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I Think My Boyfriend Likes Her More
Well when my boyfriend asked me out, he also told me that he liked my cousin, too. Of course I was sad, but also happy that he asked me out!! =) But now I am starting to think that he likes her more than me. This makes me want to burst out crying =*(. What can I do??
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Try to keep your boyfriend away from your cousin, but that will get tiring always trying to impress more than your cousin and having to worry about who he likes more.
Honestly I think you should talk to him about it, and just warn your cousin that you two are dating so she could get the heads up to stay away from him. But don't trust any of them, if you suspect anything go with your instinct.
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Talk to your boyfriend about it, but not in a whiny way. Approach him maturely, and ask him if he still likes your cousin. If he says no, and he doesn't have a record of lying, I would believe him. Plus, if he really liked her more than you, he'd probably be dating her.
Here are some signs that a guy likes a girl, so if he's doing any of them, he might still like her:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
--Jack
(16/m)
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