me and my boyfriend have been going out since march
and hes in college and im still in highschool. yeah i know its stupid and no one stays together when they go to college. but theres just something different about us. whenever were together its perfect. but lately we barely talk. and its just like boring. and im ALWAYS the one who has to text him. and like he just doesnt seem like interested in me. but then he will tell me he loves me and stuff. and ill like try to talk about us and like stuff and he will just get mad. i was like you really dont seem like you wanna be with me anymore and hes like i do and if you ask that one more time then we are through. hes been a complete dick to me lately and im scared if i do say the wrong thing he is gonna leave me. i just talked to him right now since yesterday and hes like whats wrng and im like i miss you. and hes like if you did you have texted me sometime throughout the day. and im like sorry. i took a nap when i got home from school and just woke up cause i didnt feel good. and hes like ok. and then hes like im studying ill talk to you later. and it makes me soo mad cause hes always "studying" so im just like you dont wanna be with anymore i know you dont. i cry everyday. we never tlak anymore and nothings the same so just tell me. and he didnt text me back. i really fell for him and i hate that i did. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. but i know hes not like that. he doesnt party and i really dont think he would cheat on me.
i dont know waht to do. i try talking about it but it doesnt get anywhere.
i need something to say to him because lately its been getting to me. and i dont let things get to me and i really fell for him.hellllp!
ok
well look
talkin to him is gonna be hard and i know that.
and you gotta stop assuming things. saying things like no one stays together when they go to college. and i know when people go to college they always cheat on there girlfreinds and boyfriends. not everyones like that. and i know it isnt all that great that he doesnt like talkin to you about yalls relationship. but honestly im like that to. i guess he likes the fact that he doesnt have to be with you 24/7 but yet your always there for him. but then again if its hurting you than all you CAN do is talk to him about it. i know its hard. but you have to. tell him tha you love him and that its hurting you that you dont get to see him that much anymore.
and if he dont wanna listen, and its REALLY hurting you. than you have to move on to someone that WANTS to be with you. i know its gonna hurt like crap. and i know you wont forget about hm easily. but love doesnt hurt. and when it hurts it aint love. i wish you luck and i just hope you give him a chance to tell his side of the story
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basically, i know im pretty, but i just dont see myself as anything great? i dont think im ugly, i just think im... cute. but nothing lyk great even though everyone always tells me im gorgeous. i need help with my confidence? because sometimes i meet boys that i never thought would be interested in me, and then i find out that they actually were they were just intimidated or thought i was stuck up because im scared to talk or be myself around people. i always think people dont like me. any advice on helping build my confidence or helping me be ME around people?!
ok well
i know what you mean.
and honestly im batteling the SAME thing
and what you do is
fake it till you make it.
tell yourself good things about yourself.
and dont let anybody break you.
and dont EVER try to break yourself.
and just relax around people.
you want to hang out with people who like you for you..right?
so just relax. dont worry bout what anyone else thanks. and if your positive around yourself. other people will be positive toward you i promise =]
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So here's the situation I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and ever since we first met it was clear we both like each other and like we kissed before and tried dating but it just didn't really work out. Now we're just friends and its working really well except there's still like tension between us because its clear we still like each other. I was thinking we could be like friends with benefits and stay just friends but then like if we get the urge to kiss each other or fool around thats fine and theres no commitments and no expectations which was the problem before. I don't really know if this will work out though and I'm afraid of telling him my idea and how he might react to it....
okay well i understand where your comming from.
and what i would do is just be friends with him at first. if yall kiss ok. and if yall fool around.. ok. but just be friends at first. and let one thing lead to another. dont move to fast. that scares guys off. dont have high expectations either. just take it slow and see what happens.
and yes you should tell him. yoiur never going to know anything inless you make that move
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seriously i know this is kinda wierd, but what turns guys on? like what do they look for in a girl? i actually have another question, what are some casual ways to flirt with a guy without being too noticeable? thanx
kk well 1st of all confidence is key i mean when you walk in a room keep your head up and dont look down the best way to flirt without being noticeable is eye contact.
hope i helped
taylor
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what are some good bands/songs.
i need some new music for my iPod.
i like rock/alternative/indie anything like that.
these are good bands to look at
: AC/DC
: p.o.d.
: saliva
: nonpoint
: 3 doors down
: nickelback
: godsmack
: guns 'n roses
: black sabbath
: korn
: bon jovi
: van halen
hope i helped
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I got a stomach virus on Friday. I already had to miss practice, a car wash, and religon. I really don't want to miss school. Pepdo isn't doing such a great job. Any way to feel better?
ok try 2 stay under lots of covers to sweat off tha fever ya know and dont get up lie down and drink alot of fluids ok
-taylor
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Prom is coming up, and my friend has been trying to convince me to go tanning with her. So i went today, and it was pretty okay. but when i got home i found a website saying all these risks about tanning and i'm not sure i should go again....
Do tanning beds really cause skin cancer and other skin diseases? are there safe ways to get a tan?
ok yesss its true ive went before and i went once because of that its b/c of the kind of lights they use but you will be fine if u dont go everyday and u onlii stay in for like 5 minutes ok
-taylor
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ok i have to wash my hair every day in the mornings when i get up to get ready because its oily and stinks. what can i do to keep my hair cleaner longer and not stink? i condition it and every thing and use a shampoo that doesnt make it oily. help! what can i do because i know its not good to wash your hair every day.
W3LL 0K LIST3N TRY USING A DiFF3R3NT SHAMPOO && CONDITIONER IT RLLY MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE TRUST ME!
-TAYLOR!
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ok so i'm 13 and well i guess i'm kinda interested in vibrators i mean i've never had one but i'm curious and i dont have anyone who could buy one for me and i really cant talk to my mom or friends about it so does anyone know how i could get one???
WEll ACTUALLY Y0U HAVE T0 BE 18 0R 0lDER T0 BUY 0NE.
i HAVE HAD A FRiEND WiTH THiS SAME QUESTi0N JUST T0 EXPEREMENT AND WE TAlKED T0 HER M0M AB0UT iT AND SHE SAiD THAT Y0U NEED T0 BE A 18 YEAR 0lD 0R 0lDER.
S0 THERE REAllY iSN'T ANYTHiNG Y0U CAN D0...UNlESS Y0U HAVE S0ME0NE THAT HAS 0NE AND Y0U CAN D0 WHAT EVER Y0U WERE G0iNG T0 D0.
THANKS F0R Y0UR QUESTi0N.
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u know how i asked what would look good with read converse well now i got a orange pair with gold stripes and i need to know what would look good with them
please give me a good answer
UMM i W0UlD WEAR AN 0RANGE 0R A WHiTE SHiRT && S0ME JEANS.
H0PE i HElPED.
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13/f
im so confused i mean i like this guy he likes me but my friend is mad cuz i like him but i mean i really like him is she jealous? but she says he is like her older brother o yea he is in 9th what if he cheats im so tired of getting hurt
please help me!
KK WiLL i THiNK YOU SHOULDNT CARE WHAT YOUR FRiEND WiLL SAY CAUSE iF HE iS LiKE HER BROTHER THAN iT SHOULDNT MATTER AND YEA SHE PROBABLY JELOUS. AND ABOUT HiM CHEATiNG ON YOU AND YOU ARE TiRED OF GETTiNG HURT WELL.... i DONT KNO THiS GUY AND i HAVE NO CLUE iF HE WOULD CHEAT ON YOU BUT THATS SOMETHiNG WE ALL GO THROUGH i MEAN WE ALL SOMETiMES GET HURT AND WE CANT STOP THAT. BUT i THiNK YOU SHOULD TRY iT i MEAN WHAT iS THE POiNT iN LiViNG LiFE iF YOUR 2 AFRAiD TO TAKE RiSK.
HOPE I HELPED
TAYLOR
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=/ sorry this tured out loner then i thought it would be.
Me and my [ex]bestfriend have known eachother for a 2 years now. A few months ago she started lieing alot and about things and i caught her in many of them. I hate fighting so i just let it go. On top of that she relys on all her boyfriend. She goes from one guy to the next to the next hanging out with them everyday never carring about me or anyone else. I was so agravated with her i would come home everyday and complain ahout how much i dont like her and all these things. So i relized then why be here friendd[even if that kinda harsh]. Cause im kinda being a bad friend to talking about her behind her back. So i stopped talking to her for a while. about 2 weeks she called me and we kinda had a talk and i basically told her what was happening and she asked if she changed then could we be friends still. I said maybe but i didnt want her to change just for me and i didnt think she would[she didnt]. Well now she is still all buddy budyy with me but i still dont like her. What should i do. I started writing a note to her to tell her about what i was thinking and what was happeneing cause she clearly didnt undterstand but is that stupid to do? Should i call her and tell her? or should i do something else.
kk will i think you should call her i mean i think if you want yalls friendship 2 work than you should tell her whats on your mind because whats the point in being friends if yall cant talk about things like this...
hope i helped
-TAYLOR-
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ok well i sort of have this problem of being 2 faced i mean i hae tons of friends and all of them dont get along. hey all r like my sisters. and like when emily would talk bad about jenny and tell me not to tell jenny i dont know what to do cause like if i do tell jenny that would be back stabbing emily but if i dont that would be 2 faced to jenny what should i do plz help!!!
JUST SAY T0 EMilY THAT SHE SH0UlDNT TAlk BAD AB0UT JENNY BECAUSE SHE W0UlDNT WANT T0 BE TAlKED AB0UT BECAUSE THATS MEAN.
&& iTS 0KAY THE WAY THiS iS BECAUSE i EVEN G0 THR0UGH THiS.
i UNDERSTAND.
G00DlUCK :]]
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I was going to ask her and tell her about my feelings to her I get scared and clummsy. when that time came last two months ago it didnt happen. 'cause Nacy said "Tony called me and left a message saying he needs to talk to me about something. Sigh...great i think he still likes me. And that Aaron guy i told you about who flirts with me at work ask if he can go to my class trip next week and Joey called and still ask me if i want to go out with him. Whats up with the guys asking me out?" i said "I dont know it happens" my mind ran i was just about to tell her how i feel and she tells me this. now what i dont want to the other person who is crushing on her. plus I'm her best Gal friend and i dont know what to do now. she feels bugged about them and she might feel bugged if i tell her. what should i do now?
i ask what she said to the guys, she told Joey "no", Aaron "sorry but no, only students can go", and she was going to wait till Tony calls her back.
KK WELL YOU LiKE HER AND YOU CANT STOP THAT.. DONT WORRY BOUT THESE OTHER GUYS. OViOUSLY THEY AiNT A BiG DEAL TO HER. SO iF YOU REALLY HAVE STRONG FEELiNGS FOR HER THAN YOU GONNA HAVE TO TELL HER CAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW iF iTS GONNA WORK OUT OR NOT iNLESS YOU TRY iT AND CALM DOWN THE WORST SHE CAN DO iS SAY NO BUT iF YOUR ONE OF HER GOOD FRiENDS THAN SHE iSNT GONNA BE MEAN BOUT iT
HOPE i HELPED
TAYLOR
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links to cute summer/spring clothes, shoes, or outfits???
thanks so much!
RUE 21 0R ABERCR0MBiE.
SOoO CUTE :]]
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hey, im 14f and im looking for a job..most of the places that i apply for they ask for 16 & above..i already have a job babysitting but i want more.. is there anything fun to do at this age? thanks=)
iT C0UlD BE FUNN BUT iT MiGHT N0T BUT i W0UlD TRY A FASTF00D RESTURANT liKE MCD0NAlDS 0R HARDiES 0R S0METHiN.
H0PE J0BS W0RK 0UT . . .
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So there is this guy and me and him dated and when we did it was like all we did was have sex. but it wasnt like that when i was with him i never wanted to leave his arms. i have liked him for years and when he was finally mine i did not want to let him go. but he broke up with me and he kept telling me he still liked me. he broke up with me because he needed to focus on school which was true but he also went out with 3 girls after me. also almost getting one of them pregnant. and he lives about 15 minutes away and i dont see him like i would like. but when i do i get the feeling that he does still like me but other times that he doesnt. i have never cared for someone the way i do about him.
and i saw him this weekend and he has a girlfriend but we were still flirting and cuddling and wrestling it was like we were still together but we werent because we didnt even kiss.
how do i get him back. i really miss him. and im going to see him in like a week.
sorry its long.
KK LiSTEN i KNOW A GUY AND HE iS JUSS LiKE THE GUY YOU LiKE.. HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND BUT YET HE FLiRTS WITH YOU AND TELL YOU HE LiKES YOU AND STUFF.. BELiEVE ME i HAVE BEEN THROUGH THAT. AND i KNOW YOU LiKE HiM AND i BET AT NiGHT HE iS THE LAST PERSON YOU THiNK ABOUT AND THE FiRST PERSON YOU THiNK ABOUT WHEN YOU WAKE UP. AND i KNOW iT FEELS LiKE HE STiLL CARES ABOUT YOU LiKE HE USE TO BUT THiNK ABOUT iT. HE HAS A GiRLFRiEND AND HE FLiRTS WITH OTHER PEOPLE. GUYS LiKE THAT SHOULDNT EVEN MATTER TO YOU. I BET HE iS A SWEET PERSON BUT iF HE DOES THAT TO HIS GIRLFRIEND THEN HE COULD JUST DO THAT TO YOU. i THiNK YOU SHOULD JUST LET HIM GO. THiNK ABOUT iT FROM HiS GiRLFRiENDS SiDE OF STORY
HOPE i HELPED
TAYLOR
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if your leg is sprained, can u buy like a cast thingy, at the store? or somewhere?
YES.
Y00U CAN BUY 0NE AT WAlGREENS 0R EKERD.
0R WAlMART.
A DRUGST0RE iS PR0BABlY THE BETTER 0NES.
H0PE UR lEG GETS BETTER.
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my throat hurts and it feels like its swollen. do i need to like go to the doctor? or do you think its just a sore throat? maybe i have strep?
i W0UlD G0 T0 THE D0CT0R BECAUSE Y00U NEVER KN0W WHAT C0UlD BE WR0NG WiTH Y00UR THR0AT; THERE C0UlD BE MANY THiNGS.
i W0UlD JUST G0 T0 A D0CT0R A.S.A.P.
GETWEll.
♥ TAYl0R.
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This is a really weird question, but how do you use a tampon? Sorry but i just cant figure it out. Thanks.
WE All HAVE TR0UBlE S0METiMES.
S0 iTS 0KAY T0 W0NDER 0R ASK AB0UT THESE THiNGS.
i W0UlD READ THE BACK 0F THE B0X F0R DiRECTi0NS . . . . 0R i W0UlD ASK A Cl0SE FRiEND 0R Y00UR M0THER.
G00DlUCK.
-TAYl0R
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