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hey everyone, Carrie here & - i`m back! sorry i was gone for so long, dealing with buisness and whatnot but i`m back soo anything you need or want to know i`m here to answer! if you wish to keep it private let me know in an email with your AIM sn (if you have one) and i will be IM`ing you shortly

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hi! Do u also have the problem that your hair tie/scrunchie slides out? Tell me! I getting sick of it! please help! X'O

Oh yeah that used to happen to me all the time, try using a thicker hair tie and looping it about three times around your hair. that should do it. let me know if it doesnt work and ill give you more suggestions. hope i helped!!

xO.Carrie

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hi im 26 years old male and have had sex several times from the age of 15. now my problem is that i dont get a steady and rigid errection. if also it happens my penis falls back. what could be the problem. please suggest some good idea to mattain and maintain a rigid errection.

maybe it's because you sleep around too much and dont maintain a steady relationship. heres my best bet - first get tested. then wait a while before having sex with every girl you see. find the right one. hold on to her. DONT CHEAT ON HER. wait until shes ready. and once you have all of that believe me she'll seem so beautiful to you, you wont have a problem with gettin the ol` pet iguana up =]

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My boyfriend just asked me if it was alright for him to spend the night at his best friend's house. His four best friends are girls. there's gonna be two other guys, but I still don't really like the outlook on it; he's gonna be all night with 5-6 other girls.

is this dumb of me?

Thats absolutly rediculouse. That is so wrong of him. You should be really upset with him because in a relationship that is morally wrong. Take my advice please and talk to him. Ask him how he would feel if you were in the same position and if he says he wouldnt care then im sorry hunny theres other fish in the sea so drop the jackass. Hope I helped. Take it from someone whos been cheated on with 25 girls. DONT TRUST THEM

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i like this girl and we have been bf and gf before we talk 2 each other each day should i ask her out again

if you like her and you know its what you really want then yes.

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OooooK....
Im 15 and i've never been kissed. I dont really know what to do. I am always afraid that I'll panic(which i do often) and miss. Are there any tips on kissing that anyone could give me? THANKS!
I RATE HIGH!
~*~madyson~*~

Really theres nothing to be worried about. In my opinion .. its hard to "suck" at kissing. So if you just wait for the right moment and time and feel comfrotable with that speical person you should be just fine. hope i helped!

xO.Carrie

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Is a 4 inch penis noraml for a 17 year old boy?

Not usually. An average size penis on a developed teenager starting at the age of 15, in my own opinion of course would probablly be 6inches, being the smallest.

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i just movied from new york city to connecticut and i misss a boy named Jhon that i had crush on, and i cant 4get about him. what should i do?
- confuised

try getting him off your mind and flirt with new guys. short but to the point! good luck!

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Well- My boyfriend and I have been dating a few weeks now, and i was needing some help. he was talking about this the other week- he wants to make out.. i'm 14 f. What should I do? He would be my first one? what if I mess up? does anyone know and techiques to help the guy get into it? what do i do to make him know i'm into it.. i'm scared.. ugh please help.

nothing you shouldbe carrying over your shoulders. i think you should just relax and go with the flow - there isnt a wrong or right way of kissing. first kisses are indeed scary but once you`ve done it you think to yourself - that wasnt bad at all. like i said go with the flow. good luck.

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There's a dance coming up at my school. My boyfriend is in a lower grade then me and he can't go. But My Mom is trying to get me to ask my best-guy friend to go with me. I dont Know If I should. Help please?

I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about it first and if he says go for it, i`d say GO FOR IT! have yourself a great time with your best guy friend!

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I bought a house back in Oct. 2004. When we were moving in, we noticed that there were still things from the previous owners. They said that they had a few things to take out of the house at closing. They also had said that there was a large pile of brush and other trash items in the back yard that were going to be picked up later that day. This did not happen. They are now telling us that they don't have to clean it up and that it is our responsibility. The problem is that in our area we have to pay for someone to come and pick up that stuff, or pay to drop it off at the landfill.
Whose responsibility is it? Thanks!

Obviously theirs if they said they were going to clear it out in the first place, but it could possibly be yours since you bought the place before they took it. I suggest you consult a lawyer and see wether or not its worth taking it to court and if that doesnt work try a controlled fire to get rid of it? Good Luck!

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I broke up with my girlfriend last summer and i cant let go of her. I dont know what to do but I love her and i dont know what to do. HELP!

Letting someone go isn`t easy and their usually isnt a time frame on letting them leave your heart - but i suggest you follow your heart, if you truley still love her then find a way to get back with her slowly. If not think of other things to keep you busy so you wont think of her or go out with friends more. Spending quality time with friends really helped me get over my EX. Good Luck!

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i was wondering if y'all could suggest what you find to be the best face cleaner to get rid of zits. i use oxy but it doesn't work as well as i want it to. thanks so much!!

Clearasil Face Wash, and St. Ive`s cream moisterisure when im done to keep it from becomming dry and make it nice and soft =]

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Hi,
My baby rabbit just died from a heart problem :'( We knew she was gonna die because she was very ill, but we got her anyway because we wanted to give her the best life we could because we knew it would be short!! So, we got another rabbit with her. Now our baby rabbit has died, the other is soo lonley!! My mum wants another rabbit to keep her company but I'm not sure, I don't think I'm ready to have another one in her place just like that. Am I being selfish by not wanting another rabbit even though the other one is lonley? What should I do?

I know getting another animal right away may seem selfish - i sure thought it would be when my cat died. But knowing in your heart that no animal will ever replace her is the most important thing you can repeat to yourself while getting another pet. It`s really up to you when your ready to get another one and no your not selfish. Things take time but like i said - keep repeating that nothing will ever take her place. Good Luck.

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My friend that i have known for a long time has just revealed to me that he is gay. I love him to death. What should i do ??

If your his true friend - find a way to accept it and let him know you accept it and your there for him 100%

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my best friends sit next to each other in social studies and english and they've been cheating on each other and nnow my whole class is cheating except for me and a few other people... and i don't know if i should tell some one because i want them to stop... because i don't want them to get caught and i just want them to be ok and stuff so what should i do?

I think you should let them know that cheating is bad and if they dont listen to you just ignore it. They`re not learning anything and you are and it`ll catch up to them. They`ll realize their mistake on there own. I dont think ratting on them would be a good idea for the most part. But i wanna say good effort for not cheating yourself.

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My dog is a sweet Fullblooded boxer. The problem is she wont stop bitting my feet and when I walk she pulls on my pants.She is about 7 mounths, WHAT SHOULD I DO

Well i`m currently attending dog training classes for my puppy ( austrailian kelpie, really cute ) and the trainer told me that what they want is attension so when she is biting at your feet ignore her and if that doesnt work scold her until she`s sitting then give her lots of praise and if that doesnt work then put her in a crate and let her out in like 5 min if shes not barking and if she is barking and whining leave her in there until shes done. Good Luck!! Puppies are hard work!!

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last nite i put another peircing in my ears above the one in the lobe so its just 2 pericings and i think i did it wrong. when i touch it its rely tender and it hurts and theres a weird lumpish kinda thing when i press it a little with my index finger in front and thumb in back, and i think this might be because i didnt sterlize anything and they were cheap earings, but i got other pericings profesionaly done like 5 years ago and theres been a little ball circle thing i can feel ever since, is that even normal?well i took my new peicing on the left side out because i did it crooked but i dont know what to do because it seems like my OLD hole hurts more but i dont know why it would..and my other new peircing on the right side hurts a real lot. ive cleaned them out with peroxide so the only earing thats in is an earring in my New hole on the RIght side because i dont wanna take it out because i want to keep the hole! please someone help i dont know whats wrong! i ratehigh!

The bumps and everything are completly normal - i have 10 piercings on my ears and did half of them by myself. The little bumps stay but go away after a while and it usually takes a long time but you just have to remember to clean it a lot. And as far as the tenderness goes, thats just because its a new hole in your ear and your ear is feeling a lot of pressure so it becomes soar and thats what creates the bumps. You`ll be fine, just make sure to clean it with ear care products and to be on the extra safe side like what i do since we have self-pirced piercings also use rubbing alcohoul - it really helps. Hope I helped!

- RE: well if it still hurt`s i suggest ice, and dont sleep on it for a while because thats what makes it really soar GL!

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how can i motivate myself to workout more? i really need to get in shape for softball and basketball coming up. also, can anyone give me some exercises i should do to get in shape? like the name of them and a very brief, yet detailed explanation...i will rate those who answer honestly. and please dont delete this question!

I dont really know what your drive would be on getting you to work out more - i just enjoy working out thats my motive but good work out consists of running a lot. Running really helps you stay in shape. Also stretching before you run so you dont hurt yourself. I also like to do push ups and sit ups after i run - 3 sets of 20 of each of them. It really helped me get in shape. Good Luck!

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13/f -- I am really scared because recentyl i was dared by my friends to go to porn websites on my compter ..But i deleted my history right after -- then i read something about people going to jail and i was wondering can you go to jail for looking at internet porn? I promise myself i will never do it again and i know it was really wrong but i dont want to go to jail!! And im crying im so scared ..what do i do?

Good Lord, nothing worth getting worked up about. You`ll only go to jail if you hook up with someone from the site or if its porn of children. No worries.

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for my school i have to like read lots of books. Does anyone know of any teen books that are good, but not to to long?

Go Ask Alice
Speak
Echo
Born Blue

all really good books.

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