I am a wife and a mother of three grown sons. I live in New York and am an equestrian. Most of my free time is spent riding and caring for my horses now that my sons are out of the house.
I give down to earth advice, as I tell it like I see it...and I've seen alot.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Member Since: January 17, 2009
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Last Update: September 11, 2011
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What products would I have to use to get my hair looking like this?
And what would I have to do (use a straightener, blow drier, curler etc...?)
Also, if anyone could suggest how to cut the hair so that it looks this way (how many layers and where approximately the layers should start) would be greatly appreciated as well. thanks!
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To get the first look...she has long layers. Just tell the hairstylist that you want long layers, or better yet, bring the picture. You can achieve that look with large rollers. Sometimes beer cans work for this look. You need to set your hair. I don't know if you've ever set your hair, but your mother could do it for you if you haven't. If your hair sets really well and the curls come out too tight, you'll have to relax them a little. Just dampen the hair with a little water and blow out gently. They should fall nicely. Do it on a weekend so you can experiment and get it right.
The second picture is not the same look. She looks like she just crawled out of bed. Not sure how to achieve that look. Maybe you could just crawl out of bed!
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okay so today my grades from school came in. suuucked! you see, i usually get a's and maybe one or two b's. but this time i got some c's. so my mom was really really mad at me since i kept tellin her that i was doin good in school. also she asked me why i was so tired sometimes. so she ended up taking my phone away.
i had no time to erase any of my text messages. but i handed her the phone. not only did she read a lot of my text messages, she viewed who i was callin, who was callin me, and voice mail ppl had left me. i feel like i have no privacy at all. :(
anyway, after my mother had gone through all the spying, she came into my room and asked me all these questions. she asked me who carlos was. of course i knew that was my bf but i never told her i had a bf because i knew she wouldnt accept that. so i lied to her and said he's just my friend. but she caught me. she knew i was lieing. she told me she also knew why i was tired all the time. it was because of my late phone calls i had with my boyfriend. she said that i have no respect for her, all i do is lie, and that i have a dirty mouth. Also that she has no reason to believe anything i say to her anymore.
i feel horrible since i made her cry. i dont know what i am goin to do...what should i do??! (link)
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Your mother wants to raise you right! Thank God she cares so much!
The best way to to regain her trust is to be trustworthy...and that takes time. You'll have to prove to her you've turned a new leaf. Don't lie and cover up. I'm sure if your boyfriend lied to you and you found out, you'd have issues with it. So, put yourself in your mother's shoes and go to her and apologize. Make her aware that you understand why she is disappointed in you and your behavior and that you will not do that again.
You don't say how old you are. If you're old enough to date, in your mothers eyes, then tell her you want to be able to tell her you like a boy, but you are afraid she won't accept it. Tell her that's why you lied, but you did feel guilty because you don't like to lie to her. Regardless, tell her it won't happen again.
With all you tell her, you must back it up with action. Actions speak louder than words. Most importantly, you and your mother love each other. She only wants what's best for you.
You can live without your phone. Besides, if it's true you're up all night talking and your grades are suffering because of it, you can hardly blame her. Give it time and prove your worthy of her trust again. She'll give it back. Just do the right thing.
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My parents got divorced last summer after my dad found out my mom was cheating on him. So they've been divorced for about a year now and my mom got married to the guy she cheated on my dad with about a month after the divorce was final. My dad was heartbroken for a while but eventually found someone he's totally in love with and they're engaged. Basically, when they were getting a divorce, my dad wanted to make it quick and clean so as not to cause any emotional stress to any of us kids [My older brother (16), and my two little sisters (8 and 9)]. So he offered to be the one to move out and allowed my mom to have custody of us kids because transportation to and from school would be easier if we lived with her. So he moved into a small house close to our house so us kids could walk to his house anytime we wanted. Well, for a while after he met this women, my dad and his current fiance tried having her move down to where we live so he could stay here. However, her entire family lives in florida and her 20 something son has some sort of brain and spinal cord disease so she felt better moving back. Of course, my dad loves her very much so he wanted to go with her. Well, my mom had a MAJOR problem with this. She threatened to go to the law and everything all because she didn't want my older brother (he just came back from running away with his preggo girlfriend and was put under house arrest. He basically hates my mom with a passion because she told him he was going to hell because he told her he was bi -_-) to come live with us (he was living with my dad). So my dad asked a judge about it and fixed it so my brother was able to go to florida with him. Now, I don't exactly HATE my mom. I do, however, think she's stupid and lives in her own perfect fantasy world in which she pushes all things in her life that are bad away. So no, I don't hate her, but I do have major problems with her that she doesn't currently know about. My dad and my brother are basically my lifeline. They keep me living and sane and I'm very close to both. The mean the absolute world to me, especially my dad. So, I guess you can say I'm the "good teenager". I haven't done anything really bad because I went through my "rebelious phase" when I was like 13 and now I'm over that crap. I've never done anything wrong, so my mom keeps me around to stay in her "perfect" litte family, unlike my brother who she made move in with my dad. Also, because I'm the oldest girl, I think she thinks we have some sort of special mother-daughter relationship. After my dad moved, I thought I'd be able to handle not being able to see him and hang out with him, but I'm losing it. I guess I'm not literally going crazy, but everytime my mom says something I want to scream at her and run to my room and pack my bags. It's just that everthing she says is so...stupid. For example, We went to see "The life of Benjamin Button". We were sitting there, halfway through the movie and she leans over and whispers "Now, is this based on a true story?" -_-. And she says things that equal that level of stupidity everyday. So yeah, losing it here. I REALLY want to move to Florida. I can make new friends I don't care. All I care about anymore is living with my dad and being happy. I've told my mom I've wanted to move before. Everytime I bring it up with her she breaks down crying and says "If you leave now, I'll never get you back". I've pointed out that the guy she married knows NOTHING about kids and taking care of them and being a father, whereas my dad's fiance at least has experience so I wouldn't be without some type of female guardianship. I told her I'd keep in touch with her if I moved. I've told her about the educational benefits of me going to this really cool art school down there. I've told her all this stuff and told her I'd be happier if I lived with my dad but she just WON'T listen. She cares more about her own happiness then mine. So I'm held captive here. My dad knows I want to live with him. My dad is trying to help me move down there. However, he said it wouldn't be a good idea to cause a big uproar and upset her. Apparently everytime I say something about moving to my mom, she calls my dad and freaks out on him saying he's telling me to say things and trying to steal me away. I've even told her that he's not telling me to say anything and that I can think and speak for myself. So, my dad doesn't want me to get mad at her and I'm basically "playing along" until he comes here and we "talk it out" with my mom. And I have no idea when that will be. I feel like my dad is trying, but he doesn't want to 'scar me emotionally'. Which, it's pretty much too late for that. So he's telling me to keep the status quo, she thinks I'm just fine and peachy because I haven't brought up anything about moving, and I'm incredibally unhappy with my current living situations. I just want to move. I just want to be happy. Please, please help. I'll take any advice I can get. Also, thanks for taking the time to read all of this. Thank you SO much. (link)
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Perhaps, out of fairness, you could tell mom you want to live with your father over summer vacation. Tell her you want to spend some consistent time with him. You could raise the point that it's not fair that she require you to give up your relationship with your father, whom you also love, just so she can have you all to herself. Tell her, "I love you mom, but I also love dad and want to spend this summer with him.
See how it goes from there. Maybe you'll want to come back after the summer. If not, then you can make arrangements to vacation with him over the winter, too, if all goes smoothly.
Sometimes, it's best to take things incrementally and not all at once.
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Well I am a 16 year old female.
I really like this guy who is older.Alot older.(6 years older.)We met through my dad and spiritual beliefs.I spent so much time with him and his personality slowly grew on me, so I fell for the guy.We got caught having sex by my stepmom and now my dad hates him.I miss him alot and occasionally still talk to him.How do you think we should handle the situation? (link)
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You are a child (having sex)and he is guilty of having sex with a child. He could go to jail for that. Your father could press charges against him.
How should you handle the situation? Stay away from him and look for someone your own age who will respect you and not use you for sex. That way, nobody goes to jail.
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Basically I started feeling unwell this morning.
I am not pregnant, although have been trying for months, but keeps coming back negative, and have been having my periods as normal.
I came on my period today but its not the normal monthly pains.
I came down with the symptoms almost instantly , they include:
Feeling Sick
Headaches
V Painful abdominal pains
Urinating frequently
Painful when urinating
Very blocked nose, and when I sniff its sore and sends a pain to my eyes
I don't think its a UTI because the sickness is quite immense, along with the headaches.
I never normally feel this ill, infact, my immune system is amazingly good, however over the last few months, I have been getting ill on a regular basis. Any help would be greatly appreciated (link)
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Anytime you have painful urination, it's a sign of infection. It may not have anything to do with the other symptoms, but you can't let an infection go unattended. You need to see a doctor. The other symptoms may or may not be related, but a doctor needs to rule that out, not you.
The recent death of a Brazilian model was caused by a urinary tract infection that went undiagnosed. By the time they found the cause of her terrible sickness, it was too late. She had already had her hands and feet amputated because of the infection and it was still to late.
Don't play around with it. See a doctor.
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19/f
I am 19 and my parents dont really allow me to do much. I feel like a child. My friends all make fun of me for being under such close watch and not being allowed to go places and do things like most 19 or 18 year old do, because i always have to ask my parents and hope that they will permit me to do something... I have no freedom. I've fairly recently gotten in trouble for trying to go out, because I said so, and I was like... its time to stop being controlled by my parents and get out and have some fun.
I had to deceive my parents so that i could do what i wanted to do. I couldn even leave the house without my mom looking out the door to see who was picking me up and to see if they were there yet...etc.... I didnt know my mom was going to follow me to the door, so that foiled my plan. I was going to walk up the road, but my mom was like "no, tell your friend to come pull up infront of the door". And then she saw that it was a male friend and not the female friend i told her it was. I got in a lot of trouble and got yelled at and lectured.. Now my parents say they dont trust me and i cant go anywhere or do anyyything. My friends say "you're 19, you can do what you want....etc."..
I want to know if it would be f***ed up or not if I were to just slip out the house and move one day and not tell my parents anything until I get there. I want to live with a certain guy, but, i mean, when i am ready to move in with him and when i'm sure thats what i want to do. And I will call my parents from my new residence, or better yet text them and be like "umm.... yeah.... i moved..."
They dont even want me meeting with this guy. They dont want me to meet with no guy or do anything. And I am so tired of my parents! I need to get away from them! I'm not going to even bother with introducing them to the guy, because they wont want me with him cuz he's 22 and i told my mom a little bit about him and she's like "you dont need to be with him. you dont need to be with anybody. You need to focus on school and focus on gettin yourself together first (work on myself in terms of anxiety problems etc.)" They just want to keep me as their boyfriend-less child for as long as they possibly can.
And I dont want to bother with telling them i plan on moving out. So do you think it would be messed up if i just moved out, and in with this guy, and just told them about it after the fact? Just so they know what happened to me.. and that way they cant do anything about it (link)
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There are unanswered questions. I assume you're in college. Do your parents pay for school? If you left, would they continue to pay, or are you self supporting? What if you moved in with this guy and it didn't work out? Where would you go? Can you support yourself?
I know you are anxious to gain some independence, but you should think it through. If you depend on your parents for your existence, then you really can't do much about things because all support could stop if you walk.
Do you really like this guy or are you looking for someone to get you out of the house?
I'd say, get yourself self sufficient and then you can move out because you can live on your own on your own terms. Your parent do seem to be a bit too controlling, but they just want to ensure you don't get off track in school and in life in general. Don't move in with this guy unless you can survive on your own without him. These situations can change before you know it, you've got to handle all the bills on your own. Be prepared to do that before you move out, otherwise, you may find yourself begging mom and dad to let you come back home, with even more restrictions, because they will view you as making bad decisions.
UPDATE:
You really do need to get answers for you anxiety. I personally, don't feel medication is the answer, but you must deal with this problem before dealing with anything else. Guys or school. If it prevents you from working, which is a normal part of life, then it can creep into many other areas of life and truly become debilitating.
What happened in your life to cause you such anxiety? Spend some time thinking hard about where this anxiety started and what could have caused it. Getting away from your parents should not be your goal in life. Getting your act together so you can function in society should be your main goal. If you think about it, your anxiety is covering up all your talents and abilities. God only knows what you're capable of if only you didn't have this problem! Tackle it big time. You need to free your mind up for bigger and better things. Something tells me you're the type who will go places.
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For the most part my and Alex's communication is great we use I statements Im feeling I will, I need, and we are respectful of each others opinions. But Alex and his ex have been flirting alot lately. One day when alex was at work she texted him, "Im bored entertain me," so he replied "come out to the shop Im alone." And not even two days later I caught him talking to our 1 month old about how he was going to introduce his ex to her as "Aunt Alesha" I told him I was uncomfortable with that. So I asked him to stop talking to her for a few months because that was a major boundary line that he had just crossed. I told him it didnt have to be for forever, just until our lives slowed down. I just had our daughter, and we had a temporary move into an apartment until we finalized the things necessary to move into our new house. It was a very stressful time and I explained that his flirting was not harmless or in good fun, it genuinely bugged me because he take it to far. He said fine and deleted her phone number out of his phone. He never told her to stop contacting him. He just moved to a more public place to talk to her the internet. A few days ago I go to leave a comment on his myspace and they have had contact on there since the time I had asked him to stop. She asked him for play dates with him and the baby alone and she doesnt have any kids. She goes to him to whine and cry. She contacted me and threatened me. She is under the impression that he is her best friend and I am a jealous insecure witch. So I told him I didnt appreciate him lying about discontinueing talking to her it was very disrespectful of my feelings. So at that point I gave him the ultimatum me or her.
It should have never gotten that far to begin with. He should have respected my wishes and feelings months ago and told her to back off til things settled down, but he didnt. He also admitted that he still cared about her, but wanted to still be with me forever. He said he needed to re prioratize his thoughts. So I have moved out, and we have talked about it more. I want the end result to be me moveing back into our new house with him but I just cant shake the feeling that his- in his words "harmless flirting" has done more damage to our relationship than I am letting on to. I know it takes time because we didnt get into this situation in just one day but what kind of things do I look for to see that he's being serious and is ready to have a serious relationship with me?
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"Harmless flirting"? Harmless to whom? He and his ex? Certainly not harmless to you, his wife.
Did he do this before you were married? If so, that should have been a clue.
I would not tolerate it. Who knows how far it has really gone. We usually know less than the truth with this kind of thing. You'll know he's serious when all the little clues disappear and he no longer has his flirty little contact with her. You are in the right and he is in the wrong. You are his wife now and he should not be flirting with anyone, especially his ex.
Obviously, he is very insensitive and his ex is, pardon the expression, a bitch. She sounds like she is trying to break up your marriage. Perhaps she regrets their break up and didn't expect him to find someone else and is 'stepping in', so to speak. If that's okay with him, then you need to walk. You married the wrong guy.
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Background info: Recently my dad has Started webcaming with "people" he has met online. He says that they are "guys" from other countrys that are nice nd he just talks with.
the other night i was sitting in the living room watching t.v && on my computor. my dad was also in the living room on his computor on webcam. He coverd the side of his face and I saw him blow the camra a kiss TWICE!. && the night before someone had sent him a kissy message the ones that make a kissy sound. I dont care what anyone thinks but I consider this cheating. weather its emotional cheating or actual sex cheating its still cheating.
Now im positive my mom doesnt know about this but I cant be the one to tell her.
Background info on my mom: Shes really old almost sixty has battled cancer for 6 years and if I tell her thiis She WONT be able to handle it i just know that....
Question: What do I do. I don't know how to handle this information. all I could do was cry. I was so mad that he would have the nerve to do that with me in the room. I dont even know if there is a right answer to what i should do but this has really emotionaly screwd with me. I have bad enough trust isues in relationships and now I just feel like theres absolutely no hope! what do i dooo please help. (link)
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Confront your father on what you've seen him do (IN PRIVATE) and tell him how you feel about it. Do it at a time when you are both free to discuss the issue. Perhaps he could take you out to lunch or go to a place where your mom won't be around and you have time to talk.
I would definitely make him aware of your view of the situation.
As far as your having trust issues in relationships....We usually pick partners that feel familiar to us. In other words, we choose partners that are like the family we grew up in. If there was suspicion between our parents, we'll tend to re-create that situation in our own lives because, frankly, it's comfortable. We know it and understand it. Not that it's healthy, unless we grew up in a healthy environment. That is why you will always see people who are in abusive relationships seek out abusive relationships and it's usually handed down generation after generation.
You'd be best off selecting partners who are the opposite of what you would normally pick and don't let infatuation be your guide. Infatuation doesn't last, a good solid relationship with someone you trust is worth it's weight in gold.
Confront you father.
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Alright. This might seem like a strange scenario. I was at my friend's cottage with 11 other friends last week over March Break. So there was needless to say drinking involved. During the first two nights i could catch the feeling that my long time friend Kurt was hitting on me, and I liked it. So we flirted back and forth. Well the third night we ened up making out then doing stuff (fingering,blow job) but again we were both drunk. Then the night after that we again did those things (for lack of condoms) and he ened up coming in in a few hours later to say goodnight and ending up sleeping in my bed. And we did things again the 3rd night, this time we were both sober (well me more or less) and we decided we'd be sex buddies.
Since we got back we haven't really spoken, I know my reason is because I'm nervous. But he did add me on msn which I saw as a symbol to mean that he wants to talk.
So my question is, should I be trying to get him alone and talk to him or will that be coming on too strong. Or just forget and chalk in up to a fling? (even though I don't want a relationship, just more flings.) (link)
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Coming on too strong? I don't think you can come on any stronger than letting this guy have you in the most intimate ways possible.
Are you shy all of the sudden? If you don't want to have a relationship...tell him! Tell him "I just want to screw around", after all, who cares what he and everyone he talks to is going to think of you.
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I need to write a thank you letter to my best friend and her parents for taking me on vacation with them to their condo in South Beach. What I am writing seems unoriginal and boring. My girlfriend wrote me one when she went away with me and specifically wrote about how she enjoyed watching me eat a South American Pasta Salad everyday and signed it "Salty Soph-Dog," as we called her. I'd like to make my card cute like that, too.
Some details from my trip, we drank a bottle of $300 champagne (I'd like to include include "poppin' champagne"), got pulled off the beach to do a photoshoot for the Cosmo Bikini Bash, ate a lot, ate Kobe beef, tried on 7,000-12,000 dresses, ate Caesar salad for every meal, had a creepy old man tape us dancing, got free $250 bikinis, drank mojitos, and had two hookers try to be our best friends.. Help? (link)
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How about....
How much fun was South Beach?! $300 champagne, free bikini's, Kobe beef, lot's of Ceasar salad, two hookers and an old man filming us....well, that's how much fun!
Loved every minute of it and would do it all over again, well, maybe minus the hookers and old man!
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I recently started looking into becoming a marine biologist, but my grades in math and bio aren't that good. Plus i'm not that fond of being away from home for months on end. I also dont think i could handle being a vet because I couldnt have the heart to put animals to sleep etc..
So what would be a good job for me that has to do with helping all types of animals?
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I bet there are lots of different positions to choose from in a zoo!
Research this field and see what you come up with.
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sorryy i don't know what category this goes in! but anyway, in august my friend and i are going on a cruise to bermuda, and i was wondering if anyone knwos if we'll get service on the cruise? i have at&t and he has sprint. thanks! (link)
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You can bring cell phones, but whether or not you'll get service depends on your provider and the strength of their signal. Some cell phones have a very strong signal and some don't.
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This is a picture of my hair at the moment, only I just dyed it very dark brown. I put the picture in so people would know my kind of face shape. I really want a new kind of hair cut. I'd like it to be choppy on top but not really short, although I'd go shorter, as long as it doesn't go to that kind of pixie-ish kind of shortness, or just below the ears. I was wondering if anyone had some suggestions they think would suit my face shape :)
Any help, any at all, will be great. I won't judge an answer on whether I like the idea or not, I really just want lots of ideas that I can begin to define down to one kind of style. Thanks! (link)
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You have a heart shaped face, therefore, you should not taper your hair. It should be full near your jaw line. If you do a search on "hairstyles for heart shaped face" there will be lots of websites that can help you. You can also type inn "hairstyle photos" and see what you get. Only you know what styles you'd like and be willing to wear. But, remember, avoid styles that taper at the jaw. Look for fullness instead.
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I have a weird ear problem. In my right ear every 5 mins or so, I hear this whoosh, wind noise (but there is no wind!) and it kind of throbs/vibrates. I thought it was water in my ear but it doesn't seem that way and I tried ear drops. Has anyone experienced this or might know what it is? It doesn't hurt, but it's extremely annoying and has been happening all day. (link)
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Time to see your doctor. It's probably nothing, but you have to rule out anything serious.
My nephew had the same thing and it turned out to be a blood vessel near his ear and the sound of the blood whooshing through was magnified.
That said, you have to rule out other problems that can be very serious.
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I have a dark brown sports coat, and khaki colored pants. will a pink tie work with all of this? thanks in advance! (link)
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Yes, it will, but wear a white shirt.
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Do you know of a useful,non-toxic way to get rid of nesting birds? A "home-remedy" of some sort? (link)
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Depends on where they're nesting. If they are nesting in the eves of your house, then installing wire mesh will prevent that. Same with attic vents. Just cover the opening with wire mesh. Sometimes, if they nest by the house, just your presences everyday will make them move. They don't like to lay eggs near alot of activity.
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Hey guys, all right, to begin, I don't want to hear he should have done this blah blah blah.. I need HELP, not a lecture. My boyfriend went on Autotrader.com to find a car, a fast fun car for him to have for himself. Well he found one. A Firebird Formula and its really nice. Well We're almost 100% sure its a scam. Simply for this
http://www.fbi.gov/cyberinvest/escams.htm
This is the same story the "seller" told my boyfriend. He was leaving to go to War, and needed to sell his car because he will be away a long time, he even sent an email from Autotrader that told my boyfriend how to go about the paying process. The email looks completely real, the click ables are click able, and everything. Well he emailed an email the website gives if you have any concerns blah blah blah, and he emailed our Closest FBI station.
this is some things that just really makes us believe it is a scam.
-He said he is on base in Georgia. But when my boyfriend called the MoneyGram thing, they said the money was picked up in FLORIDA.
-The warning on the FBI website
-The address that he gave my boyfriend is a local club in Georgia.
-I looked on Auto Trader for any distance from our home town and the same car with the same pictures are with another guy from St. Louis. With the same detailing about the car and everything.
-My boyfriend's friend called down to the police station in Florida and asked them to go to the address of the guy's name(although he said he was in Georgia) and the house is forcolsed. But that police man is looking for people with that last name around town
We know that it would be VERY easy to catch this guy, but only with the FBI's help. Would they help us? I'm thinking since there is a link on their main website for the scam they would help us.
please help us in what to do. My boyfriend is a very smart guy, he is a 4.0 student in College, and was in H/S. He was very happy about getting this car and believed that he was in the Arm forces, and didn't think anything about it. We know that he should have been more careful, I'm not here to listen to say that, I just want to know what should we do in trying to get catch this guy and help the others who have fallen for it also. Thanks!!
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You should definitely file a complaint with the FBI, but, your boyfriend may never see his money again. These scam artists are very shrewd and I'm betting whatever name they used wasn't their real name. My guess is, he can kiss that money goodbye, but the FBI knows alot more about these scams than I do and may have a way of tripping the scammers up.
Either way, yes contact them. At the very least, it will give them more info to stop this sort of thing from happening to someone else.
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How do I get rid of gnats inside my house?
they're everyone, and they bug the crap out of me please help, anyone.
I rate 5's to everyone who answers this question!
give me some products or stuff I can use that kills them.
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If this is a chronic problem, then they are probably breeding somewhere in your house. Are they in every room or just one? The answer is a bomb(Fogger). Home Depot or Lowe's will have them. If you have the problem in more than one room, you'll need a bomb per room. Follow the directions and set it off. I promise, you'll get rid of the gnats and any other bug in your house. Uh, don't forget to get out of the house!
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So, today I did a bit of eyebrow waxing and just above my eyelids, on both sides it pulled off skin. This has never happened to me before and it looks horrible.
How can I make this heal as fast as possible and also how can I prevent this happening in the future? At the moment I just put some Aloe Vera on it...but yeah, any suggestions? I'm desperate!
Thanks! (link)
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Get an antibiotic ointment and apply it. It will sooth it and heal it. You don't want to get an infection.
You could use hair remover instead of wax, but you have to be very, very careful not to get it in your eyes. You're really not supposed to use it near your eyes, but, I do and it works great. You do have to be careful, though.
There is also, go old fashioned plucking. Ouch.
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I wanted to get a few opinions on this question.
Do you believe that there are some people out there that can "predict" the future?
The reason that I'm asking is because in a way, my boyfriend's mother actually knows a lady that does it over the phone and everything she has said, was actually correct and things that happened after talking to her.
Recently, I've gotten in a huge fight with my parents because of what my boyfriend is (ethnicity & family background wise) and they do not approve.
I love him to death and having them not approve without even getting the chance to meet him is a big stab in my heart.
Before they even found out about him, his mother actually talked to that lady and she told them that my parents would not like him and there would be problems.
Well, she was right.
She also mentioned that we're going to a wedding in April.. and she was also right about that.
A lot of the things the says are actually true or coming true.
I was never a big believer and it's not like I'm expecting all of these things to happen just because she said they will but I'm so stuck.
Now, everything else I hear I start getting worried :/
Any help is appreciated. Opinions, advice.. anything.
Thank you. (link)
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I wouldn't get involved with anyone who was involved in 'soothsaying". Hopefully, this woman's son isn't involved.
The whole subject creeps me out and you never know what else they're involved in.
Find out if he believes in this stuff and make your judgment call from there.
They cannot accurately predict the future any more than you can. Sometimes, you'll be right, but, more than likely, you'll be wrong. Anyone can say someone's going to a wedding in April and have it turn out correct once in a while. Many weddings are in April and the odds are in favor of it. Basically, this person can say anything and have it be true some of the time. She's most likely a fraud.
That said, the black arts are dangerous and I wouldn't date him if he's into this stuff, too.
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