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So theres this guy,he really seems to care about me. At least I think but how do I know?

Hey,
You can usually tell when a guy cares about you when like whenever you fall or trip he always asks if you're ok. Whenever you look sad or depressed he always comes up to you and asks if you're ok.

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okay so theres this boy that has a girlfriend and theyve been going out for almost a month. me and my friend really like him though. they dont seem very boyfriend and girlfriend like, they barely ever talk. anyways, the other night he told me and my friend (we like him) to call him so we did. and he was saying all this stuff about his girlandfriend and about how he doesnt care what she thinks, and he said dont tell her we talked. and we didnt. the next day at school, he told her everything and said we called him to break them up. which we would never do. so we went to straighten it up and she believed us so she went 2 talk to him and he denied everything! ugh, so now theyre both not talking to us, it sucks. what do we do? we really like him, we want to be friend s with him :) were in 9th grade. sorry for making this so long. i`ll rate HIGH for good answers :)

Hey,
I think you should try to sit down with thme together and tell them that you never tried to break them up.

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im gay and i want to tell my perants that im gay i know my dad would accept it but my mom would beat my @SS so what can i do to get my mom to accept me??

Hey,
If your mom cares about you a lot and loves you a lot like she says she does. And if she also wants you to be happy then I think she would accept it. Don't be ashamed of who you are.

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I think I may have mono. Some girl at school has it and me and her drank from the same drink and I haven't felt so great since. I'm really tired. What are the symptoms? Should I tell my mom? (She'd really flip) What do I do to get rid of it?
I'll rate.

Hey,
Ya, you can get it from someone. Even drinking after them. Go to the doctor and get medicine for it. It's preventable.

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okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.

Facts::
-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
-we DO love eachother

Hey,
USE A CONDOM FOR ORAL SEX!! The reason why is because you can get a lot of STD's even if he's never had oral sex with anyone else but you. You could get Herpes or Ghanarhiea.

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ok i got the top of my ear periced but it got infected so now it if like a big ball on top of my ear. how can i make it go away so no one in school tomorrow can see it plz help fast i rate 5s

Hey,
I don't know how you could make it go away but you could cover it up by putting your hair in front of your ears.

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WHat is "friends with benifits?"

Hey,
A friend with benefits is a perosn that you're just friends with that you have sex with.including oral sex.Why?

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Ok so there is this guy that i like but he doesnt even no that im alive but i realy like him and ive liked him since 3rd grade when i moved to my school. i realy want to tell him how i feel but im scared of rejection and once again be more dorky then i am if its even possible!can u help me Withs alot of lovin J.H

Hey,
My advice to you is go out and buy yourself some new outfits and go and get your nails and hair done so you'll stand out more and then he'll be bound to notice you. Then tell him how you feel about him.

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Advicegodesess2

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does anyone know any fun party songs? maybe 80s 90s er now a days.

thanks!

Hey,
I know ALOT of fun party songs. Barbiegirl by Aqua, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun by Cyndi Lauper, Do You Think You're Better Off by Alicee Deejay, Run it by Chris Brown.

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Ok, well, this will probably seem stupid to most people... but there's this guy in my grade (8th) and last year he told my friend that really liked me and he was really sweet to me and then I started to really like him and he asked me out and we "went out" for a while but the thing is, we hardly really talked. then i guess he just told his and my friends that he didn't really like me that much anymore and nobody ever actually broke up with the other one, but we just kind of broke up in a weird way. Well anyways, then it became awkward around him. He started being kind of rude to me. Then, during like the last week of school, we kind of started talking again and it was a lot of fun we started flirting a lot- like he took my sweatshirt which was way to small for him, and put it on, and we kept messing around with eachother... then summer started. Now, he is in one of my classes, but we dont talk, at ALL. It's really frusterating, because I still really like him. The thing is, my friend told me that she thinks he likes this new girl, who is by the way extremely rude and annoying, because he was flirting with her, kind of the same way he did with me. I found out that he is going to the same high school as me, though. Do you think I might get another shot with him in the future, or is it pretty much gone? Please help me! I rate!

Hey,
Yes, I stil think y'all have a chance. My suggestion to you is change your look or style like go shopping and buy some new outfits that'll make him go wow and go get your hair and nails done.

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Advicegodesses2

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okay so i am so very bored right now and i have absolutely no where to go...and i have no friends to hang out with so could someone give me some fun ideas that i could do right now to rid my boredom? thnkx

Hey,
I've got a few couple of fun games that you could do by yourself that are on the computer. Try going to www.quizilla.com they have alot of fun quizzes there but when you get there go to popular quizzes.

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Advicegodesses2

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i feel like a HORIBLE friend! One of my best friends...someone who i can tell evrything to even though we hang out with different crowds... told me he was gonna take half a pill of ecstacy... and well i talked to him about and i told him how i felt and he said he would consider it well i found out right now that he did take it since a message on a myspace syas he was doing it right then... and i feel like the worst friend... i dont know what to do.. I mean did i do everything i could. Its like ugh why would u do something so stupid!! I hate my self right now i keep asking myself if I still respect him and i dont know... i need advice cause i feel like the worst friend in the whole entire world since i didnt do a good enough job talking him out of it.

Hey Gurl,
It sounds like you need a good friend right now well if you do I'm here. Don't feel bad hun you did everything you could do. Sometimes people just do messed up things for no reason or maybe he has some issues going on in his life right now. You might not be able to help him lay off the ex. but maybe you could ask him if he needs a friend to talk to. Remember if you ever need a friend I'm here.

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can someone please tell me a good brand of shoes that i can get for basketball.. that are not too expensive (the highest i can pay is 50) thanls. i rate for good answers.

Hey,
Try New Balance, K-Swiss, Nike.

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Okay this was a month ago or w/e and i didnt know what was going on with me, but i was going to the bathroom, #2 and when i got up it was like red, i figured that it was obvesouly blood, but i din't know from what because, it didnt hurt and i didnt have sex so i was confused, if any one has an answer, and i dont think it matters anymore becuase it was so long ago and it never bugged me again, so please reply.

~*Manda

Hey,
How old are you? It might of been your period.

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ok it seems like my mom favors my brother way more than me. So one day I stayed home from school because I was sick. Then my mom told me since I stayed home, I was grounded for the weekend. But then today, my little brother was supposedly throwing up this morning and didnt go to his soccer parade and games but about an hour later he was outside running around and on his dirtbike and playing basketball and everything. Then he got to have his friend sleep over. Am I over reacting or am I right about her possibly favoring him more?

Hey,
Anytime you need to talk I'm here.

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Advicegodesses2

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i like this guy and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet so i just wanna do it but how do u ask a guy out without sounding desperate or anything?

Hi,
I had the same problem last year,this boy was really cute but he wouldn't ask me out. So me , being the outspoken person that I am, I asked him out myself.All you have to do is find out if he is going somewhere on the weekend and wear something really hot.and then he''ll think that you are really pretty. Start talking to him, that will make you become friends.Then make your move, This is how you start off say "I thin k that you are really cute and we both like eachother so I wabt to know if you want to go out?", Or you could get your friends to ask him out for you.
Who knows he might be scared and thinking the same thing that you are thinking and os scared to ask you.So my best advice for you is to go for it.

your friend,
advicegodesses2

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Ok, im a 13/f and would like some help on redecorating my room. its a light blue and i love unicorns and dragons, i also love ligers and tigers. i cant re paint, or do anything drastick, so if any one could help that would be awsome

Hi,
I just had my room redecorated before the hurricane.And I like all types of animals.I am a huge pet lover to.I would probably go and get pictures of the animals you like and hang them up like a collage. Some ideas for that is to look on the enternet to find pictures that you can print out and color.Or, you ncould find a friend that can draw really good and get them to make you some.Then you could go and bye some teddy bears that look like them,or stuff like that.

your friends,
Advicegodesse2

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Well i have this friend Kac(thats what i''ll call her) And she best friends with this other grl melodoy( That what i'll call her) She such a drama queen. If it's not her way thers no way! Kac if thicks that. She's costily rude, she interruos me when i'mm talking to kac. And if you say you like a guy she likes him too. Me and kac like this guy named aaron, she kinda knows him and she likes him to its getting so annoying. She brags a lot. She says i like love my fabolus outfit don't you. She tells me well i went with kac at the mall for along time. We bought tons of things. Kac bought fabulos enrings you should see them. She's nice and everything but she gets preety annoying!!!!
What should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Candychick1

Hi,
I think that the best thing that you could do is talk to Kac about how you feel.Maybe she'll think about ya'lls friendship.Then maybe she'll think more about how she acts.Tell her how annoying the other girl is and, how she makes you feel.That is the best advice I can give you.

your friends,
advicegodesses2

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ok well im like one of like 10 black gurls in my city. most of the other oens r mixed though but i still count them as black.well anyways ive lived here for 2 and a half years and the whole time ive only had 2 boyfriends. y is it that white bois dont wanna go out with black gurls? a lot of guy flirt with me and say they wanna do stuff with me but they wont ask me out. what should i do becuase im always sittin around watchin all my other friends hook up with guys and im just left all alone.

love,
lonely black gurl

Hi,
I think that most white people who live in a mostly white town aren't used to having to think about dating black girls.So they don't really know how to handle it.The best advice I could give to you is to be yourself, and if they don't like you for who you are, then they're not worth it.I am a black girl who lives in a black town and sometimes I feel the same way.But I just try to keep my head up.So that's my other advice for you, keep your head up.

your friends,
advicegodesses2

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ok do you know where you can get those black tights you wear with regular shows ans skirts like they arent complete the stop at your ancle area.

Hey,
Wal-mart.

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