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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help!
Yes it might be a little weird to make a move while all of your friends are there, but if you two get some time alone, definetly go for it. Guy's think it's hot when girls make the first move.
Good luck!
Hey..me and this girl were like BFF's for like 6 years in a row. . we did everything together. . .shopped,secrets,stupid fights,nails and everything! but then i introduced her to this girl that i new because she was new to the school..now her and the new girl are best friends and they ignore me all of the time! what should i do?!
Tell her that it bothers you that she ignores you when shes hanging out with the other girl. Maybe she doesn't realize that she is doing it. If you talk to her about it and she still ignores you and stuff, find some other people to hang out with. But definetly talk to her. 6 years of friendship is alot to throw away without at least trying to work it out.
::marissa::
theres this boy that i like but he is a grade older but i really like him and i went out with him but he dumped me when he found out my age what should i do and how can i get him to like me?
One year isn't really a big age difference at all. Unless you lied to him about your age from the start, him finding out that you are younger is a silly reason for him to dump you, especially if he really likes you. You should talk to him, and find out how he feels about you. In a relationship where 2 people really care about each other, age doesn't matter.
::marissa::
dude?! my name is marissa too!? where do u live?
Hi! That's cool! I live in Florida.
Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?
Yes you can. And you can get STD's as well, so use protection.
::marissa::
me and my bf have been together for a long time now..the only stuff weve done is i gave him a handjob ONCE and that was it. im not a virgin and neither is he. i dont want to have sex with him though because i am so scared to get pregnant its too risky. lately hes been kinda like feeling up my shirt and trying to put his hand in my pants. i always stop him by making an excuse. i dont want to seem like a sissy though. hes done EVERYthing...n ive only done it once...i get nervous now i know he wont do nething till im not ready but i dont know how to tell him. i just get a weird feeling when he wants to do stuff im not ready yet...how do i tell him...=\
Tell him how you really feel. If he cares about you he will wait until you are ready.
::marissa::
My friend and I used to cut together. I don't anymore, but she does. And she rubs it in my face, and I get really annoyed by it. I tell her to "Piss off!" but she continues to do it. I don't care if she cuts or not, but it annoys me how she takes it as a joke (it wasn't a joke to me...). And honestly, she has NOTHING to cut over! She has the happiest FUCKING like of anyone I KNOW!!! What should I tell her? What should I do to change the situation?
You never know, she could have problems that you don't know about. In this situation though it does seem like she's doing it for attention. Threaten to tell on her, I bet she wont think that its so funny then. And as for rubbing it in your face, does she really expect you to be jealous that she is scarring her body?? Your friend needs help.
i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed
Nothing... except GO TO THE DOCTOR. If you don't get medical attention now, your arm could be messed up forever.
What would you do if your boyfriend that you really like hates your best friend, and he cursed her out for no apparent reason? What would you do? This is my situation. please help. I will rate!
There has to be some reason for him not to like her, you can't just hate someone for no reason. If he does that is pretty stupid and selfish. If he has any respect or cares about being with you at all he will have to learn to tolerate your friend. If he's going to be a jerk about it, I would say dump him. You don't need a guy like that. Chicks before dicks.
::marissa::
There is a guy I like and he doesn't show any interest in girls, or talks about any other girls. There is a suspicion of him being gay by his friends and roommate. But just recently he's hanging out with girls that like him, and he knows they like him, and it kinda shows that he has an interest in them, but I don't know what to think about the situation. I don't know how to see or find out if he really is gay. What should I do?
You could just ask him if he is interested in anyone. Or, you could get you.. or if u don't want to, one of your friends to make a move on him and see what he does. You could also just ask him outright if he is gay, but be careful because he might get offended.
::marissa::
Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much
It is an unlikely possibility that you are pregannt since you used a condom and it didn't breat... but condoms aren't 100% effective . Your period could be late for a number of reasons, and only by a week isn't too bad unless your period is always very regular. Perosnally, I would give it another week or so before I got really worried. But if it makes you feel better just go and pick up one of those pregnancy tests and then you will know for sure.
::marissa::
Does anyone know of any good blush that stays on all day without having to reapply it all the time? Or does anyone know how to get regular blush to stay on all day? Like putting lotion on ur face first or something?
You could try using a creme blush or something. I think its maybelline that makes a good one. It would not wear off as much as powder would. Just be careful to blend it in well when you apply it. good luck
::marissa::
I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.
Tell them that you're cold. See if you can wear a long sleeved shirt under your gym shirt.. or maybe a sweat shirt over top. It would be really stupid for them to not allow that! If you can try putting some make-up on your arms. Since you gym class doesnt start until January there is still some time for the scars to fade away unless you keep cutting. Go to the drug store and get some of the scar removal stuff... it may not make them go away completely but it will make them WAY less noticible. And I know this is way easier said than done.. but sweetie please try to stop cutting. Good luck, and if u need anything else.. leave one in the inbox
::marissa::
Hey, im 5'4" and 130ish, I'd like to loose some weight. Any special excersize that works really well?
thanks
Running or jumping rope are the best ways to burn calories and lose fat. Pilaties is really good for toning your muscles up after you get rid of the weight. Also eat healthy and get enough sleep. good luck
:marissa::
Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?
Don't worry about lashing out. You have every right to! She's STEALING your picture and that's pretty much identity theft -- which is illegal! Talk to her about it before it gets out of hand.
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hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??
I'm sure your freckles don't look bad! But, if you really want to cover them up you could try using a hypo-allergenic brand of make-up such as Almay or Marcelle, which would be less likely to cause your skin to break out. You could use the cream to powder finish cover up, or a liquid foundation. Either one would work.
::marissa::
ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!
He wants you to call him!!
::marissa::
I have a few questions about getting shiney hair.
1. Does icy cold water really help make your hair shiney?
2. Are there any other techniques that help make your hair shiney?
3. What are some good products?
Thanks..I rate high!
Well I don't know about the cold water thing, but i think that just washing it in warm water and using a deep conditioner would work. If you want it extra shiny just go out and buy a finishing spray that you can spritz on it when you're done styling.
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I have this piece of hair that won't lay down on my head. I have this hair style where you twist your hair and use a claw to clamp it 2gether. this one piece won't lay down w/ gel or water or my perm junk please help i'll rate high (except for Snake Eyes) SO DON"T ANSWER SNAKEYES
Spray the spot that wont lay down with hairspray from an areosol can like Salon Selectives aerosol finishing spray. Then get a blowdryer and blow the hair in the direction that you want it to sit. This should help it stay flat.
::marissa::
ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks!
Get her to take a pergnancy test.. its as simple as that. And if the test comes back showing that she is not pregnant than her symptoms may require further medical attention and she should see a doctor. It could possibly just be side effects from the meds.. or something more serious than that.
::marissa::