okay so theres this boy that has a girlfriend and theyve been going out for almost a month. me and my friend really like him though. they dont seem very boyfriend and girlfriend like, they barely ever talk. anyways, the other night he told me and my friend (we like him) to call him so we did. and he was saying all this stuff about his girlandfriend and about how he doesnt care what she thinks, and he said dont tell her we talked. and we didnt. the next day at school, he told her everything and said we called him to break them up. which we would never do. so we went to straighten it up and she believed us so she went 2 talk to him and he denied everything! ugh, so now theyre both not talking to us, it sucks. what do we do? we really like him, we want to be friend s with him :) were in 9th grade. sorry for making this so long. i`ll rate HIGH for good answers :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Monday October 3 2005, 5:35 pm: Do you really want to be friends with a guy who denied and lied to someone about you? I sure wouldn't. It doesn't really matter how him and his girlfriend were, whether they talked a lot or not, that is their business. And it doesnt make it right to but in on their relationship. But now, it sounds like this guy doesn't deserve any girlfriends or friends for that matter. Yet, you still want to be his friend after all of this? He sat there on the phone with you and trash talked his girlfriend, but you still want to talk to him? Someday, that could be you he'll be trash talking.
Christeena answered Monday October 3 2005, 5:07 pm: Honestly, if he has a girlfriend, whether they seem to like each other or not, leave him alone, at least romantically. Until they do break up, whenever that may be, keep it just as friends, alright? [ Christeena's advice column | Ask Christeena A Question ]
advicegodesses2 answered Monday October 3 2005, 1:26 pm: Hey,
I think you should try to sit down with thme together and tell them that you never tried to break them up.
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