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How do you get a wine stain out of the carpet? (link)
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This might help.
http://stainmaster.com/page/ideas-and-advice/carpet-care/stain-removal-guide
:)
Good luck
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what should i do i really miss my boy friend and he is far away we see once a while and i cant go to see him were he is because i leave with my parent he only comes to visit me in school, and nown am on holiday i relly miss him him what am i to do?. (link)
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Your going to pick yourself up and say to yourself what am I doing? don't sit there on holiday and say I really miss him.. you need to go out and enjoy your vacation... dont worry about your boyfriend..trust me if he loves /likes you he will come to you and everything will be good:) So right now I know it might be hard ,but go and dont even try to worry yourself about someone else please focus on yourself and put a smile on your face and do something that will keep you busy :)
Good luck
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Hello I want to lose approximately 20 pounds within the next 3 months. I do actively work out about 3 times a week for about 1.5 hours. I have stopped drinking soda all together and i'm working on eating healthy. I was wondering if there was any diet pills that could help me shed the extra pounds? Has anything worked for you? I'm a female if that matters. Thanks and any weight loss tips would be appreciated!!! I do rate thank you everyone. (link)
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To be honest i've known people who use the diet pills... its not good..it just screws you up if you keep up switching diet pills... what im going to tell you like other people... what worked for me and you can look it up and testimonies , Zumba... its in stores to buy as game.. or go to your local gym.. Zumba is this cardio dance class... and if you put in effort you can loose up to 1,000 calories in a class.. trust me if you do that every day.. wow youd definatley be shedding 20 pounds off your back. Dont drink too much soda... I dont know if its such a good idea to not drink Soda because you obviously drink it I dont know how much you do but it can maybe affect your body because its use to it ,but drink LOTS AND LOTS of water.
:) Good luck
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Ok, so I'm 13... I weigh 125 lbs... and I'm 5'3... I think I'm overweight.... my thighs are 31 inches around at the biggest part..... I have a very low self confidence because of my weight... so, what I want to know is.. by the time I'm 16 do you think I would look skinnier because I would grow into myself?? And is it possible that if I grow into myself.. would I lose inches off of my thighs?? I have really big hips and thighs.... I hate it!!! I just dont want to look like this my whole life... also... I have hair all over my stomache!! It is the Darkest around my bellyWbutton though... I have askd my mom if I could bleAch it but she says no all the time,and tells me to just shave it... but every time I shaVe it.. there is little black dots from where I couldn't get down far enough to shave the hair that is starting to grow back in undernEath.. any ideas on tht too?? Oh, and please dont try to comfort me and say stuff like "god made you for who you Are and just accept it" thanks!! (link)
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Im not here to tell you to accept how you are or who you are.. im here to give you some real advice hun. First of all your 13 TRUST ME you will grow into your body you got a long way for puberty. I know it sucks with the low self confidence and self esteem..I dont blame you our world is corrupt with the fake people BUT.. heres my advice. Get your favorite music that makes you motivated and happy... WORK OUT EVERY SINGLE DAY.. for about 2-3 hours trust me.. and eat properly no stupid diets.. just limit the food like little junk food little meat just stuff like that... if you do this for the next 10 years girl... you will be definatley a new person. What I personally suggest have you heard of Zumba?... you can buy it on games or go to your local gym.. imagine this zumba is a dance class and its based on working out every part of your body.. you dont even have to be good at it.. if you put your effort into the classes.. YOU LOOSE UP TO 1,000 CALORIES!! I highly suggest it it really boosts you up. And the hair on the stomach thats normal... either keep shaving it.. or TRY nair.. if not go and wax it :)dont pluck it because it would hurt..
Good luck :) but in the end God made you and you should love yourself.
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what if you are having second thoughts about getting married. (link)
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Definatley talk to your partner about it and sit down alone and really think and reflect on what you actually want.. you better make your mind up soon like the others said its better now then walking down an ile and hurting someone... and be embarassed and of course divorce cost a lot of money and marriages aren't made for divorces..marriage is the bond between TWO people ONLY. Please rethink it and post it on hold like the others said.
Good luck
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My boyfriend and I only see eachother once or twice a week. Sometimes, on those days I see him, he wants to hang out with his friends. He doesn't have many, but when we do hang out with some of them, I get very uncomfortable and I barely talk. I'm not even sure why. From my perspective, I think it's because we both come from different "worlds". ME: 18, just graduated high school with high honors, college plans, looking for a part-time job, have a similar group of friends that have the same goals as I do, not too much of a partier (very rare, but I do..). BOYFRIEND: 20, dropped out of college for now, has a job that pays decently, likes to party but doesn't that much anymore, smokes marijuana daily, and has a group of friends that do the same exact thing....put it this way, we're complete opposites...It's just that, whenever I'm around his friends, I feel so out of place. I always have since we started dating. I'm just not used to hanging around those type of people and it makes me feel like a misfit around them. So, when he mentions hanging out with them, I really don't want to :/ they talk about memories, marijuana, drinking, partying, etc. None of which I can relate to :/. We live so far away from eachother (which is why I don't see him often) so we have no mutual friends. And I can't just call up my friends to head over all of the time because it's an hour drive. Also, I would prefer just to hang out with my boyfriend when I see him, since I don't see him much. But, don't get me wrong, I always give him his "bro time", he can see his friends whenever he wants. He, in my opinion, should be able to just hang out with me and not NEED to be around his friends one/two days a week for a few hours. Please give any advice you guys can :/ thank you. (link)
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What do you know.. opposites attract eh.. but wow.. you sound like a great girl... graduated highschool with high honors..plans... goals... him? REALLY? Smack yourself with a tuna fish..GIRL! PLEASE... he is not worth ANY of your time.. you guys live apart... HE should be spending quality time with YOU... but obviously HIS ''BROS'' are more important then anything.. really? do you do drugs? it seems you don't , please don't waste your time.. you go to college and you will find someone SO SO SO much better.. trust me my advice is DONT talk to him again.. hes really going to lead you on the wrong road if your going to keep this up... how do you know what hes doing? you have no friends with his... you don't know... yeah he can see whenever he wants his friends.. but listen to yourself HE CHOOSES THEM OVER YOU... always wants to hang out with them... he doesn't want to hang out with just you... girl you need to look at yourself in the mirror.. this man should be running after you.. not you after him. Definatley talk to him about it or its going to haunt you.
Good luck
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first im not going to say my age because I dont want to hear that im too young. but im older than 13.
anyway :
so I'm going to try and put this as short as possible. its going to be 2 years that I met this guy we'll call him M. well during the first year, the first couple of weeks I developed a huge crush on M. but I never went for him because he was well more popular than me and I was kind of a real big loser. so I knew he would never date me. anyway so my crush for him during the first year was huge! than well during the second year I became bestest friends with this girl name well S. and she out of no where started to like M. and they ended up dating ! I was definitely happy for both of them. and M's bestfriend T, I kinda liked him. specially because S told me to go for him and that he was flirting with me big time! turns out he was leading me on. anyway back to S and M.. but when she was dating him she always complained he was too shy and she broke things off after a week and a half! I was happy that they broke up because S was always complaining and she didn't give him time to open up. so I still had my huge crush on him, even when they dated. I told S that and she told me I could have him. so anyway I went to this party that my friend let's call her MK was throwing. anyway when I got out of the car they were all outside and M was there! during the party that night we flirted alot and well he had his first kiss that night while playing truth or dare. I was very jealous . anyway we had a strong connection and after that we would text and talk all the time. a month later we started to date, plus he asked me to go to semiformal with him at formal he bought me a rose, which to this day I still have. he has forsure been really shy with me but I never thought of breaking up with him! after 5 months he did eventually loosen up. in that 5 months we did get to know eachother very well. we've now been together 8 months in two days. but I'm worried.. I think we may be going to fast. and I know for a fact it's not his fault ! i thought about this awhile ago really even though we dated for 8 months I gave my first handjob, blowjob, he's fingered me, gave me hickies, played and sucked my boobs, and we had sex and I got on the pill all in 3 months now that I think about it ! do you think this is going fast? please help! thanks in advance (link)
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Hm.. alright well it's not good your with a guy who leaded you on a bit before... but hey! people change lol. So.. no I don't think you guys are going fast at all...trust me it will come naturally as most people told me.. it's okay with what your doing just be careful and wear a condom and/or keep the pills and all. Its not too fast because.. you showed that you've known him more then 8 months so that is fine.. you guys like/love eachother so it really shouldn't matter:)
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Should one shave their pubic hair for someone with whom they are casually sexing? (link)
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Well..depends on what your partner likes..some like it some don't... most like it shaved or waxed..or even leave a little bit of pubic hair.
Either way if your partner likes/loves you they should like it either way or they will tell you.
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I have a bump on my labia minora. It's on the very edge of the lip. I didn't notice the bump until I was wiping myself today after using the washroom and felt an uncomfortable tug. My razor slipped and I cut my labia minora a week or two ago while shaving and thought that perhaps that could be it. What else could cause this lonesome bump? It only hurts when I am wiping. It's as though I am wiping something that is very dry - that kind of tugging feeling. It looks like a blister or pimple of some kind when looking at it from the front, but it's flat on the sides. I don't want to prod at it. What could this be?
Also, my partner is completely faithful to me and I to him. We were both tested within the last 5 months and it came back negative for everything. (link)
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Well.. if you guys both got tested and came out negative.. then it should be alright... but last 5 months? I think you should do one more just to be on the safe side. It might have something to do with the razor you were using... I think it could be a cut or a bump from the razor.. or if you never had this before..you should go see a doctor asap just in case if it doesn't go away or if you never had it before. Have you researched about it? maybe something is up. You should go to the doctor maybe something is happening like an infection or it cant be from your partner ,but go to the doctor asap.
Good luck.
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Ok,so i know asking this will probably get me nowhere as people feel too morally obliged not to answer a question of this magnitude,but i'll give it a go anyway.:the thing is,i am considering suicide very seriously and would like to know what would be the most efficient way to go about it,i'm not going to try and justify my consideration of doing this,but would really appreciate a honest answer. (link)
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What? Really? If you wanted to commit suicide.. you would have done it by now... the fact your asking is your considering it trust me I have been down the same as you... please reconsider what i'm saying. DONT commit suicide. No matter what your situation is please don't for the sake of others and yourself. No matter what happens DONT do it.. you can have an amazing life ahead of you imagine you putting away that thought and going somewhere.. I know you are considering it ,but please don't do this.. my honest answer is to rethink what your going to do... this is a horrible mistake and your going to hurt your family and your close ones. There is something called a miracle and the word of God... I don't know if your religious or not.. but why don't you just try.. do something don't do this.. you have a life ahead of you.. the one shot of your life and your ruining it away? you have a purpose on this planet , please reconsider what your doing, it hurts me knowing someone like yourself has those thoughts... you know whatever brought you down .. thats what they or it wants... you need to strengthen yourself and please dont do this. Have strength,courage,power to come over these thoughts.. you have all those three ,but you are not choosing to bring those up.. your sinking in a massive hole.. please whatever you do don't do this. Life is full of opportunities and I know your head this rant so many times.. but please you can turn this around.
My prayers are with you.
Your unique,special,and no one is like you.. please think.
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Hey, :)
Okay, so I like this guy at my school. He is 2 years older than me. He knows me just by name. But he's just driving me crazy. I just like really like him. My best friend is his best friend too, So i asked him if he could hook me up with him? and my best friend says he's out of my league. My friends say my best friend likes me, but that doesn't matter to that much. I just really want that guy to like me. What should I do? (link)
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Hmm.. well if they were your bestfriend.. wouldn't they just not make such a big deal out of it.. something is fishy about that.. all i'm going to say is... you should watch out with this bestfriend of yours , is your bestfriend doing things that you think he actually likes you? I think hes either protecting you and doesn't want you to get hurt by this ''out of your league guy'' or he just likes you and doesn't want you to be with him. I think I wouldn't be asking THROUGH someone to hook up with you... I think you should be doing that on your own showing that you can be a women and have the guts to ask if they want to hook up. That's the only right way to do it , do it face to face and if he likes you back don't worry he will ask you to hang out and hook up simple as that :).
Good luck.
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i am 22 dis month a femal, i have a fiancy but we dont stay in the same city our relationship is going very well. we love each other so much and have dated for 4 years nown, we just discovered that our genotype re both AS we met early this month and he is still insisting we get married, he believe that God will make it rite. i really love him and want to marry him i dont think i will be happy in this life with out him. pls friends help me what should i do i cry any time i remembers it (link)
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Well.. why dont you guys move to the same city and make it easier for yourselves?Thats amazing, he must be a good man.. he is religious and believes God will make it right which is true, he will make it good and right regardless. Are you religious? because it will calm yourself down. Well if you really love him and want to marry him and can't live without him..then why cry? dont worry about it , well you guys should talk it out and find out where you want to get married and where you guys want to live , either you there, or him where you are , or in between the both cities you both live. You should relax and don't worry about it :).
Good luck :)
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I'm 16/f and I do not have severe acne. Just a few spread around my face with marks of past zits. I went to a Dermo a while ago and he recomended two medications that I ended up not using because I didn't feel comfortable. I just went to a different Dermo today and he gave me perscription medication when I told him I wanted to try to get rid of it without medicine. Anyway, I still don't feel comfortable with the medicines so if anyone is familiar with them, can you give me as much info as you can about them? He gave me instructions to first in the A.M. to cleanse with Neutrogena, then use Cleocin T Solution, then use DCL light textured moisterizer. And in the P.M. to cleanse with Neutrogena, then used Cleocin T Solution, then use DCL light textured moisterizer, and then add a pea size of Ziana at bed time 20 minutes after the moisterizer. I usually just cleanse with Neutrogena at bedtime and I just bought this Neautrogena light night cream instead of using baby lotion after :P tell me what I should do because I really don't want to spend the money on the medicine if I can just use the two Neutrogena things at bedtime for my acne.(I also used St. Ives blackhead and ance scrub and it just made me break out more so I found on the internet that you can't use it every day when the Dermo said it isn't good at all. Is this true?) Please help out! (link)
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Wow. Perfect answer... I use to be in your shoes trust me , I went to doctors to find out what to do about my acne... and it was thousands of dollars... so I finally got a solution!!! Acutane... it actually worked.. it took a year after I was using it and ALL ACNE WAS GONE! Not just was I using it , my friend who had even worse acne and a girl I knew too... all the acne went away can you believe it?! It was a miracle! I think you should consider it , but there is side effects to it I ended up getting really sensitive skin, other then that I am so glad! And im no sure about the Neutrogena thing sorry.. but if you have severe acne im pretty sure you should be using something more stronger. I hope it works out for you!
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HI. I'm from Turkmenistan .I'm nearly 14 . I love one boy . He is older than me. We usually talk together with him . But I'm confused. because I don't know what he think about me. Please help me . (link)
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Well.. do you really like him? if you do.. then why don't you ask him to hang out , or why don't you ask if he likes you back then you won't have to wonder anymore :)
Good luck
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I am a 13 year old girl and theres this kid I like. We just met but my mom knows his grandma and that's how we met. And he lives in a diff state far away from me and he's here only for one more week. We both like eachother and we've hungout twice and we text and talk on the phone and we've almost held hands and hugged and stuff. Idk if he wants to make the first move or not. So how do I make he first move to hold his hand? Any advice helps! Thanks! :) (link)
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I think you should just grab his hand gently touch his hand and grasp it and look at him and smile.
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For the past few months I have been waking up every single night between 2-5am at least once, usually twice.
I find it difficult to go back to sleep again and as a result I constantly feel tired and when I wake up in the morning I never feel well rested.
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You've been waking at that time because your body has programmed itself to wake up at that time. Have you told your doctor about this? because if it keeps happening you know theres pills and stuff they can use to make you feel a lot better.
I think you should first of all not eat too much if you do before you go to bed , apparently drinking milk before bed lets you sleep well.. maybe I don't know if you tried it or not , if you have maybe try that it might help... also, you can try something like switching your sleeping patterns and see if that works.
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Hello, I'm from England and just finished with my college life (6th form). I am waiting for my results to come back in august and then I can hopefully be setting off for university! the thing is I am so scared, it's such a big change for me, I've always had my family with me and we've always had money but my dad has recently abandoned us for another woman and taken almost all the money.
So most of my worries are money wise, since my mother has been a house-wife and is now struggling with money while the divorce is going through and I'll be quite far away by my standards (down in Luton). I'm more than willing to get a job once I get there but my cousin who is all ready at uni said there's no time between having fun and school
Which leads me to the next concern, Socialising. I would rather work and study than be getting drunk but I'm a shy person and don't make good friends easily so I'm worried people will see me and think I'm just strange and ignore me :/.
The final concern I have is about the workload, I don't know what to expect at all and if anyone (particularly those who have done Psychology) could tell me how difficult the shift is from A level to university and how much I am expected to be doing in a given week would be much appreciated.
I guess what I'm asking for is a sort of guide of tips or own knowledge that will help me relax, I'm the only member of my immediate family to get into university so they really aren't much help and besides that, were all falling apart at the seams lol. thank you :) (link)
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Awesome, I hope you do well at and get into University :) Best of luck!Well I am very sorry to hear that your father abandoned you and your family from another women and took all the money. What a shame. I hope you get a good tip from that. Dont worry.. change is great , it lets you experience and meet new people and scenery and etc.
Well yes.. there is no time , but honestly.. you can work and go to university , but you wont have alot of time socializing. So, what you do is you balance it out , you get the job see when you can work and balance it out with your school time and courses and your study periods and trust me it will take up a lot of your time, but it will be worth it!
That's amazing. Please be proud of yourself of working and studying instead of... drinking.. wow that's amazing always keep that , that don't change. Well.. all I can tell you is that if you want friends you know they won't care about your shyness and they will understand and if they want to be friends they WILL be your friends regardless of anything. Try to at university and work with people around you try to talk and see if you can lead a conversation on even with your professors or online friends. You do not seem strange whatsoever so don't even try to put yourself down. You should be very happy , your on your way to university and you will make money and turn your family on the good side no matter what:). If anyone ignores you.... trust me that is NOT a friend.. anyone who ignores you is not worth your precious time and move on.
Well.. from what I know you will have a lot more work then in College or Highschool.. but you will get use to it. People say the first year of it all is the hardest because of all the adjusting , but don't worry you will get through it:).In a week.. well from what I know read up to 70 80 pages a week , quizzes and tests AND LOTS OF ESSAYS!
Well.. all I can say is relax.. just simply relax. Meditate or do something worth while. You are the only one going to university and you should feel proud you accomplished it... don't worry about anything , just relax and dont feel like your falling apart... you should see it as a time of difficulties and your job to unravel and make the seam stronger. Dont worry , just relax go out right now do what makes you most comfortable and just don't think of it.
Best of luck :)
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how do you know if you have it ... ive cut myself about 3 differet times..
ive took pills to try to put me to sleep foever
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Really? Your asking that as a question? The answer is obvious.. yes unfortunatley you do have depression. Just cutting yourself is not right... and taking pills to sleep forever? yeah.. your dealing with bad depression and some suicidal thinking. Please do not think that way.. your only hurting your family and yourself and the people you know.Im pretty sure you wouldnt want anyone to be in the depressed state your in. So , please save yourself and please see someone. You know you have depression if you cry often,cut wrists,think negatively, sit alone ,negative aspect on everything , suicidal thoughts , unhappy , feeling no self worth , no self-esteem and etc. I suggest you don't ask because no one wants you depressed. You can always have a better life you just need to get your head out of the gutter.
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My mom always finds a way to get pissed off with me even when I'm upset. She thinks that i'm too dramatic and vain (which is pretty normal for a teen like me). I try to tone things down around her, but she still finds things that I do wrong. She never even tries to understand me even when her sisters do. Am I being ridiculous about this or should she try to be more sympathetic and understanding?
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The most basic answer to this is that your mother should be more sympathetic and understanding. You should tell her the only reason she thinks your too dramatic and vain is because mostly of her trying to get you mad and angry for stupid things. If she honestly doesn't try to understand you , what's the point? Dont let her get in your way and dont be vain and dramatic dont let her find a reason to pick a fight with you.
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Last night I felt really sad. I'm not sure what it was... I wasn't sure if it's the fact that I knew I was going to miss my boyfriend when he goes off to vacation, and I'm just hoping nothing will happen. Or if it's stress from me trying to make it work. If I was tired. Sad that I'm not exactly "satisfied" from this relationship due to how he treats me... Or because of school? Yesterday night I was with him, and things went pretty well. And I left feeling sad. I was worried about him because he was stressed out about many things and he didn't wanna talk about it. Maybe I was just feeling sad because he's stressed out, he didn't seem as affectionate as he was before? I'm not sure.
But it's the feeling where I really miss someone, or feeling really sad on the inside and you think that if you cry it'd relieve it. Which I did, and it made me feel a bit better but not as much. What do you think it could possibly be?? (link)
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Aw.. well it seems like you really like/love your boyfriend don't you.Well.. one thing that is not good is that he did not want to talk about it.. if your in a relationship... you should talk about it and not ignore your girlfriend/boyfriend I see this all the time. Maybe he was just having a rough time.. he might just not be too thrilled with the whole vacation , a lot is going on in his mind maybe. I've seen this happen before, don't just say dont want to talk about it.. because that is just not healthy already.
I think crying helps...I think you should just put it aside... don't cry if you don't actually know whats happening with him. I think you should do something for yourself and not get treated like crap , you obviously care and trust me it seems like hes not doing his prt and you can do SO SO SO much better. Please don't sit here and weep , I know you can go and have a good time , go out and meet people, go and have some fun. If he wants to he will come to you.
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