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I'm 16 years old...my names Angela...ok...well where do i start...ok i'm really close friends with a few boys from my school. Well once of my guy friends... we joke around and push and hit each other and stuff. I always go to hise house and he always comes over. But then my boyfriend thinks were always flirting. Then there's this other guy that I'm close friends with. I'm cool with him too. But my boyfriend HATES him. Then there is this other guy...close friend....I was at his house a few days ago.We were havin a good time. Then he started pushin me around and stuff.I took it in the friendly way. We were layin down and we started to talk. He kept puttin his arm around me and huggin me. I started askin him who he thought was attractive. And one of those girls were me. Then it was just starting to scare me. I started to feel uncofortable so I left. He was tellin me not to go though. He ran after me and said...wouldnt it be cool to have friends with privelages. Then i asked who would he want later that day. And he said me.And to top it all off...hes my best friends boyfriend and one of my boyfriends best friends. What should I do!!! help!!
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ok well first of all you need to think about how you feel about your boyfriend and if you still like him than stay with him otherwise if you aren't sure if you do still like him than you have to see which of your friends you like the best. and if this one guy is scaring you or creeping you out than you should tell one of your guy friends but not your boyfriend because he might overreact. leave me another question if you need any advice
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Okay:
Put yourself in my position, say you like a girl. But, you have heard they like someone else. You can do one of two things, either keep quiet and stay quiet. Or you can play the risk card and ask her out(You dont give a F if it makes you lok like a total loser) What would you do? In my opinion this girl is absolutly BEAUTIFUL. She is smart, funny,great friend,awsome all-around person. And like I sais absolutely gorgous(sp?)
What Would *You* do? (link)
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coming from another guy who was in your situation you should take the chance. i was in basically the same situation and i regret the fact that i didn't tell her how i feel and i'm here wishing that i had told her
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Okay, I like this guy alot, I even think i love him, i mean i try to stop liking him but i just cant, but i'm pretty sure he likes me too. like... he will write me a note and insist on me writing back, and he tried to grab my hand but i yanked away, but me and him are good friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship by liking him. and I dont want to be keeping my feelings for him wrapped up. what should i do please help... I RATE HI!!!
ohh yeah we are both 14 (link)
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well what you really have to do is see if you do have feelings for him and if you do start spending more time with him before you go out with him to see if he feels the same way.
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ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
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yes you are being way too pushy by trying to make someone go out with you.
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ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing??? (link)
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it was definitly right for you to tell him
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Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!! (link)
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if this is true than i think you might need to be open about it to your friend and tell him that you are having feelings for him, if you are, if you change your mind than dont tell him because he will have gotten his hopes up
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okay so i think that i have found the love of my life! hes reall sweet to me and funny and i kno he would make a good husbnd.. or well.. long term bf. but the thing is im only thing the 8th grade! is this extremely like not right? i mean yea i kno i have my whole life ahead of me still .. adn i kno we are both gonna date other ppl but i want him soo bad! can some one please talk some sense into me? (link)
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just try going out with the guy and see where it goes from there
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My boyfriend and i have been going steady for almost a year. We have had our differences and when we fight i usually turn to one of my guy friends. Lately, my guy friend and i have been flirting a lot and i am really starting to like him. i really like my boyfriend, but my thoughts haven't been about him lately. i think about my other guy friend all of the time. i don't know if i should break it off with my boyfriend or not. i don't want anybody to get hurt; what should i do? Please help! (link)
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you could ask your guy friend if he has feelings for you and if he does than you might want to break up with your boyfriend for the other guy because its not fair to you or the two guys if u still go out with your boyfriend you dont like.
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My best guy friend (tom) has a girlfriend. His best guy (jake)friend likes me. I like my best guy friend (tom). Should I wait for tom to break up with his girlfriend or should I go ut with jake?
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well if it looks like tom and his gf will be going out for a long time then you might try goin out w/ jake if he seems like a nice guy.
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Okay well Im going out with this kid Lucas... he is a year younger then me... Im 13 hes 12... I have never made out with anyone... & I am really ashamed of that kinda... idk... so yea weve been goin out for 3 weeks today... and hes on my bus n all my friends are stupid n they are always tryin to get us to make out n stuff... n I just feel like weird especially on the bus where everyone can see us... I dont know if he has ever made out with anyone... I think he has because his last g/f he went out wit he was with for almost a year... also in the back of my mind I keep thinking that he doesnt really like me and i cant help but be paranoid... n Ive been ignoring sitting with him on the bus n stuff just to avoid kissing n stuff... idk..
So I guess im just asking for advice on what to do about kissing and how to stop being so paranoid! any help you can give would be great!!
thanx so much! (link)
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well first of all don't worry about what everyone says and just wait for the right time. also as for him not liking you, you just need to start to trust him and believe that he is good at heart.
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Okay theres this guy that I don't kno but I think hes really hott and I hear hes very nice! My friend talks to him and she just found out the other day that he likes her! I am kinda jealous I admit because I have had my heart broken so many times. She doesn't kno if she wants 2 go out with him bc this other guy likes her and she could picture herself more with him...all though she really wants to be with this guy. She recently broke up with her BF and is still sorta in love with him. I don't have all this stuff going on in my life. I'm just trying to find the right guy! and im kinda disappointed bc this guy doesnt even kno im alive but i want him to bc i think he could b right for me! please help! i need it!
~ VERY lost and confused...and heartbroken ~ (link)
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First you should wait for your friend to make her decision and then you could tell the guy that you like him.
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Ok, I Love this guy i know and i dont mean just another crush,ive had plenty of those, this time its diffrent, this time i really think im in love, hes so perfect, and its not like i just like his looks or money or anything cause hes not like rich or anything and he really isnt what most people would consider to be hot hes just really nice and funny and i can never stop smiling when im around him, but i know for like a fact that he dosent like me,so my question is...how do i just get over him? Please, I need someones help!
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u have to tell him how you feel and then you can get over him or maybe he'll start to have feelings for you.
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hi
well this might be kinda long cause it needs a lot of explaining so im sorry but here goes...
i met a guy a long time ago and he was like...head over heals for me...at the time i didnt like him so i brushed him off, telling him i was interested in another guy.
it was only a bit ago that i realised how much he really did like me - he remembered everything and was so nice and kind and always there for me - an ive realised how much i appreciate that. he has now moved on and likes other people and i think i have feelings for him. now were like best friends and i cant tell him coz i dont wanna ruin things.
do you guys think that i 'like' him because i feel like ive missed my chance, because i cant have him or something? or do you think i genuinely liked him and realised it 2 late?
thanx in advance 4 any help. xxxx (link)
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ok well i definitly think you should tell him how you feel. if you two are good friends than he'll understand and who knows he might like you too.
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*Advicenators plz don't delete this!*
I know this is vague, but a lot of people have different opions or different things they've heard. So, what are some signs that guy likes you, and some to show a guy that you like him. I've read some in a magazine once but I'd like more opinions! Thanks! (link)
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ok comin from a guy if he stares a lot or smiles when he sees you are two main signs a guy likes you and to show a guy u like him just throw hints and let him know ur single but don't sound too desperate make him work guys love a challenge.
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14/f Ok well I like this guy and I wanna tell him I like him but I dont wanna sound stupid and want him to think Im weird... we are friends i guess we talk on the phone sometimes but not that often I have 2 classes with him and lunch but I dont talk to him at all at school(hes shy also)... but when i do talk on the phone with him he makes me smile so much! I kinda wanna write him a note but I dont know if that would be a stupid thing to do...how did u tell a guy u liked them... Im not sure if I should even tell him... and If I should I dont know what to say... but another thing I know he doesnt like me cause he told me who he liked and that he was gonna ask her out(yea she has everything I want)... so yea does that mean I shouldnt even bother... I am confused I just have liked him for like ever... what Should I do... and if I should tell him... what should I say and how should i say it... I am lost and confused?!?!
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I think coming from a guy a note would be a great idea. That way it wouldn't be too embaressing for you if he said no but also let him no u like him.
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ok well i have a boyfriend and everything and i love him, but lately ive been talking to this other guy whos liked me since this past summer, and im starting to like him, and he knows this, but my boyfriend has no idea about whats going on.. he gets suspicious and asks me if i like him but i tell him to not worry about it. i like both these guys a lot and i dont know what to do. when im with my boyfriend he makes me feel like im a princess, but when im with the other guy, i feel totally comfortable with myself.. i dont want to hurt either one of them but when it comes down to it, i know i have to. Help Me Please! ive done everything i can to try to make up my mind but nothing seems to work. (link)
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Well i think you should definitly take a break with your bf. if you are thinking that you like anotheer guy then its only fair if you tell him and see if anything could happen with the other guy
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Am I a loser if I am 14/F and never had a b/f? (link)
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No you are definitly not a loser some people just need more time than others 14 is still very young.
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Im in love with this guy, we've been dating for 10 months now-- and at first i knew he loved me too.. but now it seems like he doesnt anymore.. i feel miserable somtimes because, im over here and i love him soo much, but he wont even look twice at me.. i feel like i've lost the that "thing" that first made me attractive to him. but the other day we hung out and everything seemed just fine we had a really good time (that was 3 days ago) and i havent heard from him since then.. wut do i do? is he using me? does he really like me? or is he just confused? im worried that im loosing him everyday, and i hate feeling like that because i love him so much and would do anything for him.. i just need sum answers b/c i cant figure out wuts goin on... >he didnt even buy me a christmas or a birthday present (link)
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ok one thing that i think is always true is that no one should make you feel upset because they aren't there with u. if i was u i would prob get rid of him becuz there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do? (link)
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If yourfriends will make fun of you or him for likin him then they're not ur real friends and you should definitly go for it.
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i am with a good man but i cant help the feeling that he is holding me back from something greater and i have been curious about other men what they treat their women like n such thoughts (link)
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The only thing that you can really do is see how another man would treat you but if you really like your man than you should stay with him.
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