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Okay...I went out with this boy before and his name is lets just say Dave. Well we went out and it didn't work that well because we didn't talk. On and off we liked eachother after we broke up but never got back together. Well I actually have never really stopped likeing him but when i do think i stop he just randomly talks to me and makes me like him again. Well on to the subject. He recently has been calling me like everyday for no reason just basicly to talk and he never used to do that but anyways my cousin was over and she thought we should go back out because she thought he liked me. I'm not really sure if he likes me he says stuff about how he thinks i'm hott and all but i don't know. Well usally i don't ask guys out because I am afraid of rejection but this time I did because my cousin sorta made me. Well I was talkin to his cousin because he put him on the phone and he told me not to worry about it that i wouldn't get rejected. But he hasn't answered me and if I supposedly wasn't going to get rejected then why hasn't he answered yet? And i'm afraid to ask him again what his answer is because i don't know what to say. Could someone please help me figure out what to do. BTW sorry its really long! (link)
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Just ask him again. Maybe hes just being a jerk, by making you wait. Call him up and Be like," well i was just wondering if you had my anwser yet?" Bring it up a lot and hopefully he'll eventually anwser you.
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Ok, im a columnist, but what the heck, GUY PROBLEMS!
Ok, I like this guy. I knew him for a day, and we, by means of a friend, exchanged sn. He even gave me his phone #! But its so hard to talk to him! Its like a brick wall. When i say, though, hes like, no dont go. I've been totally confused, and i know that it wont be long be4 he gets under my skin. What do I do be4 i punch him the next day i see him at school?
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you should talk to him about things he is interested in. Maybe what your talking about right now he could care less about. good luck
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i used to cut for 2 years but my ex bf told after i went through a lot and he told so now im getting help...well the other day my friend came over and we were talking about cutting but i stopped so she said "well getting high takes it away like cutting does" so i got high, my friends would kill me if they found out...and theyd probably tell and i dont want that to happen...theyd probably all hate me too and i dont want that to happen cauze i love them all sooo much! but the only person who knows is that girl...help me please, what do i do?
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just tell them, and tell them how much you regret it and how immediately you thought of them and hurting their feelings and that you swear you'll never do it again. Its their opinion weither they cna forgive you.
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i have a really close relationship with my friend mike he's not a boyfriend or anything and i dont see him that way at all, but he's like an older brother to me and ever since we became friends he has been. well, i USED to dress punk, and he does now too...and well im prep now but he hasnt seen me...im afraid that hes not gunna wanna be my friend anymore since im dressing prep, i mean maybe he still will but maybe he wont...i just have worries, what do i do?
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How you dress shouldn't effect your friendship. People who are insanely different can be friends. It's not like you two are hitler and mickey mouse or something.
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ok well heres my situation . im in high school and ive known this guy since i was in 3rd. grade , weve always been friends , we talk a lot . and i think i like him more then just a friend . well i hav , since 5th grade . and i dono if i shuld tell him cuz like im not that close of a friend to him but like i mean i wana tell him but i dono how . he's so cute!! im afriad he'll say no . im really afraid to ask . and he's since school started ( 1 week ago) and like wen i walk into class he'll b like " hey ___ sit here" or lik in class he'll smile and i'll turn to see what he's doin and he'll look away and he'll bring up lil things and like hit my chair to get my attention. whats this mean , shuld i tell him??? help! (link)
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I think he likes you. Ask him.
Rob
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I'm a little unexperienced in the dating world. Entering highschool and having only dated one person is nothing to boast about. I have a hard time realizing that guys are cute and always needing a second opinion... But this guy, is different, I've known him since Elementary and he's a Buddhist, Commie, and Libral Democrat. I think I'm in love. The problem. 1) I don't know how to approach him, 2) My friend, we'll call her Sarah and her best friend Melanie, likes him too... They've always had no trouble and are putting me under a lot of pressure. Don't know what to do... Help? (link)
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You should probably be friends with him and get to know eachother further than looks before you become any more. Talk to him in classes, and hopefully your friends wont attempt this approach also.
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okay, well I'm a columnist on here, and give good advice, but still...
Whenever I'm listening to Ashlee Simpson Pieces of me on the computer, Windows Media Player.. It skips, usually that's the only song that does it, does anybody know how to fix it, I click on the 1st link besides the video that pops up
Should I try clicking on a different link, or what? (link)
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download a different version of the song.
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okay so my best friend she has this problem where she flirts with EVERYONE! she like cheats on all her bf and flirts with every guy she sees and does stuff with them too. well there is this guy mike and i realy like him and i have for awhile but she just told me that shes gonna go hang out with thim tonight...and i dont knoe wut to do i mean i can't really tell her that i still like him cuz we just got into a fight and like i don't want her makein-out wit him tonight cuz i have him right at my fingertips we're almost even goin out.. and im afraid that if she flirts with him tonight he will prolly do sumthing wit her and then i'll lose him all over again!
so please help asap!
sorry if this is soo long (link)
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Maybe you should call the guy before she gets there, and just be like well im glad weve had the oppertunity to get so close lately and im really looking forward to spending more time with you in the future (not in those words) if he catches on he's probably not going to fool around with her tonight because that would jeperdize his chances with you.
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what exactly is an orgasm?..and is it posible to have one if you are still a virgin?...or do u have 2 masterbate to have one? (link)
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Orgasm - The end-pleasure or climax.
yeah you can have one when your still a virgin and.. uh.. i think you have to masterbate(or do more) to have one.
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hi.. i'm really bummed, my friend was talking behind my back and i got the advice to talk to her, so i did . she told me she never said anything and so i beleived her... it was fine, then my other friend sends me this e-mail she sent her saying she did sy stuff behind my back and isn't sorry for it and she doesn't want to be friends because i don't show that i want to be either.. but can i help it if i've been busy all summer? anyways i just wish we could be friends back.. and real ones who don't talk behind eachothers backs... what should i do?
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Email her about how your sorry that you didnt take too much time out for her this summer. Do something really special that only you two do, and remind her what good friends yall used to be. Good Luck
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well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?! (link)
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ask your friends nicely to not talk about you on here, just so that you can avoid as many stalkers as possible!! lol. Im sure they wont mind, hook them up with your email and aim sn. good luck
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does anyone know any great places to get really cute jeans for school that are less than $20??? cuz i'm running out of $$ cuz i've been spending it on other clothes and jeans totally slipped my mind. (link)
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www.kohls.com
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what are you guys opion of christians and other sprital stuff???>?? (link)
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i've been raised catholic my whole life, and i always thought it was kind of boring even though i believe in god and then this summer i went and visited my aunt in duluth,mn. At her church you cant even hear what their saying cuz everyones like freakin screaming 'jesus' and 'amen' its cool but alittle bit scary for me. Its all good though.
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Hi I have a quesiton for all of you.
I'm 14 a gurl and for 8 years of my life (sence I was 5) I have been dancing. Jazz, Tap, Ballet all of it. I quit each one until I had Tap left. I will be honest I was one of the best dancers in each class I was in But I quit because I couldn't take my mothers constant complaining about the money and the time it took her to take me there and wait. I finaly gave in to her the begining of this year and I quit Tap also. after I quit everything reminded me of tap. I cried myself to sleep I missed it that much. I have made up my mind to go back when dance starts again but I having doubts that I won't be excepted by all the other dancers. and my mom is starting her complaining already and I haven't even found my tap shoes yet. I was wondering what all of you think?
P.S. I was in the highest class you could go (Advanced 2) so I was really good but I really am afraid that I can't take what all are going to say. (link)
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Maybe if you truely love dance you could somehow bike to the classes and get a job babysitting or something. Maybe then she'll shut up.
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How do you know that you're in love. I've liked this guy since the beginning of the school year and my friends think he likes me back. He's had several girlfriends but the "dating time" never really lasts long. Lately I've been thinking about him a lot and everytime a hear a song...I automatically think of him. What is love? And how do you know that you're in it? (link)
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Wow, love is like a tough thing and i think when people are endlessly bugging you talking about the way you two look at eachother, or making fun of your googly eyes. When you can't fall asleep because your face hurts from smiling thinking about them, and other things like that. You know, butterflys in your belly, like your on a rollercoaster. Its a great feeling your one of the lucky ones if you think your in it.
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Ok right now im trying to start my own thing. So besides abercrombie, does anyone know where I can get some leg warmers? Thank ya..
xoxo (link)
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Check out what ebays got. I searched it and 43 items showed up. http://search.ebay.com/legwarmers
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Well, me and this guy have been messing around for the past 5 monthes and we went out the first two but then we broke up. Now, he's got a girlfriend and is still messing around with his other X. He tells me he loves me but its just better the way things are. The last time we went out, i broke up with him because i liked it when we were just messing around..but now, I really want to be with him. I just know i'll get hurt. I don't know what to do he knows i love him but he doesn't know i want to be with him for real. How do I talk to him?? (link)
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I dont think it would be a very good idea to get involved with this guy. If you must keep fooling around then just do that. If he cheats on his girlfriend with you then hes gonna do the same to you. good luck w/ whatever you do
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i dont know what to do. i have dis boyfriend but we NEVA hang out! like NEVA! and i cant call him cuz i dun got long distance (he lives like 20 minutes away but in the same state) so he only calls me once a day, which sucks. i miss being single, but if i tell him hell think ima hoe! i wanna go back ta school and not have ta deal wit a boyfriend in the beginning, i juz wanna have fun wit all mah guy friends and girl friends! and ima flirt.. i admit it, but i cant help it, im not a hoe, i only flirt... i really need help. shud i dump him? and if i shud how shud i say it? i really need help ova here...
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you should deffinately break up with him. Umm.. i think you can only break up with him over the phone. Your obviously not getting much out of this relationship and neither is he if you dont care about him too much. I'd say end it and do you BOTH some good. Have fun in school. Good luck
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my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do? (link)
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You did a great job, as devastating as finding that out about a friend would be, you did good. You could possibly now find a person who used to cut for her to talk to, or a counselor, or just be there for her. Tell her to tell her parents. Maybe they would get along better if they knew what they were doing to their daughter.
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Hey me and m boyfriend were best friends b4 we went out so we were alredy really really close and we got even closer since we r going out...and we could talk 4 5 or 6 hours ont ha fone and never have a silent moment or a dull moment and talk 24.7 but latly we hardy cant even talk like we talk 5 30 mintues on tha fone and prolly get 20 mintues of talkin dun...and i think now thats skools startin were gunna grow further apart than we alredy r ...and i really luv him and he really luvs me 2 but we r just growin apart and not doing as much 2gether wut do i do?! pls help me thx so much (link)
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Talk to him about how you want things to be like they were. Something is obviously bugging one of you. Now you just need to figure out what that is, and help each other get over it. Good luck
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