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what exactly is an orgasm? is it something physical or is it like just a feeling?
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when a guy fingers you or has sex with you, you get a great feeling and it makes u kinda tired.. and it lasts like 2 seconds unless he keeps doing it. it feels really good tho :o)
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yes i have never had sex or anything but have pleasured myself and have gotten fingered a couple times but only one time during the pleasuring i get like a 5 second thing where its awesome but is that the orgasm? im unsure of this.. (link)
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haha yea that's the orgasm :) congrats!
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Ok, first off we can start by saying over the summer I was suicidal, but no one knew except for this guy that I became real good friends with, John, well John talked me out of killing myself and cutting and stuff and then in September he invited me to his church so I started going, then one of my friends, Deb, found out I was going and she wanted to go with me, just because she likes John. So I did, Now she thinks that I HAVE to take her everytime I go, otherwise she gets pissed at me. She has even told me she doesn't trust me alone with John cause I used to like him. Well I have this other friend, Nicole, and I have promised her that she can go with me this Sunday, she thinks John is cute too. But John also thinks Nicole is pretty, but he only likes Deb as a friend. So should I tell Deb that I'm taking Nicole with me or what? Please I'm stuck in a rut and don't know what to do. Sorry if all of this doesn't make sense! (link)
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aright i understand. okay.. well.. i think you need to tell deb that he doesn't like her. be like "okay, well john kinda likes nicole, so i think that i should take her on sunday" and if she gets mad.. tell her that it's not your fault. but no matter what, don't bring them both at the same time! good luck! hope i've helped!
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I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????
* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too (link)
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just tell him that you thought you liked him a lot but it wasn't what you thought it was. or that you guys are too good of friends to date. something like that. good luck and i hope i helped :o)
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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary. (link)
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you and your friend need to go out to the good hangouts around your town. the movies, the mall, even some extracurricular activities going on at your school. maybe you should join in on an extracurricular activity. you are in all honors classes, is there a math team or something like that? you should approach them. good luck! hope i've helped!
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i wanted to know if i should switch schools...cuz i have like 4 friends in my school now...n i dont wanna leave em...but i reli hate this school soo much..n its not like i am moving further away...id juss b switching schools...but idk what to do...cuz i love my 4 friends but lifes hectic in that skool n makes me wanna do serious stuff to myself...plz help me
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i think that you should. if this school is driving you so crazy that you feel you need to do serious things to you to make you feel better, it's not the right school for you. if you're not moving away, what's the harm? if you go to this new school, you'll have the opportunity to make new friends and start clean. good luck and i hope that helped you!
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My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!! (link)
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i know what you mean.. my older sister smokes and so does my grandmother. tell them what it does to you, and by smoking a cigarette - what the consequence is.. stuff like that. good luck and i hope i helped.
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I have a problem: I am a lonely introvert, and I try to get out and make friends. But my problems is that most people only want to talk about superficial things such as house, car, kids, job, and shopping. While I know those are what most people care about, these topics bore me to death. I like deeper conversations about philosophy or literature. I don't mean to be conceited, but it's hard to find smart people to talk to. Why can't I find anyone on my level? Should I dumb myself down to fit in? Any comments are appreiciated. Thank you! (link)
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i'm assuming you go to certain places to meet these lower level people. maybe you should try another place to hang out at? poetry readings.. things like that! good luck, hope i helped!
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Ok, well there is this guy that I like and he absolutely adores me. He asked me out but I said no, maybe sometime soon. I like him, I really do. But see, I don't know if we went out that it would work out. He likes to play video games and talks about them a lot. I could care less half of the time but I listen and try to be interested in what he is saying because I care if that makes sense. And well, I'm the kind of girl who really likes to cuddle and kiss and sometimes other things. I don't have sex or oral sex.. just other things if you catch my drift. I mean I can live without those things if I have to. So my question is, should I go out with this guy? What are your blunt opinions on if you think it'd work out for us or not? Thanks (link)
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if you like him that much, then i think that you should date him. my boyfriend is really into video games and sports, and i could care less but we are good everywhere else. you know? ask him if it's not too late and tell him how you feel. you don't want it to be a sex-revolved relationship. good luck and i hope i helped!
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I really like this one guy and so does one of my friends. But I know I like him more than her but she doesn't belive me. But I just found out today who really likes and that he likes me more than my friend. I really feel like bragging to my friend cuz she does it all the time but I know I shouldn't so how do I not? (link)
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don't stoop down to her level. if she brags to you all the time, it just shows how immature she is. just tell her and say sorry.. be like "hey i found out that he likes me more and i'm sorry but i like him just as much as he likes me" or something liek that! good luck! hope ive helped!
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ok, i really want bangs. i have long blonde hair and i think it would wrap the look up. people say i should but then there is someone called my MOM who says i cant! it pisses me off because she doesnt let me do anything to my hair! how can i convice her? (link)
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tell her that it's your hair and you should be able to do what you want with it. good luck and merry x-mas!
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I want to make a collage of all the pictures of my friends and set it as the background on my desktop. the problem is, i dont know how. i do have a photo-enhance program, but like the ditz i am, i dont know how to use it can anyone tell me how and what program to use? thank you (link)
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i had to do a project with collaguing at school last year. we used adobe photoshop. it costs money, although i think you can get a trial version on the website or something. good luck! merry christmas!
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ok so i have had my period for almost three years now and the first two were regular. But i had surgery in the begining of july and i had my period at the end of july. But after that i havent had it, its been 5 months and i know tis sounds crazy but i want it. It sso annoying not noing wen ur gonna get it. Is this normal after having surgery? if it is then y did i get it in july and not after? (link)
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you should maybe go to a doctor or the gyno if you think it's serious. maybe it's normal after surgery? good luck, hope i helped, and merry christmas :o)
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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on? (link)
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mmkay.. well why don't you guys go to eachother's houses? that's what me and my boyfriend do. he lives in the next neighborhood, so he walks over. confront him about it, ask him if he wants to go farther. if he does.. do little things to turn him on.. tease him a little bit, be touchy and shit :o) haha good luck! merry christmas, and i hope i helped!
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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you never know until you actually talk to him. well, flirt around for a little bit longer.. if he continues to react then talk to him. tell him you have feelings for him. maybe he'll come out and say it too? good luck! hope i've helped and have a merry christmas :o)
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Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot! (link)
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no.. some people start very early. others start very late. if you think there's a problem, go to the gyno. hope i helped. good luck and have a merry christmas :o)
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A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
thanks for the help
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i think you guys need to talk about it. ask him why he would do that to you if you guys were such good friends. listen to what he has to say, and then make your decision on if you want to forgive him or not. if you say you might regret not forgiving him, then just go ahead and forgive him. i hope i've helped. good luck and merry christmas :o)
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my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and we got back together a couple of ays ago. I love him more than anything and I don't want to mess things up this time. When he broke up with me he didn't really give an explanation why he did it. And I couldn't get him to tell me, he would just say, "It's hard to explain." He had told me he loved me and we were about to do certain "things" but i don't know if he still wants to do those "things" So my question is do you think he still loves me? Also do you think he still wanys to do those "things". And how should I bring the subject up with him? Thanks a ton! Please help... (link)
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if you guys got back together, then why wouldn't he not love you? he might not love you as much, but he probably still loves you. about the "things" thing.. i think you should talk to him. assuming's not gonna do you any good. i hope i helped. good luck, and merry christmas :o)
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I'm a moderately happy person. I'm in love, I have really supportive friends, and I have great artistic outlets for my emotions, but for some reason I keep having these reoccurring thoughts of suicide. Every time I sit by my window I think of diving headfirst into the driveway three stories below. I don't know what to think of it. Is this normal? (link)
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no offense, but no. i don't think it's normal. if you say your happy then why do you have suicidal thoughts? i think that you need to see a counselor? maybe they could help you. good luck :o) merry christmas!
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do u finger a girl for?
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however long you want? until she orgasms? until she says stop? take it what you will.. ha
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