Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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I am getting married and I would love to start to looking for my ideal wedding dress. I want something with a long train, very sequenced, and just extravegent. Nothing funky, preferrably as little of color as possible.
Please help me with my search as to find a good website. (link)
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Picking out your wedding dress can be a lot of work to find the perfect one! It took me almost 4 months lol. Websites are hard to tell because if you fall in love with one then buy it online and cant try it on, it might not look good on you. Then what do you do, my advice go to your local bridal shop and most places you can make an app. and they will help you find the perfect dress that is what you want and will look great too!
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Hai,
My name is lina, i just newly married last year Aug, one year ready. Ihave not consive yet, when i checked with my doctor, they took my blood test together with my husband, my test all normal ,but my husband has very poor sperm quality.
They ask me to do some procedure which will cost 17K ICSI. We can't effort.
Kindly advise whether my husband can take any tablets or traditional way to make sperm active.
Thank you. (link)
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Im, very sorry to hear that, you may want to see if there is a supplement or something out there, Im not sure what you can do because I am assuming you do not live in the US because I am not sure what ICSI is. You may want to talk with another doctor and get another oppinion on it, and talk about your other options, if there is nothing else you can do you might want to consider looking to adopt, those children always need parents too :) Again, Im sorry I cant help very much and sorry for your husband I hope you can find something.
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okay, well its kinda like this im sixteen and i dont even know how to feel or were to get advice but last month i was late for my period and i thought i was pregnant and i wasnt and again this month im late and iv been having sex with my amazing boyfriend but i dont think i need to take a test or anyything but for next month i ffear cause i know he ejected in me a few times and he has a daughter already help? (link)
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Well you need to get a test because you could be it is very possible. He needs to always be wearing a condom, I hope he's not over 18 because if he is that could cause a lot of problems. Stress can make your period come late so try and not think about it and calm down, the only way you can stop worrying is if you get a test and find out, if you are taking a store bought test but atleast 2 because they are not always as accurate, if you want a secret way to get a where yout parents wont find out go to your local pregnancy center like planned parenthood and if you arent they can get you on birthcontrol. also if you are not on any type of pill I can not stress that you get on one any more, if you dont want your parents to know you are having sex, you can always say I have really bad cramps and im not very regular and talk to the dr about getting you on it, because freaking out every month is not fun, if you are pregnant come talk to me because you will need all the help you can get, take care sweetie and please be careful!
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Well i go out alot and i usually go with a guy..
but for some reason i usually always end up paying for the guy and myself.. and i don't mind sometimes but all the time..? or just myself ..
i geuss it depends on the guy i choose but you as a girls.. does your man or "guy friend" pay for you or you pay for yourself? (link)
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i don't see any reason why you should be paying those are some jerks. When I go out with my husband he always pays even though its both of our money, and if I go out to dinner with a friend thats a guy he pays, even when my own brother takes me out he pays, so I think you should put your foot down and make them pay, don't give them the option.... so if you are asking oh do you want me to pay thats part of your problem.
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I'm a female & 15.
I wanna try to tease my boyfriend and get him hard, but I don't really seem to know what to do. I have given him a lapdance before and I could feel his hard penis on my ass as I was giving him a lapdance but I don't feel like giving him another one :). I also play with his jeans close to where his penis is but I'm not completely sure if he's turned on or not.
Well, my question is, what can I do to turn him on and get him hard without oral or actual sex.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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First off I have to say be careful teasing him if you don't want to have any type of sex, but kissing him on the neck and possibly bighting him gently some while rubbing your hands up and down his back... Also you could always play the what if game that usually gets them going... But it depends on the guy talk to him and see what he likes.
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do guys not liek it when ur silent during sex?or do they prefer you to be loud? (link)
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Obviously if someone is around you are not going to be making loud noises, but if someone is around you can always make quieter soft moans, but most guys do like to hear you make noise because it makes them feel like that are doing their job, and it will turn them on more.
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What are some hot sexy things I could whisper to my boyfriend when fooling around in the goal to turn him on and make him wanttt me? (link)
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Most guys, think that you being straight foreward with them is sexy like I know that with my hubby that if I walk up to him and am like guess what baby? Im really turned on. Things like that....you could always ask your guy what he likes best, because if you cant talk about it why should you be doing it? But thats how I found out what my man likes was by asking him.
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i need advice from experienced horse trainers or from people experienced with horses. iam 15/f/usa. i have an appendix quarter horse. I show him english/hunt seat. I want his headset to be lower and look relaxed. I use a martingale to train him for his head. But when I show him in shows, he keeps his head up, because he's more intrested in the surroundings and enviornment. He's a pretty good listener. He is 8years old, 16hh. I need some help with his headset. I would also like to show western, but he can't neckreign too well. He can a little bit, but not too much. Any advice on that too? Oh and one more thing. My horse never stands still! He's a pain to give a bath to, he dances all over the place, moves his head, he's a pain to braid his hair and he moves his head around all the time and he moves when i saddle him too. Any suggestions to any of those? Please? My horse isn't the nice calm quarter horse that puts his head down and relaxes. He's a little more tempermental...cause of the throughbred blood. I never place in a pleasure class, cause he won't put his head down low enough, and if I ask for a lower headset, I have to lower the reigns..which doesn't make it look pleasureable, and his head comes back up. Please help me! He has also had 2 months of hunter training! (link)
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Has he had 2 months professional training???? If he has he should not be having this many problems. Before I start remeber different trainers have different ways of training and the person who originally started training this horse and the way you ride may be different than what I am telling you to do. Also do you go to a person to help with your riding around you? That could help.
1st question was about keeping his head down. When you are home working with him try and what I call sea-saw him, use two hands on your reign and move them back and forth until he lowers his head then let loose ride normal until he brings his head back up than repeat that. After a while he should quite testing you. (When you are riding a horse they will test you to see what all they can get away with, you have to be in control and show them who is boss!) Also when you are showing him when you know you are behind the judge assuming there is only one judge work him to make him drop his head and then as soon as you get close to a judges veiw do not do this because then you get points off for correcting your horse in ring. When you are showing him make sure you get there with plenty of time to get him out and ridden by the area you are showing in, try and go out and stand with him by the ring for about 10 min prior to going in the ring, do not rush and try and stay calm when you are nervous he will pick up on that and he will then get nervous.
As for showing him in western remember the western saddle is completly different and is much more heavy! Same drill with keeping his head down for western with the reigns. I do not know how fermiliar you are with western tack but there are things called tie downs and you can adjust them to how tight you want them to be but it will not allow the horse to put his head up all the way, only use this at home it will make him more comfertable with keeping his head down. For teh neck reinging he will get better with it with practice sence you are one handed in western pleasure you can lightly bump with one finger on the reign in which way you have to turn him or move him. Also use LEG PRESSURE!!! I cannot stress this enough if you are asking him to turn right squeeze him and use leg pressure with your outside leg this will help him to get the hang of it. Also you may want to try a stronger bit while teaching him to neck reign but remember when useing a stronger bit you have to be a bit lighter in his mouth. Also when he is just standing places when you are with him like when you are leading him around if his head is up bring it down by tapping him inbetween the ears and tugging down on your lead rope, keeping his head down whenever you are working with him will teach him that no matter what you are doing when you are with him, working him it is time to work not play time like out in a pasture.
Most horses will dance around during baths if they are not in say a wash stall because they are in an open space and well the water feels good theres not much you can do there, just ask someone to hold him while you wash him and they can correct him instead of tying him up if you do. The more baths he gets the calmer he should get. One thing I find very helpful while braiding is tying them up and putting a hay bag infront of them it keeps them busy and there mind off of what you are doing! So when he moves around when you are saddeling this gets annoying I know but it helps, if they want to move around while you tighten there girth and things like this then you can stand there let him dance till he stands still start working on it again he starts dancinhg stop let him move until he stands still, also if he moves on you when you are trying to get on him like if he circles let him circl after a while he is going to give in and stand there like he should, dont let him get away with moving while mounting it is not safe a couple steps isnt bad though. I have seen many quarter horses that are not calm lol, some are some arent they all have there own personality! But something you may want to consider would be to try giving him a suppliment called quietex it is an all natural calming suppliment and will help him become more of a quiet horse it comes in a powder you can add to his feed once a day, also they have it in a paste form that you can give him prior to showing him to make him more relaxed. I think I have covered everything you asked hope this helps, feel free to ask any more questions!
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me and my boyfriend have had sex like 5 times and i havent told my mom but she wants to take me to the gyno just to get on birth controll. if ur under the age of 18 do the gynos tell your parents if ur not a virgin? (link)
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No they are not allowed to tell them if you ask them not too. They can only share things with your parents that are harmful to you. If they were to tell one of your parents they can get in a lot of trouble because there are certain rules and things that they have to follow as a doctor.
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My parents are divorced and my mum is remarried, my stepdad recently said some terrible things to be. What happened was; my mum and stepdad had an argument, when my mum went upstairs she left me and my brother in the firing line of his anger. I have recently seen a councellour for other reasons, and he said some hurtful things like; Everything that ever goes wrong in this family is your (me and my brothers) fault, then everytime your mum gets upset its your(me) fault! and "councelling at your age" Deal with it!"
Know I can't even look him in the eye and I got really upset at school yesterday and It is really getting to me, I want some advice on how to get over it. Thanks for your time! (link)
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If you are still seeing your counsler than you might want to talk to them about it they may be able to help you as well. Have you talked to your mom? I think that would be the first major step in resloving this maybe like sit down and talk to her when your stepdad is not around, then later the three of you sit down and talk about it. Nothing is ever solly one persons fault, do not let the things he has said to you hurt your self condfidence or anything like that. Also if these things are only being said in an argument than he most likley doesn't mean it.... he is just saying it because he is angry. Just remember to respect him because your mom loves him, and you do not have to like him but you need to try and give him a chance.
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sorry for the wrong category.
i have a tmobile sidekick slide.. now, i know tmobile keeps the records of the txts you send and pictures, but i have a question. lets say my mom decides to interfere with my phone. can tmobile foward my calls to her phone, my txt msgs, and everything WITHOUT me manually setting it up from my phone, just them in their system? thanks in advance! (link)
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Im not sure about directly to her phone, but I know with most phone companies you can read the sent texts from your phone and see all pictures that are on the phone online, if there is an account that your mom may have. Im not sure about the calls because that is a private thing and they are never saved onto your phone it is just a connection.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 yrs. And he has never acted this strange. Lately he has been very mean and he hasn't been thinking about my feelings. This morning he started being nice to me again and that lead to sex.. After that he was being a total jerk. I talked to him about it and said that it bothered me and it felt like he has been using me. He then yelled at me and said "It's because....NEVERMIND!" I asked him what he was going to say and he just said forget about it i'll talk to you when i get off of work (which is in 12 hours). He then walked out of the house and slammed the door. He turned off his phone too. I just don't know what to do because now in this relationship anything he says goes. I feel like i don't have a say in anything anymore. I feel really used and i also feel like he doesn't trust me and i haven't done anything to destroy that trust. One time he accused me of cheating on him because i felt "loose". When i have been sooo loyal to him. And it hurts my feelings when he says that because i haven't done anything wrong. I really don't know what to do to prove to him that i'm not cheating. I'm also really frustrated b/c i feel like i need to talk to him now and work things out. But it's so easy for him to just ignore me. At the end of all our fights i'm always the one apologizing, even when i didn't do anything wrong. What should i do? (link)
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You have got to try and get out of him what is bothering him.... he could be very worried about something and that could be making him depressed, and down. But if you cant get it out of him and he doesn't want to talk about it then you need to talk about your relationship, it is not fair for you to have to live like this and not have a say and be hurting all the time because of the way he is treating you! Trust is a very important thing in a relationship if neither of you can trust one another than what is the point in trusting in your relationship to be a very stable secure one in the future? Maybe the two of you are growing apart and he knows it and that is how he is fdealing with trying to seperate his feelings for you. Think about where you are in life, what is good about him, and even what is bad about him, picture your life without him would it be better or worse? Question your relationship but only do it in your head and the things you think of please do not say to him in an argument that could end up bad, but you two need to work it out and build you trust with each other and communication because that is very important as well! Good luck if you need anything feel free to drop one in the inbox!
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almost 16/f please read whole thing before answering:
I have only had boyfriends. I have had many times. I don't find men attractive. I think they usually have something about their faces that make them unattractive. I look at s a lot more than I look at boys. I love the feeling of a man's arms around me and I like to cuddle with them and stuff. BUT: I don't enjoy it doesn't do anything for me and I giving head/handjobs and stuff. Male genitals do not turn me on at all. I would much rather m@sturbate with my vibe. I also like being eaten out.
As a young child I was only attracted to men. At age 12/13 I started to notice s and I would develop crushes on them. By the time I hit 15 i was completely turned on by the idea of s3x with a woman. That is what i think about when i m@st. Does this make me bis3xual? (link)
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You could be bisexual, and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Or it could be what turns you one most... maybe you should try and get with some girls and experience what its like to be a lesbian, and then see which you prefer. If you like the touch of a women better you might be just a lesbian, or if you acctually get with a woman and do not like the experience and just like fantasizing then you are probally just straight, and then also if you are enjoying both then you are most likely bisexual!
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I have been studying for many years on the subject of the effects of diet and health. About 1 year ago I decided to do a website to help any one who had a need or desire to be healthier. I have found tons of facts that absolutely prove a poor diet will make you sick in some way. The problem is to this day my site is rarely visited, I have found great cook books that deal with healthy living and great organic products. Why is it that no one is interested in this info. I can tell my home page is clicked but not many stay long enough to actually find out what my site is about. Don't sick and anemic people actually want help? www.healthfix4life.com (link)
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It could just be that not many people have heard about your website. When people search for information on the internet through places like google what may match with your website may match on some other major website provider like mayo clinic and things like that so larger more visited websites will show up first on searches and people might find the information they are looking for before clicking and scrolling all the way down to your page... Some pointers may be that you might want to make sure it is being updated often, there are no spelling and grammer mistakes.... Is it an easy to use website? Have you tried re-designing it to make it more interesting to look at? Is there a section for people to leave feedback? And remember if you think it is easy to get around, not everyone thinks alike! I really do not think it is a problem with lack of wanting info but people are faster moving to look at other sites first. Hope this helps!
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15/f
Alright, well i am going out of town tonight and the guy that i am "talking" to since monday has called me but i havent had a chance to answer and i will be busy at night for a whole week on vacation and thats when he usually calls. I don't want to talk to him in front of anybody cuz i havent talked to him on the phone yet so i don't know what to do because i will be gone for a whole week and if i dont get to talk to him, he might think i dont like him. So what do i do? Any help asap would be great! (link)
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I think you should tell him before you leave, that you are going to be gone and that you might not have service on your phone so you might not answer and things like that..... or you could always answer when you are gone then go into the bathroom or go for a walk to talk to him, as long as your parents would allow you too. But I think you need to tell him you are going to be gone so you might not answer, or even you could ask him to wait a week to call.
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is it just me or has facebook been acting strange these last couple days? like yesterday they said they were doing maintenance, and when i went on today, i couldn't even get to the actual site! it said:
The page isn't redirecting properly
Firefox has detected that the server is redirecting the request for this address in a way that will never complete.
... does anyone know when facebook will be up again? (link)
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Same here, there probally trying to fix a small problem and it should be back up soon, just hang tight and wait it out! But I have been having problems too so its not just you:)
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i love horses but its impossible for me to get one, do you have any advice for how i might be able to get one? (link)
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well I am not sure why you can't have a horse, but if money is a problem than you can look into a lease, there are half leases and full leases.
Full leases are usually where you can take the horse to your own barn/ and or property, and you are in charge of paying all fees, vet bills, farrier, feed, or anything else that comes up. Most leases are for a year and at the end of the year you have the option to buy.
Half leases do not take as much responsibility. These leases are where you basically get the horse and you pay your monthly fee's and the horse stays at the owners property, and they will do vet bills, farrier, and all the fee's taken in owning a horse. Usually these horses have a higher monthly price. But then the only responsibility you have is riding and grooming. (Alot of times riding lessons can be offered for either lease) Im not sure how old you are but you could also get a job and pay for part of the monthly fee if you work something out with your parents. Some barns will hire you to clean stalls in exchange for a lease of a horse, but those can be tricky because you have to work enough hours and scheduals are very important in these, some owners are not very flexible! You might also consider just taking lessons and useing a horse from the barn you take lessons at, most times you then have the same responsibilities as you do in a half lease. If you want to give me your circumstances you are under Im sure I can come up with something to help you out!!! Good luck!
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my friend was telling me about her and her boyfriend "doing it" and she was talking about who did the work - what does she mean? what work is to be done? what do you do during sex anyway? im not ready for it or anything. i was just wondering. i mean, how are you supposed to move? (link)
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What they ment by who was doing the work, can also be known as who was in control. This means that the person usually ontop or the one thrusting, or the person doing the most movement is the one working. In many cases the man does do most the work, but it can also be the woman and it can flip throught having sex. There is a lot of work that can be done, it takes a lot of energy.There are different way to move according to the different positions, it just comes to you when you are ready and start having sex.... your body just kind of takes control, follow your instinct.
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when people say something like how long a guy lasted what does that meen?
and also what does it meen when a girl tells you that they couldnt have sex because he couldnt get hard , cause my friend was telling me oh yeah we tried having sex but he couldnt get hard so we didnt (link)
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Well in most cases how long a guy lasts is usually how long that he kept the erection or (stayed hard)
What your friend is saying is that he couldn't get an erection (couldn't get hard) In order to have sex the guy has to have an erection, if a guy does not get an erection there can be several reasons why he couldn't.... some are simple like he just wasn't in the mood enough or some can be unknown until visiting a doctor.
*Also Im not sure of how old you are, but considereing the questions you asked Im pretty sure you are younger, but in my oppinion, your friend probally shouldn't be having sex or attempting too.... Maybe if you are close enough you should talk to her and tell her that she should wait until she is older and in a more stable relationship.... warn her about things like getting pregnant, and STD's and STI's. But if she insists on having sex, then you might consider making sure she remembers to be safe!!! She may not like it now but she will appriciate it later in life! Sorry that dosen't go along with your questions but it kind of conserned me.
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i got fingered by my loving boyfriend and we both had total consent but i feel guilty and so does he a slight bit, but we both loved it. what do i do to feel better and im feel more guilty than he does.
but what can he do also ? (link)
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Well, it depends why you feel guilty I guess, if it's because of religion or something you can always ask for forgivness....If it's not than you just have to learn to forgive yourself, and tell yourself that it was ok and nothing is going to happen because of it. It is enjoyable but if the enjoyment only last during then it is probally a sign that you are not ready to take your relationship to this level, and keep working together to build a stronger relationship, but if you have guilt than there is no reason to continue doing this because the more you do it the more guilty you will feel.
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