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I've noticed over the past year or so that I have been having a serious perspiration problem. I sweat when I get nervous (or over heated, of course) and even just a little seems to leave unsightly "pit-stains" and give me sweaty smelly feet. I have tried using Secret Clinical Strength and odor eaters foot spray but all they do is mask the odor. I'm still just as wet when I use these products. The problem is that it's a vicious cycle because thinking that I have sweat stains on my clothes or that I smell bad makes me nervous about my appearance which makes me sweat more. Thanks for your help!

I've tried secret too and it didn't work for me either. you should really try certain dri, you can get it at most drug stores and its about $7 but really works.

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i saw this movie about a year ago and its kind of a scary movie but theres these young adults and they play this game on a laptop and when their character dies in the game one of the people dies in real life????

stay alive

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my dog doesnt like eating dog food
so wat can i feed her instead of dog food

its a dog, thats what its suppose to eat. eventually when she figures out thats all shes getting she will have to start eating the dog food.

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There is this song, it is a rap song with a featured singer. The featured singer is bobby valentino and the song is called "you". But I can't find it cause I don't know the main rapper is. Could someone tell me his name please. Thank you.

a.p.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eJeJEMNQcU

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Hi,I'm going to get my belly-button periced and I was wondering what they use and ,does it hurt I;m scared about the whole thing but my best friend is coming with me.What do I do?

When I got mine done it actually helped me a lot to watch youtube videos of people getting theres done.
Plus it doesn't hurt for all that long, just about the first hour, then the first couple days it hurt to bend down.

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how can you give advice if you're not open-minded? i see a lot of answers on this site saying negative things towards certain religions and sexual orientations. and lots of labeling (preps, emos, etc).

i think that if you're going to try to help someone, you need to accept what they have to say and answer respectfully. am i the only one who feels this way?

yeah your the only one who feels that way, all the rest that agreed with you are just punks and want a good feed back.

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ok im in 14/f and i still dont have a cell& all my friends joke around how im like the only 14 yr old that doesnt have a cell. & i hate when boys call my home cause my mom is always like who is that?how do you know him ? where do you know him from ..like that etc..
i likek tried everythitng. i alwasy take walks with my friends and she always calls ther cell and i go if they didnt have cells wat would u do ..nothin..that exactly why i need a cell or what if i wasnt with my friends and you wanted me home you cant contact me.
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO CONVISE MY PARENTS TO GET ME A CELL. my brother got a cell in 7th grade.
& i told her to buy it online its cheaper and she is like no we would just go to verizon store and we see how much for the phone and plan is & im like wtf it cheaper online and their not going to buy it anyway cause their weird like that....

Just go to the verizon store and see them, a phone is a phone. It's better than nothing, I don't know why your stressing it. Verizon has a lot of good looking new phones. Plus shopping online you have to wait for shipping and get a plan or it could be prepaid or something. Walking in the store you get it right then and there.

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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks

1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places

I'm going to tell you the truth, I'm not even gonna go soft on you. yeah your being a slut. Your a ho, a slut, a whore, all of that. And I can't wait for you to catch an std, do you think your invincible or something? Wait until their girlfriends come after you, ha your gonna get ya ass whooped. I have no respect for girls like you and neither do a lot of others.

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What is a website that offers free pen pals, that is safe, & most importantly FREE

I think it was pretty rude how that other advicer answered your question. I mean shes on this site to give advice not tell others go look for themselves. Or theres this thing called roleplaying on myspace.

http://www.penpals.com

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I have a friend that is always breaking up then BEGGING to be my friend agian. should I stop her for good or just live with it and stick it out?

Talk to her about it, sit her down and just tell her how you're feeling about the friendship. If she still keeps breaking it off with you, just let her go. I mean when the time comes you might really need her to be there for you and she probably won't. A friend should be loyal, and someone that you can trust.

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Well when my boyfriend asked me out, he also told me that he liked my cousin, too. Of course I was sad, but also happy that he asked me out!! =) But now I am starting to think that he likes her more than me. This makes me want to burst out crying =*(. What can I do??

Try to keep your boyfriend away from your cousin, but that will get tiring always trying to impress more than your cousin and having to worry about who he likes more.
Honestly I think you should talk to him about it, and just warn your cousin that you two are dating so she could get the heads up to stay away from him. But don't trust any of them, if you suspect anything go with your instinct.

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if you finger yourself and you find blood
what does this mean?

Depending on how much blood there was, you could of popped your cherry, cut yourself with your nails or something, or you could of just been going on your period.

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i have hairy arms(NOT ARMPITS!) and bcoz my hair is dark its REALLY noticeable. wat can i do???!!??

Now that it's the summer your not going to want to went long sleeves all the time. I actually shaved mine and it doesn't grow back how people think it will. It takes a while for it to grow back, and it doesn't grow back thicker or anything.
While laying out in the summer I got darker and its hard to notice now. And some people have hair that lightens so it'll blend with your skin too.

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Male, 16 years old.

Sometimes I think I dress badly in school.
Could anyone give me tips on a new look that's nice looking but not considered prepish? Places to get clothes, anything basically. I don't know if it makes any difference but I'm white also. :)

I don't think the first advicer realized your a male, and not wanting to dress prepish. People just make an ass out of themselves by assuming.
Old Navy, The Gap, JC Penney.
If you get new clothes you're gonna need a new pair of sneakers too.
Finish Line, Foot locker.

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what i meant was is it okay if i EVER have one bf and one gf. i have no one right now, but what do i do if i find out i am lesbian or bi and my parents want me to be straight????????????????

I wouldn't tell your parents until you're very serious about her. I mean you might find out in the long run that you are attracted to girls.
Ask her if she told her parents yet, I mean she should understand because both of you are either going through the same thing right now or she already went through it and might be able to explain and comfront you.

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what are some new rap songs.
some good ones.
they can be old too but still good.

Right now I'm listening to, and I love all their music, especially BIG. It's not much artists but I could listen to their music for hours, plus they have tons of good songs.
Notorious BIG
Tupac
Lil Wayne

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So I would like to do something different to my hair, but something that would look good.

My hair naturally is dark brown, but I currently have light (carmel and blonde) highlights on the top, and its dark on the bottom. I really would like something different though, but that would look good!

Anyway this is my hair normal & highlighted;
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v330/MqSoCcErSwEeTiE/n583148295_88537_6926.jpg


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v330/MqSoCcErSwEeTiE/chloeee.jpg


Maybe you can try scrunching your hair or cutting your hair to have bangs. I like the color of your hair with the highlights in them, you could try doing your whole head that color and not only the top.

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so this is a random question but about how often does a normal pretty girl get looked at from guys? (the answer doesnt have to be perfect and dont tell me it depends on the type or smth :P )
i dont mean girls who look like supermodels though.

A pretty girl will get looked at often, but I pretty girl with a nice body will get looked at even more. Just be confident, guys will notice that. Mostly what you look for in a guy is what they look for in a girl.
God looks, nice body, nice hair, nice teeth and so on.

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ive recently graduated and my boyfriend and i are going away to different colleges. I know i know, most people say that high school relationships usually dont last once people go the opposite ways after graduation but we are pretty faithful and sure that we will make it through this. So, i wanted to get him like a bag of things he can take with him to college so he will have stuff to remember me and feel less homesick because he is practically going across the country. If you are a guy what would you want from your girlfriend to think about her? and if your a girl what you want to give your boyfriend?

You can make a photo album of you to, or just throw in a couple pictures. A bottle of your perfume, a letter to him explaining how much you care about him. A mixed cd with meaningful songs.
From him I would want a shirt to sleep in at night, or sweater. Pictures that he has of you two. And basically everything else I said up there.

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hey^_^ i want to ask how wuz it like your very first day of college?were you guys nervous and scared?is it easy making freinds in college or are people going to act mean?im actually a very freindly person who likes getting to know new people but since im going to travel to america for college im kinda nervous about how to make freinds and how people might act>.

Well I haven't been to college yet but my first year of high school I went to a new school and I was really nervous, but you've gotta get through it and do stuff that you don't also want to. Just be yourself, it sounds like an obvisous answer but it's true, you don't want to act like someone you're not. Be friendly, and smile/laugh a lot. Make friends with your roommate, and have her/him introduce you to some of their friends. Ask people to go out to lunch with you, ask them to study and stuff. Go to the parties, I mean college isn't all about partying but as long as your doing good in school you should have some fun.

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