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best friends and potential boyfriend.
has anyone dated a guy that was one of your good friends, but your best friends [well except my best best] cant stand? how did you handle it? what was it like? basically any experiences/insight? btw keeping them seperated doesnt always work bc we all hang out in the parkin lot after school together bc there are mutual friendships obviously.
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Yeah, my experience just happened haha. I liked this guy who none of my friends liked, and they made fun of him, and it put me down, and I didn't want to tell them that they were wrong about him, because I got to know him really well by talking to him, until I found out that he was talking to some hoee on myspace and lied to me about it twice. So I agreed with my friends, and my advice would be this:
Just don't let your friends change your mind. Just because they think something about him that you don't agree with and that they can't stand him, don't let their opinions deter you from liking him. How you feel should make your decision for you, not somebody elses, because it's not their life, it's yours. yuh know?
I never went out with that guy, but my best friend knew I liked him, and she couldn't stand him, hated him at best, but eventually she came around...until that guy messed everything up. In time, your friends will see that your being happy is all that matters.
Good luckk
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Please please please dont say anything like "If you dont like him I guess you dont have to be my friend" or "I cant be friends with someone that dosnt like my friends". Because someone said that to me and I thought they didnt want me to be there friend so I just told her what it sounded like and that we wernt friends anymore. I'm sorry I couldnt give more advice but I'm almost positive that is the worst thing you can do in that situation.
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