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Hey.
15/m
So school started the other week.
And its been pretty much wonderful.
I have a friends who is bi.
And in the past week I think he has started flirting with me.
Now, I'm not gay.
But I have no problem with gay people.
So...
How can I tell if he really does likes me (not by asking?
I prettty conceited,
so I am hoping that i am just "thinking" that he likes me.
help?
Thanks
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that's a hard situation. i've been in it too (i'm a girl who likes boys, it was really weird). you can't really do anything at this stage except maybe spend more time with other friends, or even when you're around him make triple sure you're not giving off false pretenses. talk about girls or something in front of him. if he asks you out or even mentions something like that, that's the time for you to say that you don't swing that way and you don't think of him like that. don't ever be afraid to do what you want to do, and if you don't want to be involved with him (which, i'm just taking a wild guess here and saying that's a no) then don't let him think that there could possibly be something between you two. but yeah, if he starts flirting with you, change the subject... quickly. good luck :)
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Well, I guess one way to know would be to think of all the ways you naturally act around a girl you like and see if he's acting in these ways. Is he looking at you more than usual, ei, when someone else is talking? Do his eyes ever melt slightly when he looks at you? Does he tease you by touching you (not tackling kind of stuff, but things that are slightly more subtle). Other signs may be tilting his head to one side, or sitting near you all of the time as you and your friends are sitting together.
Remember, though, that a lot of flirting is often causal and may not mean that someone likes you. If you are really concerned, you could always send some hints his way, for example, you could talk about girls you find hot, or the girl(s) you have a crush on, or give him some hint that you only like him as a friend (ei "you're such a good friend" or if that's too cheesy, call him your brother or something?)
Good luck =]
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