Question Posted Tuesday November 18 2008, 12:39 pm
basically, i know im pretty, but i just dont see myself as anything great? i dont think im ugly, i just think im... cute. but nothing lyk great even though everyone always tells me im gorgeous. i need help with my confidence? because sometimes i meet boys that i never thought would be interested in me, and then i find out that they actually were they were just intimidated or thought i was stuck up because im scared to talk or be myself around people. i always think people dont like me. any advice on helping build my confidence or helping me be ME around people?!
GilbertMar answered Wednesday November 19 2008, 11:42 pm: Confidence does not come from what you look like, it comes from inside. It comes from knowing you are good, as I like to say, "Even when I'm bad, I'm good at it". We were all made to be good, it's what happens to us after, that screws things up. Stop clinging to thoughts that you're not good enough, your butts too big, or you're not pretty enough, these things don't matter and they are very superficial. They can change in a heartbeat, then what do you have? Know you are good, you were designed that way. You are perfect for what you are meant to do from the day you are born. Others may try, but only you can change that. [ GilbertMar's advice column | Ask GilbertMar A Question ]
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