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Go for him or forget about it?
Alright. This might seem like a strange scenario. I was at my friend's cottage with 11 other friends last week over March Break. So there was needless to say drinking involved. During the first two nights i could catch the feeling that my long time friend Kurt was hitting on me, and I liked it. So we flirted back and forth. Well the third night we ened up making out then doing stuff (fingering,blow job) but again we were both drunk. Then the night after that we again did those things (for lack of condoms) and he ened up coming in in a few hours later to say goodnight and ending up sleeping in my bed. And we did things again the 3rd night, this time we were both sober (well me more or less) and we decided we'd be sex buddies.
Since we got back we haven't really spoken, I know my reason is because I'm nervous. But he did add me on msn which I saw as a symbol to mean that he wants to talk.
So my question is, should I be trying to get him alone and talk to him or will that be coming on too strong. Or just forget and chalk in up to a fling? (even though I don't want a relationship, just more flings.)
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Coming on too strong? I don't think you can come on any stronger than letting this guy have you in the most intimate ways possible.
Are you shy all of the sudden? If you don't want to have a relationship...tell him! Tell him "I just want to screw around", after all, who cares what he and everyone he talks to is going to think of you.
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Do you really want him just for the sex alone? Because it seems to me you're worrying too much about him for it to be only a fling. You see, if you continue this, you might just fall for him since you have been friends for a long time. If you are ready to take the risk, then go for him. But if you are not, then let him go and just continue to be his friend.
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