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Parents Divorced! Remarried Mum! Stepdad troubles!
My parents are divorced and my mum is remarried, my stepdad recently said some terrible things to be. What happened was; my mum and stepdad had an argument, when my mum went upstairs she left me and my brother in the firing line of his anger. I have recently seen a councellour for other reasons, and he said some hurtful things like; Everything that ever goes wrong in this family is your (me and my brothers) fault, then everytime your mum gets upset its your(me) fault! and "councelling at your age" Deal with it!"
Know I can't even look him in the eye and I got really upset at school yesterday and It is really getting to me, I want some advice on how to get over it. Thanks for your time!
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im going through something similar with my step dad, what i do to get over it is just go take a walk and listen to music. Also talk to your mom and tell her and see if she can talk to him about it..every time my step dad gets pissed off im the first person he yells and screams at, and i yell and scream back lol that gets rid of some of the anger but just tell him that he shouldnt be talking to you like that and tell your councilor
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If you are still seeing your counsler than you might want to talk to them about it they may be able to help you as well. Have you talked to your mom? I think that would be the first major step in resloving this maybe like sit down and talk to her when your stepdad is not around, then later the three of you sit down and talk about it. Nothing is ever solly one persons fault, do not let the things he has said to you hurt your self condfidence or anything like that. Also if these things are only being said in an argument than he most likley doesn't mean it.... he is just saying it because he is angry. Just remember to respect him because your mom loves him, and you do not have to like him but you need to try and give him a chance.
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