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Gender: Female
Location: D-Town
Occupation: -none-
Age: 14
AIM: x3ashleyjean
Member Since: March 3, 2005
Answers: 80
Last Update: August 24, 2007
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I got my belly button pierced on the 11th and everything is cool its not green or anything and ive been cleaning it all the time with this thing called "Bactine" its a first aid liquid thats kills germs and its like for cuts and stuff so yeah the thing is that its starting to scab around the top but its like dry puss i think its call like a yellow guwwy thing and it doesnt hurt or anything i can sleep on my belly since i gotten it i just wanna know if its ok? (link)
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Yeah that's fine. I've had my belly button done for 4 years, and at first it does it, and some other times when it feels like it wants attnention. The navel is a really egotistic peircing, it needs love too.
So just clean it and move the ring and you'll be just finnee. =]
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I am not a virigin, but for some reason I have bled a couple of times when my boyfriend and I messed around (fingering). It usually hurts when he first starts but then its fine.. but I just feel sore afterwards and bleed a little bit sometimes. Is this bad or normal? (link)
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Normal.
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does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain.. (link)
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If your hymen has been penetrated than it technically means that you are no longer a virgin.
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do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
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I'm not gonna call you a slut, because that's just mean. But...13 is WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY too young for anything.
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Well, ive had sex with 2 guys..
1st guy-had sex with 1 girl
2nd guy-had sex with at least..8 girls
and all of a sudden ill be sitting with both legs up..n i smell this odor comig from.."downstairs" and it was never there before..i shower everday-and im scared it might be a STD (link)
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If your scared that it might be an STD than go get checked. The worst thing you can do is not get checked because after waiting many STD's can get worse and cause inflamation, fallopian scaring, and can lead to you not being able to have children. Just go to your doctor or gyno and get your "downstairs" checked. =] If you have any other symptoms then let me know and I can help because I know alot about STDS.
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my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex. (link)
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If you need to be asking a website if your ready to have sex, it shows that you are not mature enough to handle the situation. It's a decision you must make for yourself, and it seems to me like you are not ready for it. And I don't want to sound mean either, I'm saying it seriously.
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My cousin has been masturbating since she was 3 years old. Is that normal? She is 17 now. (link)
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Yes, little boys even get boners when they are infants.
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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There is NO way you are ready to have sex. Going out for over like 8 months is more reasonable. You are no where near that. He's probabaly like one of your first boyfriends and you feel a need to automatically trust and love him, and feel like he does too. It happens alot with young relationships, but the odds are, your not in love. Eventually you could be. And I know, I HATE when people tell me I'm not or haven't been in love. It pisses me off so much. But seriosly, you barely know what this stuff is all about, it's so much more than just having sex. You need to be emotionally ready, and at 14 no one is. You need to give yourself time to know what love is, and that could take years. I'm saying all this as a person who is just deciding to have sex after about 9 months. It's a huge huge huge step and cannot be taken lightly. You need to reevaluate your priorities and understand that you are no where near sex, or love with your boyfriend of the week. If you want to talk more about it you can message me or instant message me at x3ashleyjean because I really don't want you to do something you'll regret 100%.
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my dad watches porn late at night when me ans my sis are suppposed to be a sleep...i hate it..does he not love my mom...i don't know wat to do...i told my mom and she was really disapionted...i wish i could help i don't know wat to do...i'm scared they're going to get a divorce... (link)
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Don't worry so much. A lot and I mean A LOT of guys and girls watch porn. All ages. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love your mother, he just watches porn. I went through the same thing and I felt the same way, I hated it. I thought it was disgusting. But after I grew up a little bit I realized that it's a normal thing and TONS of people watch it. Don't let it upset you.
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me and my boyfriend had sex about 3 months ago and i still havnt got my period.I have pains in my stomach really bad and bad headaches.My boyfriend didnt have a condem on him so we took a risk.I'm 15 and i can get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing.She doesnt know i even had sex.What should i do????????????????????
please help me! (link)
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You really need to be checked by your doctor, if you can't do this, go to a teen clinic or get a pregnancy test and go from there. 3 months is a long time and you need to find out asap. If you are pregnant you need to tell your parents so they can help you right away. Waiting to tell them probably wouldn't be a good thing to do in your situation. Your so young and you need to go to a doctor and discuss your options. Good luck. Write me back if you need support. =]
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okay well, im 14 years old and my bf does foreplay, where he sucks my breasts. and i was reading a magazine somewhere and it said that one time a girl did the same thing, and she started producing milk because her body thought something needed it, because her boyfriend was sucking it. im so scared im going to start producing milk, please help! (link)
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Your body will only produce milk if you are deffinetly pregnant. Don't believe everything you read in mags.
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do guys care if a girl has really small boobs i mean when you are like having sex and they take your bra off would they be little turned off about it please help i am 15 105pounds and have an A cup and i feel really uncomfortable about it and i really want to have sex soon so guys what would you think (link)
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If your not confident in having this guy your about to have sex with seeing you then your not ready to have sex. If a guy truely cares for you, your cup size will not matter to him. If it does, he's a scumbag.
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is there such thing as half-sex?
like, with my ex-boyfriend,
he fingered me at the movies and was sucking my tits.
i KNOW that's not sex,
but is that considered as half-sex?
like, a halfway there sex? (link)
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There is no such thing as half sex. And fingering isn't even the closet you can get base wise. And you did this at the movies?.. But yeah, no half sex. Spooning is closer though. "Dry sex".
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Would a denim jacket & khacki pants look good together? I can't find ANYTHING to match a denim jacket?? ANY IDEAS?! (link)
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Anything matches denim. For instance..denim mathces denim. Black. White. Khakis. Anything really. Except trash bags.
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I know this is kinda gross but... i kind of fart... a lot! I have gotten a nickname...Frootlootsfartsalot. they call me FLFA for short. :(. To make matters worse everybody knows i am the farter!My mom says only men can fart but i cant help it! it feels good! I NEED UR HELP!!!!!
- Frootlootsfartsalot AKA FLFA (link)
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Take Beano and there'll be no gas. ( Beano is a type of gas relief, like GAS-X. Not a real bean...)
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whats the worst thing that could come out of..me getting fingered? like what are all the risks.
thank you (link)
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There's nothing that could be bad, I guess if they did it really hard or deep then you could penetrate your hymen. But that's pretty much it.
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when a woman cums, and the guy is eating her out is it normal if the guy doesnt like the way it tastes? (link)
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Yea, because it's nasty.
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My dad doesn't let me straighten my hair. Like there's nothing in this world that will let him let me straighten it, but I straighten my hair! I'm going to camp soon so I safely snuck it into my bag. One problem how do I straighten it at home? I have to pack my suitcase a week early and mail it in which has my straightner. I can't borrow my friends straightner because they don't straighten their hair. I'm going on a plane... I can't bring it as carry on because if they inspect my bag my dad will see it and kill me!! I'm not checking any bags, so what do I do??
I'll rate 5s (link)
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Just do something else with it for the time being..
but I have a Q for you...
why doesn't he let you straighten it??
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im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head
please help
ill rate 5 no matter what (link)
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This guy sounds majorly skecthy. You shouldn't meet people off line. They could be sexual predators, and never give your address, full name, or any personal info. Be safe when online, the internet is a lovely, but dangerous place.
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Ok well I have a friend lets call her kim and she is f/15 and she is a freshman but she is going out with a senior that is 18 is this illegal? And if it helps I know that they have had sex and about everything in the book. But I just wanted to know if it was allowed or not she asked me and I had NO idea. Thanks ahead for your help! I rate high (link)
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I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18, but my parents love love love him and they don't mind, so the dating isn't illegal. When they have sex they're illegal, any intamacy is illegal, but if her parents know about their relationship as boyfriend & girlfriend, I'm sure they know she atleast kisses her boyfriend. So it kinda depends.
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