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okay so im 14 and most of my friends hav gotten fingered, eaten out, gave hjs and bjs, but ive only made out... like its just not my style. i only like to really makeout if i like the person.i just dont know when im ready to give a hj or bjor anything related to that. any advice/opinions would be great :]

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is it ok for a girl to ask a guy to homecoming?

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does anyone know any songs abouttt
loving your boyfriend and him not loving you
back or something.???

my situation is that i'm with my boyfriend
and i love him;; i'm not in love with him..
not yet at least, i just love him. i care
alotttttttt about him. sooo muchh. but i guess
he doesn't actually love me back... he just
has strong feelings for me, he just likes me.

does anyone know of any songs for this kind
of situation? i reallllyyyy need help..

a list of songs would be nice :]

thankss i REALLY appreciate it..

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Alright so a few weeks ago I preformed oral sex on my boyfriend. I sometimes get coldsores from stress or lack of sleep. When I gave him the blowjob though, I did not have one coldsore in my mouth then. Do you think that he could get the coldsores/herpes on his penis from me giving him the blowjob even though I didn't have any when I gave him head?

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last night i had a very bad dream involving my boyfriend and my best friend. i caught them having sex in the shower. and of course i beat the hell out of her. i started crying and forgave him. which i know is stupid. because once a cheater always a cheater, right? why am i having these dreams. i heard that dreams come true most of the time. how can i prevent this? i would hate to lose him & my best friend. i love this guy so much, more then anything in the world. he means so much to me. i trust him with alot of things. but someone told me that he has been cheating on me within the past 2 months. i also got a phone call from a girl and told me that he had sex with her. i confronted him about it, but of course he said no. how do i know thats true or not? the friend ( she has a boyfriend )in my dream got kicked out of her house, and needed a place to stay,and her boyfriend is best friends with mine. and he asked my boyfriend if she can stay the night at his house. and he let her. i trust them both. but he has a reputation as a player. he says he has changed but how do i know?


16/f and 19/m - we been together for 7 months.

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hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a sis " they told me because one time i was standing with him and i told him that i take you as a close sister and he told me same here " that acually didnt make me angry it made me sad that i kno he probably doesnt like me more than a sister.. or a friend.. but it made me feel good that he cared about me and took me real close to him as a sister.. i just dont know what to do.. people are always tellin me get over the guy before your get hurt again and i really do! wanna get over him.. but i just cant.. its to hard.. its not like i can get over somone like that so quickly
what do i do??

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Let' me start out with saying sorru if i picked the wrong category!

mmkay well,
im 14/f
and ive only had one b/f
and it lasted a week,
why: b'cause we wanted to get to know eachother,
i was like 13 then and it was when i first turned 13 at that, im almost 15 i have about three more mounths left anyways,

i havent had a b/f since then me and that boy just didnt talk and im fine with that
i have had some crushs but none i really wanted to be with and like lately ive been thinking,
and i want to start dateing, but i only like the top of the line boys LIKE: thay have to be very cute or fine and if there not i dont want to get in to it ive been asked out by alot of boys but i always turn them down because that isnt what i want, i know you dont have to even ssay that is wrong and very rude but thats just how it is,
at the beging of this year this boy started to like me and we where best friends and i kinda liked him but i wasnt sure so i didnt even try,
well see ive been thinking of him alot lately and like he is the first person on my mind when i wake up and when i check my, my space i always hope to see him on line or have a reply from his message, but i dont really know if i like him,

and i dont know what to do,
i want to stop just likeing the top of the line boys i want it to be okay to like cute boys :)
and how could i tell if i do like him or maybe i just want him because im lonely?
if you have anything like anything PLEASE let me know

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What are some good topics for a persuasive speech? Please, nothing too complicated because I only have 5-10 minutes to deliver my speech.

Thanks in advance!;)

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my boyfriend is kinda in a wheelchair, paralyzed in his knees. we can stil have sex, but i always have to be on top. after a while, the same thing gets old. is there any new postions that we can try. or some unforgetable tips on giving head.


16/f and 19/m

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How do you know if you love someone? I think I love my bgf, but how can I be sure? We both like each other, but can't have a relationship now (complicated). I think I may love him tho actually I think I do because I mean I'm a very emotional person and I love all my friends and stuff and loving people isn't very hard for me (like friend wise) but I think I love him. I love him as a very good friend at least. Also if you have been best friends with a boy for a while and then you date is it kind of weird to start hugging and stuff. When you haven't for so long? And we've watched and supported each other in other relationships with each others best friends. So if/when we date is it weird to start hugging and stuff? Thanks so much! And i rate.

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Ok...so my boyfriend and me have talked about a promise ring. We've been together for a year and a half and we know that we truly love each other and want to spend our lives together. We both decided that we would wait a few more months before taking this step! Do you think this is too soon? Or can you really put a time on these kinds of things!

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Okay, this is a question for guys to answer. I put it in this catergory because putting it in the relationships catergory just didn't seem right.
My boyfriends birthday is coming up, we've been together for a year and half. Normally on the gift giving holidays I get him a video game or something else techy ( he's a self declared gamer. I just call him a nerd). I've lareadt reserved the game I'm getting him, but I wangt to do somrthing sexy for him. We've been having sex for almost a year, but pretty much the only position we do is missionary. Now, I have a plan, so this is wher I need guys opinions, tell me if you would like this if your girlfriend did this for you, or if there's anything you think I should add in or not do.
1.) I'm gonna go to his house, dressed in a sexy little outfit, go to his room, and blidnfold him, not saying a word.
2.) I'm gonna undress him, he won't be able to see a thing.
3.) I'll probly improvise here with what I'll do (kiss him all over, lick him, whatever I feel like doing)
4.) Throw him down on the bed, hop on top and go crazy. (I recently heard that most guys prefer girl on top sex, is that true?)

Okay guys, so again, tell me what you think, if there's anything else I should or shouldn't do, if you personally would like this, and anything else you can think to add. Any comments are appreciated.
Please and Thank You!

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ok just to start i am a man..ish lol (16 years old) but the thing the proceeds to allways piss me off is the way i see other guys looking at girls as if they are mindless sex objects, damn i hate it. one of my freinds freind today was lookin at a girl across the street going oh wow looka her ass i'd bone that bitch and crap like that. am i missing something? because its demoralising as hell and i hate it... how do i just tell him that he is doing something that pisses me off to no end without being so... oh how to put it harsh... well maybe a little to show him a bit, but i dont know ime confused about it i just need a good one liner that will tell anyone i meet like it in the future.

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I have to do a school project on a controversial/ethical subject and I wanted to choose something other than the death penalty or abortion. I have chosen to do underage drinking. As part of research for the project we have been asked to gather different points of view about the topic and I decided Advicenators would be an ideal place to get some of these opinions/experiences.

If you could take a few minutes to answer these questions/give any additional infomation then it would be very much appreciated.

Did you drink when you were underage? (I know that the legal age varies in different countries, so just go with whatever the legal age is where you are). If so, how often? Where and how did you obtain the alcohol? I'm focussing a large section of the paper on the use of fake ID/asking older friends etc to buy alcohol for you, so if you have any experiences with that, then please let me know in as much detail as possible.

Thank you.

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I was wondering how to get to second base with a girl. I mean does she have to like tell you to start touching her boobs or just like lead you into or does the guy just have to go for it and hop that it was the right time?

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What are some good songs to encourage someone who has recently gone through a break up?

Not sad, "I want you back" type songs, but songs that help you get over that person.

Thank you!

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okey theres this guy i really like at school, and i fink he likes me to but sumtimes i wouneder wether im jus imagining it becuase today he didnt say a word to me untill this girl had gone he gave me a few eye contacting signals but he didnt say a word.
but when that girl had left he came over and asked me somthing i think trying to make conversations does he like me or im i really imagining it
and he aways jokes about with me but im starting to woudner wether he means it or maybe he is just trying to hide the fact that he likes me

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Hey.
15/m
So school started the other week.
And its been pretty much wonderful.
I have a friends who is bi.
And in the past week I think he has started flirting with me.
Now, I'm not gay.
But I have no problem with gay people.
So...
How can I tell if he really does likes me (not by asking?
I prettty conceited,
so I am hoping that i am just "thinking" that he likes me.
help?

Thanks

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there is this guy, who is a senior, he likes me and i like him back and we have become really close. we hung out saturday night and like it was really romantic, he held my hand and we jsut talked for like two hours. it was amazing. but hes a senior and im a sophomore. we really like eachother but im sooo worried about the age difference. like homecomming is comming up and i dont know if he will ask me or someone else bc of the age difference. this is really getting me worried...so please help.

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I'm just looking for some good songs. Mainly soft, kind of indie genre. Something kind of like Colbie Caillat, Death Cab for Cutie, Bright Eyes, ect. Anything would be appreciated. I'm just lacking musical motivation right now.

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