.

Signed
xx CaM

I think that you should tell someone about your problem...drinking causes serious dangers to the liver and elsewhere. Even if you "kinda" don't want to quit...you should.

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What is the average size of a penis? Im 16 and
my penis is almost 6 inches long im a bit worried
what my girlfriend will think.

well the average penis size is 5 1/2 inches so you're over average..good job buddy! haha its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean..just remember that

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hey, i have this friend who i happen to have feelings for, but she doesn't seem to want to settle down after a few rocky relationships? What should i do to make her kno how much i love her?

Well..if you told her how you feel than there's nothing else you can do. It's tough to trust people after bad things have happened. Give her some time..she'll come around. She probably needs to be on her own to figure out some things..hang in there

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it was about 1 year ago i found out this girl likes me and i had liked her for a while so we made out afew dozen times, then i didnt see her for a few weeks, then we made out some more, then we didnt see eachother for a while , then we hung out, went on a few dates, and mad eout somemore, the we didnt see eachother for awhile, then i got her a necklace for christmas (it was diamond, im so cheesy) and then we were going out officially i guess. but i havent seen her since and i have barely talked to her (i go to a boarding school thats y i never see her)whatt is going ON!?

hm...sounds complicated. But if you were officially going out then you still would be...maybe you should try calling her? Try to get ahold of her to ask her what she wants to do..it sounds like she likes you so give her a call and see whats up..hope i helped ya out..

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I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is.

Just because we're young doesn't mean we can't be in love. I don't think you understand things now-a-days and what its like to be in our shoes at this time. Being in love has no age limit...

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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you!

Cole( for a boy) is a really cute name...of course I like Piper (for a girl) too. Not too popular but still used

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what are some good dsl sites



what do you mean dsl sites? be more specific

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There's this boy that I don't like.. only as a friend.. sometimes i can't even stand him as a friend but I don't like him like relationship wise at all and he always talks about being with me and that he'd never have a chance and well he's right.. now how do i tell him that in a nicer way??

Just tell him that he's not your type and that you'd rather be just friends. He'll probably start complaining but hey, what can ya do. Ya don't like him...if he starts telling you that he knows its because he is some type..tell him that its not that..its just that you dont want a relationship with him.

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i'm 14 right now...but my dad keeps bringing up college. i don't think i want to go...i want to be in a band. My dad's gonna make me, i think. i know i've got about 4 years...but what do i do?

i thought about running away with my friends after graduation...is that wrong?

your dad can't MAKE you go to college..if you don't want to go you don't have to. It's your life not his..besides..you'll be 18. You have awhile to think about it yet maybe you'll change your mind

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ok i have a bf and everythang and he sed if he did sumin 4 me i wuld have to kiss him tha next time we see each and i dont wanna kiss him right now enwayz so wut should i do..??

you should tell him that if he's going to put you in that kind of a position than you dont need to be with him...tell him to reconsider his demands

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