I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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im 17 and the most unexperienced person ever. i have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. i wouldnt exactly say im ugly or anything, and im not weird i just dont know how to act around boys. what do i do? (link)
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everybody goes at their own pace and that's cool if their are guys that are into you then go for it! kissing is the most easiest thing ever and trust me at the spur of the moment you'll find that it just comes naturally and you'll feel like a pro, but if you are abit intimidated then maybe theres a friend that you can experience your kiss with and after that you'll share it with someone special and you'll know what you're doing. boys like girls that are themselves so just be yourself crack a joke or two just blend in lol they're not that complicated
best of luck!
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I'm 15, female. Every time I get on Facebook, I see all my friends having fun on their weekend. I'm the only one who stays home, crying cause of my terrible life. I'm not allowed to go anywhere. My dad says I shouldn't even have friends. I wanted to have three friends over, but my dad said no, no , & no. I had to cry for two straight days just for him to say yes, but still, he fought. I can't go to any parties, I can't see any friends. I have to be at home all the time. When he goes to friends house. When my brothers can do whatever they want. No one understands me in this family. I never hang, or do anything on my weekends. Which makes me think of real bad stuff, like running away, or anything just to ruin my life. I don't know what to do. I've been invited to go to a quincenera today, a party, my friends turning 15, but still, I can't go. (link)
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i totally understand because i'm 18 years old and i have this problem! you need to tell your dad that you can't sit in the house all the time because it's really affecting you emotionally and you can't really concentrate in school because you need to take a break, make him realise that when he doesn't give you space this makes you want to do the wrong things if this doesn't help get somebody that you trust to come and talk to him and whatever you do try not to argue with him about it this makes it much worse
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Okay I know that my boyfriend loves me and he hasn't ever said anything. But I am the type that gets jealous easily. Idk why??? Idk how to stop either. Just over stupid things like him hanging out with a friend or even family. PLEASE help. I try to just bite my lip and not say anything. I don't want to be the jealous girlfriend, and I don't want to feel like that.
Help Please (link)
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trust me jealousy is the main reason why people break up and i'm sure you don't want that but what people don't know is that this is all in your head it tells you that you love him so much and now is the time to be jealous but you should try and convince yourself that this is not right and you will lose him if you don't stop if this still doesn't help then you should sit him down and talk to him before it gets out of hand
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my friends have been really annoying like one of my friends is really needy and she is bisexual and she is always holding my hand like we are dating(i am not bisexual but i don't care if people are)and we are not and my other friends are just like getting into all this shit and they don't get how much pressure that causes me i had a melt down about a week ago because of all my pressure and half of it came from them and the only person i trust is my bestest friend but i only see her about 1 every 2 months because she doesnt live near me anymore and i can't talk to her a lot because lately she has been busy and i really don't want to be friends with my friends anymore beside my bestest friend. i don't know what to do help!!!!!!
i am 14 and a girl (link)
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well i think you should start hanging out with the guys abit more you know "flirt" and make it clear to them that you're straight and if this doesn't work then the only way is to sit them down and talk to them about this tell them that you're not comfortable with this and if they still don't understand then they're not really your friends
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I am 16 years old and Im in love with this girl but she broke my heart for some other guy. And she meant the world to me. I was so depressed when she left and im not over her. I cant go one day without thinking about her and i want her to come back to me but at the same time i want nothing to do with her... What should i do???? (link)
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honestly sweetheart i don't think you should wait because she left you for another guy so it's clear she doesn't feel the seem way just remind yourself that if you keep waiting you would be living on false hope and you'd be missing out on what life has to offer and know that there is someone out there that you're meant to be with just be patient your turn will come and remember this relationship just wasn't meant to be for now just avoid all contact with her it's easier that way, you'll see
best of luck
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if a women has hair on her upper lip should u shave it off or wax? (link)
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waxing is way better because it pulls out hair from the root so it takes longer to grow it's painful yeah but you get use to it after a couple of times you can do it yourself at home or go to a salon but it's better than shaving
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Im not gay but I would like to masturbate with my friend but I dont know how to ask him. (link)
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dare him
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Okay so im a girl and im 11 yrs old.
i've gotten my period and ever since my private has been smelly during my period and when im not on it.. should i be worried? is there anything to make it go away? & Sometimes i find gooy white stuff in the front of my underwear is that normal also? my friend told me when my privates smell to put perfume on my pants or between my underwear? and also i try to but a pad so it wont smell ... (link)
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it's normal after you start your period that it would smell for a while and the white stuff you find in your underwear is called vaginal discharge and every girl gets it but sweetheart you really should'nt spray perfume there it could cause and infection and neither should you use a pad if you are not menstruating( not that time of the month) you should go to a chemist and get mild soap you also get soaps made to wash down there, do that everytime you take a bath and it would help reduce the smell
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if a boy you are dating calls you "boo" what EXACTLY dose it mean....i mean....cant guys come up with a better nickname then that ! ... you dont call your girlfriend a word people use to scare people on halloween ! lol ...my point is....what if i think it is acward for him to call me boo and i dont know really what he means , should i say "dont call me that please" and affend him ...or just go along with it...WOULD I PLEASE GET A LIL GIRL HELP ! lol :) (link)
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lol boo just means baby or sweetheart you know the song "my boo" usher and alicia keys i actually think it's really sweet and cute means he's really into you
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18/f and hes 19/m
ok so i really like this guy, usually he calls me bub, bubba, gorgeous, hun etc etc like cute nicknames...then today i say
"hello lovely :)"
and i get back "Hey kid"
kid? like seriously? im only a year younger then him and i dont see how that is cute at all =/ in fact its actually making me think he doesnt like me in that way...or as much as he did, because everyone keeps telling me its not a good thing if a guy calls you kid.
advice? x (link)
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nah you got nothing to worry about it's just another pet name "kid", "kiddo" doesn't mean anything lol but you might not wanna call him lovely it sounds kinda girly and you know how guys are but other than that don't stress too much
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Everybody probably knows Like a G6 by the Far East Movement. It's catchy song. I like the song but hate the video lol my friends love the song too and we even had it play at our school holiday dance lol
ANYWAYS whats a G6? I tried figuring out what a G6 was from the lyrics but I didnt get it. What's it? A G6 must be a slang for something right?
so . . .
Like a G6
... what does that mean?
thnx (link)
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G6 is an airplane- "now i'm feeling so FLY like a G6", get it?
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I have a huge problem. I'm in 10th grade and the school wants me to pick what I want to be when I "grow up" and go to college. What I REALLY want to be is a stay at home mom who raises kids and takes care of a husband. I know most girls don't want that any more and they want to be out there in the workforce but it just isn't what I want for myself.
The school wants me to choose a "real" job though. We have an occupation list we can choose from with some ideas and nothing on there says what I want. I tried to explain that I don't want to go to college and become a brain surgeon. They told me I HAVE to choose something. I think it's GREAT other girls want to do those types of things, spend all of that time in college, and earn great degrees...but that ain't me.
What do I do? I don't plan to go to college for anything other than to take a couple of classes just to have that experience. I figure after I get out of high school I'd work as a cashier or in a daycare or something until I end up getting married and settling down with someone. The school won't listen and tells me it's nonsense.
So, what do I do? I mean, what should I choose, if anything? I feel like I'm backed into a corner here. What ever happened to being able to grow up to be whatever you want to be? I told my mom and my dad and they're both kind of mad that the teachers won't acknowledge what I want to be. Nothing else really interests me as something I want to do for the rest of my life. I just want to get married, have babies, and take care of my husband, children, and home. What do I do? (link)
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well you have the choice to do what you want to do and i really admire that you want to be a stay at home mom you hardly get that these days. for your assignment you could always just lie i mean you're in the tenth grade you have a little bit more time in school then you're done lol so just lie about it nobody would know
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Well almost every morning i use daily protectors because some sort of liquid (but not exactly liquid) comes out. I know its gross and hard to explain but wtf is it??? (link)
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it's called vaginal discharge its completely normal for girls and really annoying at times i know but it's normal unless its like a yellowish colour and smells gross then it should be checked out but you got nothing to worry about
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My bestfriends and I have always been really really close. And I was just wondering if you have any ideas about nicknames for each of them. Her name is Tia (in spanish)and some 4 Renee (in french). Thx! plz get back to me ASAP. (link)
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thats a tough one because i dont know you guys personally but try taking quizzes online depends on your personality and they will send you a nickname
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ok so i was at a dance and i asked my bf to slow dance with me and he said "no way".... what is wrong??? everyone else was doing it!!! (link)
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haha nothing to worry about he probably just doesn't know how to slow dance or probably just thinks he's too cool to do it you know "social suicide" he's just afraid to do it in public because you know guys are they'll probably tease him about it later
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Hey! I'm a sixteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay so over the summer, I went to a party and well the drinks were a little stronger than I thought they would be... And I'm pretty small sooo I got kinda wasted:\... And I normally don't drink. But anyway. I was lacking in judgement and let some guy (junior, 17) he fingered me and that was it. Anyway. That guy... I'm kind if starting to get to know him and I like him... But it's still Awkwardddd... Cause I'm worried he sees me as a huge party girl/hoe and I'm really not!!! But weve never talked about it... What do I do?? (link)
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communication is best and you say it would be awkward for you but he was part of it so it would be awkward for him too so why not be awkward together, explain to him that you don't usually do that sorta thing and remember to tell him you really like him this would ease the tension but be careful that he's not in it for sex because he fingered you some guys tend to want more i don't know him personally but that's just what i think and don't worry you're NOT a hoe girls do ten times worse than what you did
best of luck
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My vagina hurts and i don't know why,it started hurting after I had sex after the second time. I don't but its like hurts when i touch it,and thats about it. I just wanna know what it could be. Cause im a little scared. (link)
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you say you had sex for the second time and it is quite normal that it would hurt for about three days but thats it if it continues for longer than a week i think that you should go see a doctor just to take precaution because it could be an std don't be too stressed out about it take things one step at a time
best of luck
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my face is really dry and its really bothering me! does anyone have any home remedies that will help moistrize my face? please and thank you?! (link)
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i don't know if you've heard of tumeric powder it's a yellow powder used in indian cooking you could mix that with milk and put it on your face once a day or just try oats mixed with milk this usually helps me
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okay im 14 and last year i got fingered n da laundry room of my house n i gave da guy a hand job (the guy was my bestfriends ex n dey broke up on da day of, later on i stole anutha one of my friends boyfriends, next i lost my virginity to n da band room at skool to one of da snair drummers( da percussion section is full of players) im on da flag team by the way. also i gave da guy a blow job on da staircase at skool while three of his percussion bruthas watched, den i gave anutha one of the snair drummers a blow job n da bathroom at skool, den i had sex with one of the drill(dance) team girls boyfriend which is also a snair drummer... does that make me slutty??? (link)
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as hard as it may be, yes this is slutty and quite unusual behaviour for a 14 year old anyways it's never too late to change or sooner people will label you as a slut you said three people watched as you gave the guy a blowjob this means that they're obvioulsy already talking behind your back it's never nice to be called a slut but some people think that it's cool this is anything far from the truth because nobody respects a slut and this will cause major problems later on no guy's ever take sluts seriously
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ok im almost 13 and i havent gotten my period yet.is that normal?? (link)
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yeah this is perfectly normal you should actually be pretty happy that you didn't get it it's soooo annoying
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