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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.
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i live in the US and like to do things before they get popular..
europe always seems to be ahead by a year or 2 on any trends that become popular
does anyone know whats popular there right now?
thanks!
Walking around a mall with your mom while you and her are wearing polka dots.
Sorry, did i mention polka dots are cool? yes yes, very cool and "that's hot".
No no, sorry.
Sorry, my mistake. I was talking about the fact that POPULARITY AND FASHION IS ABSOLUTY UNIMPORTANT.
Advice: Nude is the new cool thing.
Why do atheists believe there is no God? I hear a lot of arguments against organized religion but I don’t hear many actual ‘reasons’ that there is not or cannot possibly be a God? So what are thier reasons?
I am Pagan, and recently turned Pagan, so I can tell you some reasons.
They believe there is no Christian God because they do not feel a connection with God. And not everyone does. Like me, I don't feel a connection with him, but I feel a connection with Paganism.
And sometimes God hasn't done anything for them, and/or they don't need/want a faith in their life, so that is why they are Atheists.
Need more reasons? Leave one in my inbox, I'm sure I can scrap a few more answers.
does anyone know how to release a troubled soul? Recently i have been feeling like an outsider twith my friends. I feel like my friends have to be too serious around me and i feel like i cant relate to them and i feel like a total outsider. i feel like there is something worng with me.i can hardly ever laugh anymore. i think i'm going into a depression.maybe i'm gonna die soon so i can be released from my torubled soul. Plz help i dunno wut i'm gonna do but the thing is i'm very sane and wont kill myself. But i am tired of life. I am tired of everything and i dont know what is wrong with me. Plz help.
It's called depression. You might have a mild case of it, so just write or do something you love. Art helps "release a toubled soul"..trust me. If your depression gets worse, ask your mom to take you to someone to talk to.
good luck!
if you need anything else with depression, IM me AIM: fatalxhaerts
hiya
recently i feel like ive been loosing my self.
ive beeen moody, snapping at my parents and self harming, ive also been considering suicide because i dont see any reason why i can continue to live. my parents split up about a month ago, im overweight, and i just feel useless. i lost my first love over ago because i realised how much i wanted to be with him after he left. i just dont know what to do any more. im 16/f and i just feel like ive lost my life already. i dream about love falling asleep under the stars with the person i love but i cant find that person to be with.
any ideas why im feeling like this and how i can stop it will get 5's.
thanx
emma
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Suicide will not help nor self harming. I am a former self injurer and it will do nothing but 'cause more problems. Please seek professional help. Since you parents split up, this could be the cause. Seeing a therapist isn't a bad thing. It will actually help you. Just tell your mom or whoever that you are feeling depressed and you need to talk to someone about the split up.
if you need anything else, IM me on AIM: fatalxhaerts
okay if you give someone head or a blow job can u get pregnant? like from swallowing the cum?
no you won't get pregnant, but you'll die. Sperm is deadly in your stomach. enjoy!
This sounds stupid but yeah..
Ok, so im a young teen, and my friends are more "matured" then me.I mean like they have boobs and i dont ; they have their period and i dont.I went for that check-up thing when your about 12-13 .. and they said i wouldnt start maturing till im a freshmen, well its not that long away im going into eigth grade .. but i feel like boys wont like me and i feel unconfortable in bathing suites around boys .. what should i do .. just deal with it?
Yeah basically all you can do is deal with it. My friend is the same way, but she finally started "maturing" last year (8th grade). But what the doctor said is probably only a prediction.
and, don't worry about boys in the 8th grade, they are asses then. =P
i was wondering eye shadow that actually shows up. like neon colors blues greens pink n such. everykind i buy sucks. thanks!
is that even a question?
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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me
w00t for pagans! (yeah I'm pagan too..heh)
I've never had a problem with this 'cause my b/f is pagan too..so yeah.
Just explain to her the religion. Maybe tell her about the paganism first, then tell her you're Pagan, so she will most likely accept you better that way.
good luck!
Ok my cousin and i are really good friends but in the past two years iv e developed a crush for him.. i dotn know what to do should i tell him and is it normal to like your cousin(im a 13 year old girl)
you're 13, so it's normal. you'll get over it soon.
I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas
go streaking.
i'm 14 years old, and i was raped about a month ago. my friend got helped me get a couple of pregnancy tests, and they all turned up positive. i'm really scared to tell my parents, because i was at a party that i wasn't supposed to be at when it happened. i'm a volleyball player for my school, and last year we almost won the championships. i don't want to throw my entire life away, but i know that i would never be able to put my baby up for adoption. i'd wonder every day if she/he was safe, or if they hated me for abandoning them. i'm strongly against abortion...but i'm starting to wonder if maybe that's the right choice in this situation. i haven't told either of my parents yet...should i keep the baby or is abortion ok sometimes?
You need to tell your parents about the rape AND the pregnancy. In my opinion, abortion is right in this situation, because you don't want to remember what happened, yet you don't (as you said) want to worry about the child being with someone else. I'm not saying "go for abortion!", but it's a choice i would take. Just do what you feel is best and have your parents help you decide.
good luck, hun.
Im going into 7th grade and never had a bf!
Everyone tells me im pretty and I've been popular and everything at my school. Im even a model!
But I dont brag or anything
But anyways theres this boy I like and I really want to get closer to him. Once he tried to kiss me but my mom walked into the house and he stopped. And now were kinda like friends. Is there anything I can do to get him to like me again?
you are GOING INTO 7TH GRADE, you don't need to worry about boyfriends, dear. really you don't.
but anyways, you can't make anyone like you. that doesn't happen as anyone would know.
Is magic real? Can you really hypnotize people? I saw this thing on tv where this guy made this girl float..sounds totally not real but if you saw it you would probably believe it. But anyways, is it actually real?
if you want it to be real, then it will be.
[but the real answer is, no. there's telekenisis though but that would take years to train for to make a person float.]
is it bad that i am an independant person.. when ever i get a boyfriend i dotn like it when he spends any money on me because i dont like it when girls use guys to buy them shit. but anyways my best friend is makin a big deal about it and my boyfriend doesnt like the idea. he thinks i dont like him when i dont let him buy me anything.. can someone please either help me change my point of view on this?? or do you think it is a good or bad that i am independant?? thanks
it's not bad to be independent, but let him buy you little things every once in a while. I was the same way. So one day my b/f (now ex) just took me to the mall and spent $20 on me, and i wasn't allowed to pay for anything. I've just learned to let guys buy me things as long as I don't really ask for them.
good luck.
I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?
yes, because guys are asses and have bad intentions. lets leave it at that.
Hey,Im 13/f (but mature for my age so dont say im too young for serious dating)
This guy is really inlove with me, and im just not feeling it. We've made out and..honestly i get bored with him.I've already broke his heart twice and we just hooked up about a week ago.
This seems to happen a lot. I like a guy for awhile, then we get together and the likeness factor soon goes away. Whats wrong with me? Am in not straight?I dont think i like girls or anything, but im scared that if im getting bored with these guys after a short period of time.Youknow? Well..maybe you dont.
Should i break it off with him? I mean we are really good friends but i dont wanna ruin that. Should i take a break from him? I cant really take a break though if we havent been together long can i? Oh i need help!
I rate high for good advice!
You're 13, your interests change. That's all.
As for breaking up with him, just do what you feel is right.
okay, you know how on some xangas around the weblog entry there is like a box with a border around it, so its easier to read? does anyone know the htmll code to make your xanga like that? thanks! i rate answers!!!
table.blogbody {
border: #666666 2px solid;
}
take out the spaces and *'s. and change it as you wish. put that in your "custom header" and enjoy!
if you need anymore help with xanga or html, just drop one in my inbox.
Well, I have been VERY depressed lately about different things. My dad makes me really mad. I'm tired of being depressed. I can't get to sleep at night. I hate it. My best friend is wonderful and she tries to help me. But nothing works. EVER! I feel so bad because she tries her best. I love her so much for helping me. I'm just.. I don't know. I'm always sad. I need help. And I can't afford some REAL help, if you know what I mean. SO.. Does anyone have any advice?? I will rate 4s and 5s!!
you need to get some help if it's changing your sleeping patterns. There are places out there that understand your finacial difficulty. Or talk to your school counselor. Trust me, help with actually help tremendously.
good luck.
IM me if you need anything else. fatalxhaerts
ok well my dentist told me i will need braces for my lower teeth. and my mom promised she will get me invisilign i know its a bit expensive but i dont wanna wear braces.and now my mom said she isnt sure if she can aford invislign.and i dont wanna wear braces in high school.waht should i do?
You can barely see braces on your lower teeth. And if you don't need them that bad, then don't get them, but there a "clear" braces too that aren't invislign and they are a little bit more expensive, but braces are worth it. and having them in highschool won't be a big deal, really.