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i think a kid i know is gay
i think a kid i know is gay how can i tell if he is or not? he does everything a other guy does and he had a party and invited guys only? is he gay?
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In a nusthell, you can't tell unless he comes out to you and tells you. Somebody being 'camp' or effeminate does not mean they are gay. Inviting only male friends to a party similarly does not mean he's gay - he might be, but it might just be the case that he just prefers to hang out with guys. That's not unusual, and isn't really a reason to question his sexuality.
Unless he tells you, you can't really find out if he is or he isn't. You should however respect his right to tell you or not tell you about his sexuality if and when he's ready to. Being quizzed on his sexuality if he's not yet entirely comfortable with it will only make things harder for him so, for his sake, leave him be and just be ready to listen if he ever does want to come out to you.
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I wouldn't really say hes gay if he invited just guyz to his party... but if you really wanna know ask him.
hope i helped.
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well it depends. jsut because he has an all boy b-day party doesn't mean he's gay. it means that he didn't want any girls at his party. another thing is how he acts. gay guys usually are femine but not all of them are. if cant tell you if he is or not. but all i can say is watch how he acts in certain situations and see if he is. its your disicion to look upon.
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I'm tempted to ask why you care... but let's not go there. Now, evidently you're not about to do something direct like ask (and if you do, who knows if he'll tell the truth?), so my suggestion would be to wait and see. If at some point he a) comes out, or b) makes out with another guy, he's probably gay.
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