Well I am a 16 year old female.
I really like this guy who is older.Alot older.(6 years older.)We met through my dad and spiritual beliefs.I spent so much time with him and his personality slowly grew on me, so I fell for the guy.We got caught having sex by my stepmom and now my dad hates him.I miss him alot and occasionally still talk to him.How do you think we should handle the situation?
Additional info, added Tuesday March 31 2009, 8:14 pm: this happened in the middle of last year...
i was going through a tough time at home and i know that it doesnt give him an excuse or me either but he just happened to be the one there for me during all the pain i was going through at the time. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? christina answered Tuesday March 31 2009, 7:06 am: I honestly do not blame your father for being upset with you & for hating this guy.
He is 22 and you are 16. You are a minor, and he is an adult. What he did is disgusting, and ILLEGAL. He committed a crime & your father has EVERY RIGHT to hate him.
Smartone answered Monday March 30 2009, 7:10 pm: You are a child (having sex)and he is guilty of having sex with a child. He could go to jail for that. Your father could press charges against him.
How should you handle the situation? Stay away from him and look for someone your own age who will respect you and not use you for sex. That way, nobody goes to jail. [ Smartone's advice column | Ask Smartone A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Monday March 30 2009, 2:49 pm: if you truely love him things will work out talk to your father about how sorry you are about having sex but it wasn't just his fault and you truely have strong feelings for him. as for the age. age is just a number i am 17 about to be 18 and the guy i am talking to is 28 [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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