i give up... you ppl asking quesitons.... its stupid... yur questions r so simple.... and just not needed... sex.... does she/he like me?.... shold i do this?.... its up to you! its yur life! live it and make up yur mind, u sholdn't have others living it for you... i dont think i'll back back soon... not at least to answer a question.....
To see you when I wake up
Is a gift I didn't think could be real.
To know that you feel the same as I do
Is a three-fold, Utopian dream.
You do something to me that I can't explain.
So would I be out of line if I said,
"I miss you"?
I see your picture,
I smell your skin on
The empty pillow next to mine.
You have only been gone ten days,
But already I'm wasting away.
I know I'll see you again
Whether far or soon.
But I need you to know that I care,
And I miss you.
i miss you shelby..... i made that last one for you.... i wanna come back..... cherish the times we had cause you neva no if we'll be lucky enough to re-live them.... i love you.....
E-mail: ADHDanonomyous@aol.com
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um well my brother in college just told me that he is suffering from depression but he says hes going to counseling but he lives 600 miles away so its hard to know for sure but like he normally tells me pretty much everything but he wont talk about what is so bad and i dont know what to do, cuz he lives so far away and whatever. any ideas? (link)
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if he had a gf where he used to live or if he misses sumthing. life in college can be hard and pressuring. sumtimes its grades or he did sumthing or hurt sumbody. i cant really say wats goin on cuase idk wats goin on wit him. but i gave you sum ideas and i hope i helped.
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my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible ! (link)
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Sibayakkid... one way of makin him stop is to tell him about the bad things that could happen to you if you smoke pot or anything like that. first of all he can get cancer in his nose,mouth,lungs,and throat. if he was to get it in the throat he would have to have a hole cut in his throat so he could breath. if he doesn't listen to you or even care, you might wanna just leave him. he seems to like pot more than you, and i would chose you anyday even tho idk you. hope i helped
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Okay well see my mom doesnt let me wear makeup...and im like 14yrs old! but shes always saying how im too young, when she has like no idea that a lot of the girls she sees at my school are like my age except that they look older because they wear makeup... like i just want to know anyways of making my face look better without actualy putting like a whole lot of makeup. or maybe the solution is to wear makeup?
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having make-up might tell other people that your artificial in sum ways. keeping your skin free and open tells people that you dont need make-up to feel or look your best. and besides, make-up can cost a lot over time. hope i was insiteful
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Okay here it goes... i rarely ask questions.. but I really need some advice right now... I have this boyfriend and I really like him... but I also have this one guy on my mind and I have liked this one guy for about 1 year already.. well i see him every once in a while... and we kiss and hold hands and stuff and no i havent done that since going out with my boyfriend... but i can't get him off of my mind... and I really like him and i think he likes me too i mean he holds my hand and kisses me and stuff like that.. but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend... what do you think I should do.. thanks i will rate high (link)
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well you dont wanna hurt your boyfriend, or he might never talk to you again. but think. who do you really love more? your bf, or the guy you like thats isn't your bf. if you wanna go out wit the other guy break up with your bf, but wait a bit b4 asking the other guy out. because your bf will think oyu were cheatin on him the whole time and might like try to attack you and your or lover guy man dude person. i hope i helped.
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Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.
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i say you should go with the girl in your class because you on you like her. unless you can get it outta the other girl that she likes you then go for the girl in your class.
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i think a kid i know is gay how can i tell if he is or not? he does everything a other guy does and he had a party and invited guys only? is he gay? (link)
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well it depends. jsut because he has an all boy b-day party doesn't mean he's gay. it means that he didn't want any girls at his party. another thing is how he acts. gay guys usually are femine but not all of them are. if cant tell you if he is or not. but all i can say is watch how he acts in certain situations and see if he is. its your disicion to look upon.
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i have this friend..we are "best friends"..we used to be really close..and are families are still...but im sick of her. she took my friends from me and everything..all these guys like her..and i ade her become what she is today..i meani gave her the good clothes and what music to listen to..but i dunno..what should i do? everytime i confront her about this..she gets all upset and says she never wants to lose me..and just flipps out..i cant stand her!!..what do i do? (link)
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it sounds like shes mooching off of you for stuff, so she can seem cool and popular. and she sees that without you she cant keep the complection up. you might think about losing her until she stop beenin a bitch about how good of a friend you are.
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okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!! (link)
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well its seems to me that they dont like you a whole lot, for no aparent reason. i'm think the bf thing. but if think that you should look for new friends. friends that wont hurt you or leave you in the dust. or get mad at you because you wanna be friends with them. you just gotta leave them. i srry to say that since they your best friends. but they like geeky boys than you.... i srry... i hope i helped
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okay so this kid i recently started to like came to my basketball came last friday and since i was playing and was litterly flippin pushed outta the gym afterwards i never got to talk to him. i dont know why he was there, i think it was for me, but do you think he likes me? how should i tell him i like him? straight up, or have my best friend tell him? oh and hes my bestfriends xboyfriend so it totally sucks ass (link)
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well the thing is, you dont know if he likes you. but it isvery possable. if you wana tell him its always better to do it yourself. cuase having other people doing it for you shows that you and shy and that you are nervous, whic is fine. and its better to tell him in person because then you send a signal taht you really like him.
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I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend?? (link)
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ok. the most basic thing is to be yourself. another thing yur gonna have to do is talk to more guys. talk to guys you know or like or could potientally like. the number one thing u gotta do is get out there and try. if you dont, you neva gonna get a bf. i hope i helped
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Well, see I was at my friend's house and I didn't like my boyfriend at the time so i broke up with him with my friend. I was happy and stuff. But as soon as I broke up with him i felt really bad because I didn't only brake up with him I was mean and rude to him. The next day I talked to him and he said he stayed up the whole night crying and he was praying that I would come back to him. I did go back to him because I relized I did like him and it just took awhile to relize it. So now we are going out again and things are better then ever. Except, I told my best friend and she said alot of things like she said that why did you brake up with him if you didn't like him. I said I didn't like him at the time and it just took me awhile to relize it. Also she said alot of guys like me because I am "Hott" but she said by the way you aren't. That got me mad 1 because not all the guys like me because I am "Hott" they like me for other reason also. And 2 because how could by best friend say that to me that I am not pretty. I was mad and I don't know why she said that. What should I do? She also said alot more and she wasn't to happy. I think she is mad at me now and I don't know what to do?? Help! (link)
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i think she likes your man. and wants you to leave him so she can have him. thats why she's dissing you so much and is telling you all this bad stuff. i think you should kick outta your life. all she doin is tryin to ruin it. its not your fault if shes mad anyways. shes makin herself mad by bringing it up. so you might wanna kick her outta your life until she stops and isn't so mean to you.
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there is this guy...he calls me at least twice a day and he always flirts with me says my friends but everytime some1 goes up to him and askes if he likes me he says no...i dont really understand him...i like him a lot and i dont know if i should tell him or if i sould just keep it to myself because im afraid he will be scared off if i tell him...i could use help
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if he calls twice a day he likes you. and the reason he says no is because is embarassed. he shouldn't be scared off if u tell him oyu like him. its just in your nature to be scared and embarassed. hope i helped
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well.. i am totally in love with this kid.. we used to be friends, but that was only because he was like best friends with my cousin, and we hung out like every day.. he and my cousin dont talk anymore, and neither do we, but i see him every day in school, adn he gives me a smile, and to me, it seems like his eyes *twinkle* sappy, huh? well.. tell me, should i stop loving him because we dont talk, or does it matter?? please help! (link)
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well if you go out with him, your obligated to talk to him. and since you never get to talk to him it might be hard. so you might consider lovin sumbody else, unless you willing to fight for him.
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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
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no... it sholdn't but i might if you were looking forward to the kiss and if you like really wanted to do it. its not for me to say if you are or not. but on a dare its a no.
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I just had a really quick question. My boyfriend and I have done some.. hmm "stuff" and I was wondering- what kind of "stuff" is okay to do at 14? ( we haven't had sex ) - and I don't want answers like "do what you're confortable with," because I was very comfortable with what I did, I just want to know if it was right for what age I am. (link)
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you can do anything you want. it's all up to you. their is not limit. but there is social status. usually if you were to have sex and sumthin like that at yur age, people wouldn't think highly of you. hope i helped
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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high) (link)
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ok... all of the other people said the same thing... and i not goin to repeat them, but another idea is if you ever forget and if you didnt wanna write it down. call a friend that nos, u save paper, money, and time, kinda sorta. i hope i helped
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i am 18 and still a virgin! when i see people on tv having sex they make it look like it last forever.does it? i masturbate and the sensation only last about 10 seconds! so will it be like that when i have sex? (link)
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no. it will last longer cuase masturbating is different from the whole kissing, etc, you should no wat i'm sayin... and tv is very fictional. it's not like they're actually having sex. it just because the director is a pervert. lol hope i helped, i guess.
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all my friends have boyfriends.. and my best friend.. who ive been through everything with has ditched me for her boyfriend who i hate so much right now.. she doesnt talk to me when we go out cuz shes too busy slobering over him and its disgusting and it pisses me off more than you can ever know. sure my friends are good friends when their BOYFRIENDS arent around. i wa sjust ditched tonight.. my best friend had her boyfriend.. and my other friend had hers.. and i pretended to sleep on the couch while they humped eachother and shit. i cant take it.. someone just help me calm down and make me feel better (link)
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well think, is they really love eachother, its goin to happen that they wanna spend more time with the ones they love. i'm not sure if i'm really helpin, but i'm tryin to tell ya wats goin on. but i think that they should be allowed to love and spend time wit there bf's, but they sholdn't be dithcing you. i think you shold tell them how you feel. if they dont care about you, then you might consider new friends. i hope i was of service.
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ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!! (link)
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well dont u see eachother at skool or sumthing? i mean when ever you get the chance to talk to him and your parents aren't around, take advantage. or make plans to go sumwhere together and make it seem like your goin by yourself.
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i can't decide who i should trust and has my back. so what type of kids should i not trust? (link)
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ones that usually gossip way to much and cant keep secrets are the worst kinda friend to have when it comes to relying on them.
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